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r/AvoidantAttachmentUpdated 32 days ago
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Input wanted — avoidants, what has helped you heal?

I'm slowly working on healing. I found out about attachment theory and that I was avoidant through therapy. After reading more about it and learning how it has shown up in my life, I've been able to p…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment3/4/2026
I miss you and fuck you

I miss you and fuck you — I really want to text you and tell you that I miss you, All I crave is some hugs a kisses and cuddles but I can’t because we’re not that anymore

r/BreakUpspost3/30/2026
A message I won't send

A message I won't send — Hello, I just wanted you to know that I miss you deeply. We never gave ourselves a proper chance. We let our fears, and our past traumas, dictate our behaviour, and this poisoned our resolution. But…

r/ExNoContactpost4/1/2026
She broke up with me over something that happened before we were even dating… and I don’t know how to handle it

She broke up with me over something that happened before we were even dating… and I don’t know how to handle it — 17M 17F I really need some advice because I feel horrible right now and I don’t know what to do. So my girlfriend and I just broke up today, and the main reason goes all the way back to something th…

r/selfhelppost4/5/2026
Genuinely struggling to know if I should bring this up with him or not, I feel horrible.

Genuinely struggling to know if I should bring this up with him or not, I feel horrible. — Before my boyfriend (22M) and I (23F) started dating, there was a guy I was rather limerent about for at least two years. He was some kind of authority figure, someone unattainable, yet someone I‘d se…

r/relationshipspost4/8/2026
Please stop me from sending this

Please stop me from sending this — Hey, I know it’s been a while and I want to respect your space, but I wanted to get this off my chest. I’ve spent a lot of time reflecting and working on myself. I understand now why you felt the wa…

r/BreakUpspost4/8/2026
APs what would you want to hear in response if someone doesn’t feel the same as you?

I’m not AP so your question made me think a lot. If people reach out to me I will sometimes say oh I miss you, how have you been? But reflecting on that now, I don’t think I’ve actively been missing t…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/28/2025
My (F28) partner (M28) gave me an ultimatum: him or my birds. Idk what to do

Pick the birds. I was in your same situation a long time ago and I gave up my beautiful cat. The relationship didn’t work out anyways as she ended up cheating on me. I regret everything. I miss you, D…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/13/2026
What would you do if your ex texted you "I miss you so much" right now?

Pack your bags and kindly leave my dms 😂😂 talking about i miss you, i miss you my fucking ass.

r/BreakUpscomment3/14/2026
I want to send this text so bad

Can I just pretend this message is from my cancer bf that took off on me without a word, this would make it a tiny bit better. I know op made this to make themselves feel better but I think they ended…

r/BreakUpscomment3/19/2026