that into it

I don't understand how you can't have *any* expectations of your partner? If we're in a long term committed relationship, I expect my partner won't lie to me, won't cheat, won't break my trust, won't …

1. He messaged back apologizing for a late response, but did not express enthusiasm or respond to my asking if he wanted to meet up. So now I'm in the position of having to be the proactive communicat…

Well, went on date 3 with guy 2… and kissed him. And I don’t think I was that into it because my mind went to guy 1… So ya, I don’t think I’m super into it. And I think he is missing some humor that …

1) is difficult. At our age bracket it seems if you are a very sexual person, but NOT casual/hookup oriented... there's really no good way to filter aside from spending a while with a person, getting …

One thing that I think sucks is how much people project things, such as, people assuming you hate him. You don’t. And that’s okay too. Not everything has to be melodramatic for everyone. A sad pa…

As others have said, if you had to ask him to want to talk/text with you every day? Or every few days? He’s not that into it. It sounds like a nightmare to have to ask someone you don’t find attractiv…

I've come to feel that people don't change, they just become more of who they are. If you do 50/50 during a separation and he's not that into it, he'll tap out. Hopefully he'll rise to the occasion,…

It entails whatever you and your partner decide entails. It's important to be in agreement on what it means because a "break" where you're allowed to date other people is very different than one where…

yeah that's a tricky one. from his side i can see why slow texting might make someone think you're not that into it, especially early on when everything feels uncertain. but also saying he didn't have…