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how to be "chill" in early stages of dating?

Sorry...in a similar situation... I sensed the compatibility thing right away but ignored it. I think he sensed it and wanted to sleep with me before dumping me .... But I figured it out so I refused…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment2/24/2026
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread — Welcome to the New Agora, a place for you and others to have casual conversations, seek advice and [first aid](https://modernstoicism.com/two-types-of-stoic-therapy-by-john-sellars/), and hang out tog…

r/Stoicismpost10/20/2025
Discharged after a 3 star Google review

Discharged after a 3 star Google review — Hi! I have autism so I sometimes have a hard time figuring out how I come across . But I was at a practice that provided both APRN services and therapy . I posted a three star Google review saying I …

r/therapypost3/13/2026
Ex messaged me after 3 months, was my response appropriate?

Ex messaged me after 3 months, was my response appropriate? — ex: Hey, how's it going? me: ? ex: Nothing, just checking in. I figured you would come back for Easter weekend. I didn't wanna ask when you were stressed with school. me: why ru messaging me ex: I…

r/ExNoContactpost4/5/2026
I pushed away the Best Friend I ever had because I kept spiraling.

I pushed away the Best Friend I ever had because I kept spiraling. — They were the kindest and most understanding person I've ever met. We had a lot of fun together. We connected on such a deep level in a short amount of time and I felt so honored to be allowed into t…

r/CPTSDpost4/10/2026
Before you make that post about some avoidant ex ask yourself……..

It’s been a year (yesterday) since my ex cruelly and coldly discarded me by text (after 18 months of dating… and lots of life experiences).. “I can’t see you anymore, I wish you well”.. It was massive…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/24/2025
Haha being an FA is fucking weird

My bad, a misinterpretation. Glad to hear you’re healing and wish you well

r/attachment_theorycomment4/23/2025
Think I found a secure woman, and almost immediately self-sabotaged.

Thank you for the wisdom. I to know what it’s like to have an avoidant rip your heart out and discard it like trash. I wish you well.

r/attachment_theorycomment7/1/2025
DAE feel like they want to be in a relationship but don’t really know how to? Intimacy problems?

No, I’m not suggesting that. Not what I said. Your tone seems defensive and, at times, hostile. This discussion is not productive for me. I wish you well.

r/attachment_theorycomment8/11/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 26, 2026

Hi,  I need some support.  It's all ended with the guy I was seeing. He basically just disappeared. Said he felt so mentally bad, couldn't go to work for two days, was so depressed. I had been trying …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/26/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 26, 2026

So he answered this to my "breakup message" (a bit below). His response: "Can we at least call each other tomorrow to settle this up.. I just don’t know what to say anymore". What do I even say? Wh…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/26/2026
54M – Going through a separation and just looking for people who understand

I know this feeling deeply. I’m still struggling thru it. The idea of what was supposed to be—all of the dreams. What has started to help me is to replace the dreams “we” had and replace them with jus…

r/Divorcecomment3/8/2026
Wife cheated on me with multiple men over the course of 3 months.

Dude… this can’t be real… if it is I would shop a new lawyer that is more engaged with a strong sense of urgency for you and your child’s best immediate interest. She’s gonna drive drunk with him in t…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/8/2026
„Did you forgive them yet?“ — I stood my ground and said NO.

Forgiveness should be your choice and part of your agency, you don't owe it to anyone. It's part of you taking back control. You don't have to give it if you don't want to, not that it's really a choi…

r/CPTSDcomment3/9/2026
I (F18) am jealous of my boyfriend (M18) for the gpt chat

I really wish I could give you somewhere to go or impart some real relationship advice here.. But the insecurities, the swings.. God to garbage. It feels familiar. I think therapy may help as well as…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/9/2026
What are the most infuriating sentences your ex has said to you during or after the breakup?

It irritated me so much when she said "i truly wish you well and all the best"

r/BreakUpscomment3/10/2026
Does anyone subconsciously think about them?

man, I've been feeling the same as of late, it's unreal. today especially. me and her were together for almost 4 years. domestic. marriage talks at some point. it's about to be 3 years since she walke…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/11/2026
Need help manifesting good health, I’m crying while writing this

Becoming Supernatural, Joe Dizpansa. He shares many stories of people who cured their illnesses and what did they do. I wish you well

r/lawofattractioncomment3/12/2026
We Interviewed Our Friends Annika & Tristan, And They Gave A Great Oak Impression For His Gracious Welcome To The Experiencer Community!

