No More Mr Nice Guy

There are a lot of good comments by I would just add that if you’re struggling with people pleasing behavior, you should read or listen to the book No More Mr Nice Guy. It is a great book on how those…

As long as your wife is working with this guy, the affair is still going on. It's also an indication she has no remorse for cheating on you. Emotional affair is cheating. By continuing the affa…

Hmm. Gay = ok to cheat ? Sorry but not buying it. Anyway, how you handled this is very common, but has the least chance to “save” a marriage. The veterans here ( most ) would attest that the 2 big…

Sounds like you are on the right track. I did the same mistakes so nobody here is any better, we just try to reduce the incredible pain of a woman’s betrayal with proven advice. There is good news.…

As you are obviously aware, reconciliation is very risky for the betrayed. Some try to spin that fact, but ultimately it remains a life going forward with pangs of pain, sorrow and suspicion. You do…

Total speculation here, but my impression is that he is a "nice guy" (the unhealthy type in the book "No More Mr Nice Guy") who struggles with people pleasing and honesty (even being honest with himse…

Work on your self esteem and confidence. Read “No More Mr Nice Guy”.

I was in the same situation. I had a friend, not a super close friend give me some advice that I will admit, eventually brought me back a happiness reset. I can’t duplicate the words, but the premise…

Since e your wife is a serial cheater, she is a poor candidate for reconciliation. Add in the lack of respect and remorse, reconciliation is impossible. Marriage counseling is a waste of time an…

Your post indicates you're not married to this woman. Lawyer up to understand your custody rights and obligations. DNA the kids just to be sure. If this woman hasn't been screwing you for the past…

I know it sounds simple but please read a tiny book called “No More Mr Nice Guy” it will change things if you follow it

Fuck her. The nerve to say you are a bad person while she goes out there cheating. She's the bad person. Do not put her in a pedestal. She and that friend are full of shit for pulling that stunt on yo…

Basically having someone help you work through the pain (therapist) or having a doctor prescribe a drug to change the chemistry in your brain and consciousness, doesn’t have the power of permanency. …

I recommend reading no more mr nice guy.

Oh boy, what to say about this one. Let me just say this bro, go read no more mr nice guy and how attraction works, I pictured a lap dog chasing love and attention, if you dont value yourself, why sho…

I will explain it to you in a way that is currently unpopular. An average woman is slightly submissive sexually. An average woman's sexual commitment for her monogamous partner depends in some part on…

With this amount of infidelity ( serial cheater) and reaction is to attempt reconciliation even though you are being rejected, indicates this is an issue way beyond infidelity. This is about wounded …

Why don’t you give her the ultimatum first, that unless she completely stops seeing her/ blocking her out completely, then you are going to go your separate ways. Be very firm, without any type of mis…

Abusive is an understatement. Your wife has zero respect for you beyond how much money you have and babysitting her kids. Get tested for STDs and DNA your kids Look up The Healing Heart - the 18…