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I'm slowly working on healing. I found out about attachment theory and that I was avoidant through therapy. After reading more about it and learning how it has shown up in my life, I've been able to p…

How do I show that I like her if she’s interested? — A few months ago a girl liked my insta comment and she looked similar to the girl liked my instagram comment and she looked similar to the girl at uni and I thought were were the same person. Last we…

Parents recorded Csam of me - don't know what to do — I'm not sure if this is too graphic but I feel that I need some validation because I keep questioning my reality and if it was really abuse. When I was 10, I was watching home videos with my parents …

i realized i've been saying "i'm fine" so much that i actually convinced myself — i've always been the "chill" friend. the one who's like yeah i'm good with whatever, i don't care where we eat, no it's fine you pick, i'm easy. and for a long time i thought that was a good thing?? l…

I (F30) am confused on mixed signals. Does he (M32) like me or not? — I am “talking” to this guy that I’ve known since last summer. But there’s some complexities that are making me overthinking our texting vs in person interactions. We started talking in November as I…

Saw my old teacher who bullied me in public. — When I was in highschool I had a teacher that refused to round up my grade so I could go to university when I needed a 70 percent average. I ended up having an art teacher who helped me clean the art…

This girl is ruining my self appreciation — I've known this girl for almost 3 years now, I'm 19, I was 16 when I first knew her, I got attached very fast to her, and she too did, we believed we were soulmates, we talked for a while before she s…

I told my mom she’s the reason nobody visits her anymore and now i kinda hate myself for it — so i told my mom it’s basically her fault nobody visits anymore and now im just sitting here staring at my phone feeling like absolute trash and also kind of justified which is a gross combo tbh. She…

Nmom showed up at my job today and I'm more shaken up than I should be — I've been working at a coffee chain for a year now with no sign of her, she's a mcdonalds coffee person anyway. Only one coworker knows i'm NC (she confided in me about some family problems so i did t…

Have you had any experiences where the beings that interact with you displayed an amazing sense of humour? — **Specifically of the good natured kind**. Events that were seemingly playful, funny, kinda like an inside joke between friends, trolling *****(which NGL it feels like the whole phenomena is in a way …

My mom doesn't get asexuality... — I (17F heteromantic ace sex-repulsed) came out to my mom as asexual a few months ago. I didn't know the term asexual until just a few months before that. I hardly even knew I was different at all beca…

Boyfriend hit me/ left me, mother doesnt give a flying fuck how Im doing, life's just absolutely amazing (Vent) — Boyfriend hit me for the first time, then said its over, told me to leave the apartment Im renting from him, and is ghosting me since then (long story how that happend but Imma try to explain shortly…

Something crazy happened — So I have been into manifestation stuff for a while started from subliminals and so on. So yesterday me and my younger sister were sitting and watching TikTok when a girl came into my fyp saying that …

I like when there’s tension in my home — This sound weird, but All my life, I was used to unstable environments. I was used to my mom coming home angry every day. I was used to my parents fighting every day. The only thing that was stable wa…

Is texting and checking up on the girl too annoying for her or a turn off — so to start with I met a girl on a game kr started if normal it's been like what 4 days I wasn't even intrested she gave sort like mixed signals once she sounds like she wants to know me more once she…

Am I the problem...? — I was asking my mom if we should visit the bird that I need to take care of, and she was like "bird?" and i said, "the bird," and she said "what bird?" and i said "The bird!" and exclaimed it, like fr…

I’m so miserable and I want a mom — Yesterday was my birthday. The day before, I wanted to do something with my mommy because we have a bad relationship but it’s not really on my part bc she refuses to try and talk to me or flat out ign…

So many examples I can think of lol. In general, after our honeymoon phase was over, she deactivated and started pulling away. I assumed this was caused by anxiety, so instead of calling out her dism…

Just a vent. I guess romantic relationships are not for me. It never works. When I am single I feel fine, never lonely and never bored. But then whenever I start having feelings for a man sooner or…

I once matched online with a woman who said she was in the middle of a divorce. I was fine with that. She let it slip at some point that she was excited to not have to do his laundry anymore That w…

Oh! Does it count if it wasn't dating per se but lost attraction for a Seinfeld reason? She couldn't stir ground beef. Admittedly she was pretty young (19-20) and this was like 8 years ago. I was to…

Hi! I don’t think there’s anything to navigate because you’ve been so upfront with what you want and that your mind isn’t gonna change and I think he thinks he can manipulate you to change your mindse…

Sadly sounds all too familiar to me. In the beginning it was so many wonderful words. You look great in that shirt you can’t go out in that I’ll lose you. You’re so handsome You saved me from m…

Yes same!! The therapist asked us our goals for therapy. I said better communication so we can spend more time together and she was like 🤷🏼‍♀️ but definitely came with an agenda to show I'm the prob…

This happened to a friend of mine, her mom used the same OB/Gyn and they just assumed her mom knew that she was pregnant with their third. Mom went in for her yearly and they congratulated her on the …

Not mocking but certainly blaming me for not knowing. Once I asked one of them if they ever teached me to organize/clean my room and she was like 'oh I'm pretty sure we must have shown you once or twi…

i was talking to my therapist about how i've always felt like i wasn't enough for my parents and she was like "maybe your parents weren't enough for you". that hit me.

for everyone: A PERSONALITY DISORDER CANNOT BE DIAGNOSED IN A SINGLE SESSION! It takes really getting to know someone and seeing their patterns over time. Like you aren't even supposed to diagnose a p…

Thank you for this 🥲. I know there’s always hope, and I’ll see it at some point. And she’s not replaceable, but maybe I’ll find someone better. It’s the little things I did I feel that she took for g…

I got random fight with women in reddit cause she can't understand "culture different between op and her pov" and she was like "i accused her" and that's when I realised I will not take anything perso…

I ate a bunch of aspirin in 5th grade bc I thought i didnt want to be here anymore. Instantly regretting it i prayed & prayed. And cried and acted weird around my mom and she was like omg wtf is wrong…

I talked to my therapist about some of my parents' stranger behavior and straight out asked her if it was SA and she was like "No, not specifically, but it's making you feel like it is because it's so…

Yes, they often say that... A married man that was in our circle of work colleagues was always hitting on my then girlfriend of 4 years. I pulled her up about it and she was like ewww, he's not my t…

After thoroughly investigating my wife and all the stuff I read on Reddit, I feel like I have a very good read on sketchy, cheater, or cheater-adjacent behavior. Perfect example: there is a cashier …

To be frank, I don't think a cheater would think to hide the texts but not hide the actual pictures. Those took time and effort to take, and she was likely thinking a lot about how she would look in t…

Right!! Even being in my second trimester I am horrried looking back at how unlike myself I felt. I’m truly worried if I were to get pregnant again in the future as I am worried about feeling that way…

I’m not even kidding I got in a car accident the other day and my car got totaled and she was just hugging me but I’m just a evil spirited way I know it cause she knows I hate her touch and she was li…