I have been thinking of them lately and wondering how they were. Thank you so much for posting this. And if you are reading this, Annika and Tristan, I so wish you well! You are very courageous and I'…

r/experiencerscomment3/12/2026
My (19f) boyfriend (19m) keeps telling me I’m at high risk of diabetes. How do I address this?

I had a similar experience when I was married. You are an adult and no one has the right to tell you how to live your life. For me it was a slow process of my husband getting more and more critical …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/13/2026
I was going to be incredible

I’m sorry you are experiencing this. And I can totally relate. I am brilliantly intelligent and highly intuitive (INFJ- like so many of us are). I am 56 and feel like my entire life has been a waste.…

r/CPTSDcomment3/13/2026
What would you do if your ex texted you "I miss you so much" right now?

I wish you well too brother! I hope you never have to go through what i went through. At the end of the day I know that I gave her my all, and tried my best. Love who loves you, text who texts you and…

r/BreakUpscomment3/14/2026
How do I tell my boyfriend he is wasting my time?

Pro life tip: you don't have to stay in a partnership with a selfish person. Another pro life tip: you need neither his agreement nor his permission to end the relationship at any time. You simply t…

r/relationshipscomment3/14/2026
32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth?

I’m sorry you and your wife are enduring all that trauma. I wish you well.

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth?

Appreciate it man. I wish you well also. I hope you come out of this better than ever.

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
29F. Having immense trouble in married life. Is there chance of separation?

then why you married him??🥲 my ex bf is scorpion asc whatever you said all it matches him. Please takecare , i wish you well

r/vedicastrologycomment3/15/2026
I (26F) told my boyfriend (26M) I sometimes miss the freedom of being single and he broke up with me on my birthday

People who have narcissistic traits/are controlling hate when you hold up a mirror to them. It sounds like you exposed an insecurity he actually knows makes sense - he limits your freedom. You have to…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/15/2026
The absolute dearth of any kind of help for victims of polyamory under duress

I wish I could give you advice, but I can see you wouldn’t take it if I did. So I am just going to wish you well with your plethora of mental health issues.

r/therapycomment3/15/2026
I wish I left after the first affair

I did this too- and it bit me 16 years later 🙈 it’s never worth it. I wish you well and full healing

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/15/2026
28F and 27M — What do you do when you know your relationship is about to end?

How long have you been together? You say you’re afraid to talk about it but the only way out is by way of communication. You might be pleasantly surprised in terms of how beneficial a conversation m…

r/relationshipscomment3/16/2026
How to begin the “healing”

First, I feel bad reading your post. To actually catch them at a hotel then listening to a confession from her. It had to be tough. She lost feelings for you because she had someone else. This is a te…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/17/2026
If your avoidant ex discarded you: go no contact immediately.

My ex and I were together for 5 and a half years. We talked about marriage, buying a house together, and blending families from our previous marriages. I was her person and her best friend. She went o…

r/BreakUpscomment3/18/2026
Farewell

Thank you for your incredible work and generosity. I will donate to Radiance. I wish you a peaceful passage. For whatever it’s worth my father died from ALS and his final hours were easeful. I wish yo…

r/Stoicismcomment3/18/2026
Still hurts after many, many years

From our couples counseling sessions I ended up in exactly the same spot. However I kept on with the therapist for individual therapy. I’ve been going to her for a year now (weekly). What I’ve learned…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/19/2026
My (M19) Gf (F19) constantly asks for details on me being raped because she "can't wrap her head around it", is this worth it?

Break up. You're not ready. You need to come to terms with what happened to you, and forgive whatever you are blaming yourself for. I wish you well and I hate that this happened to you.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/20/2026
My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch

I would hope your counsellor would be able to guide you if you felt able to show what you have written in this post but it would depend on how well they are informed on narcissism and trauma.  Your m…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/20/2026
What surprised you the most about going through a divorce?

I truly wish you well and hope you’re doing okay. It’s really tough because you battle with knowing it’s right and should you. It’s even harder when you’re the one having to step up and do it

r/Divorcecomment3/20/2026
Anyone feel like their own emotions aren't real or dont count somehow?

Yeah I was the same. Always minimized my own emotions or hated them because I deemed them invalid since everything was fine. I am also feeling that self love slowly and it does feel like a new era in …

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/21/2026
Why does it feel like "kind people" suffer the most while "toxic people" thrive?

You have such profound and fantastic insights.  I believe these will serve you well.   I wish you well ❤️

r/CPTSDcomment3/22/2026
Am I (50M) Widower With A 7 YO Just Doomed To Be Alone?

Sorry about your wife that must have been so unimaginably hard on you both. Just wanted to wish you well. Good luck!

r/datingoverfortycomment3/22/2026
the anxiety is gone... but now there's just a massive void. How do you handle the "nothingness" after liberation?

Boy do I understand…. It’s hard. It’s really hard! I’m 20 years in to my diagnosis. It began very small for me getting better that is in the beginning I was self confined to the corner of a couch…… as…

r/CPTSDcomment3/22/2026
I Changed Myself and Got it All

i dont think i have ocd, but this had been a major fear for me too. to the point of having anxiety/panic attacks. i would essentially have to just think that everything works out, everything works out…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/23/2026
I (36M) feel like I ruined a 3.5 year relationship and don’t know how to move forward

All this sounds like a lot and I wish you well OP. But the good thing about hard times is that it passes. First I would suggest that you should reflect and work on yourself and figure out why you we…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/23/2026
Admitted to Stanford but at the cost of my childhood

From what I am reading, yes you got into the Stanford "admitted but at the cost of my childhood", lets set straight the priorities here what do you want? Do you want Stanford over your freedom? I am n…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/24/2026
I (22f) entered a relationship with a set date but no longer want it to end. My bf (22m) won’t reconsider and it’s breaking my heart.

I’m broken hearted reading this.  My heart goes out to you.  It’s only going to get more difficult if you stay in this space.  I’m sorry, I wish you well.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/25/2026
It's never too late

You are completely right and congratulations. 🎁 You have just unlocked what will be a newfound life of peace, stability, and freedom. It's sometimes the most difficult choice to do for so many reaso…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/25/2026
Mom threatening suicide if I don't come back

You said your dad told you this? He shouldn’t have. You are the child and not the parent (regardless of whether you are 3 or 33 yrs old). You are not responsible for your parents action or mental h…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/25/2026
Are you under/barely functioning now because you overfunctioned so much when you were younger?

Yessss. I'm exhausted after years and years of performing and over functioning for the outside world without building up resources for internal strength, e.g. a consistent art or movement or meditatio…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/25/2026
After 9 years together she cheated, moved on fast, and dropped the bomb during 'final goodbye' – advice needed to survive this

This is such a blessing in disguise and youll see it in hindsight If i were you id write down whatever was said in a note to get it out your head, you can then process it another time to see if there…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/25/2026
30F My 30M keeps commenting on what I eat with a magnifying glass. How do I go about telling him how this makes me feel?

You might have been together much longer, but your newlyweds. He should have stars in his eyes, not a metaphorical food app handy to criticize. Your feelings are valid. His criticisms are coming fro…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules

Is he worth being flexible for? If so, keep going with him, if not move on. What matters is how much it matters to You, since you are the one that will be in the relationship with him. No one else’s o…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026
My GF (22F) told her parents about my (24M) secret financial situation

She’s told her parents AND her friends. The secret is out because of her and you already know that her parents and friends have already told other people. Dude, it’s time to cut your losses and move …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
Boyfriend insults me in fights

'He has said before he has anger issues and that a past relationship ended due to the ex not wanting to deal with them' I don’t know how to respond to him and have just been quiet since we live separ…

r/relationshipscomment3/27/2026
Post traumatic cognitive decline affecting speech and conversational ability. Can meditation help?

Perhaps the trauma you had has left scars that your mind has built defense systems for. The thing with trauma is that the body does a lot to compensate for it. This is most obvious with physical traum…

r/Meditationcomment3/27/2026