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Sorry...in a similar situation... I sensed the compatibility thing right away but ignored it. I think he sensed it and wanted to sleep with me before dumping me .... But I figured it out so I refused…
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Discharged after a 3 star Google review — Hi! I have autism so I sometimes have a hard time figuring out how I come across . But I was at a practice that provided both APRN services and therapy . I posted a three star Google review saying I …
Ex messaged me after 3 months, was my response appropriate? — ex: Hey, how's it going? me: ? ex: Nothing, just checking in. I figured you would come back for Easter weekend. I didn't wanna ask when you were stressed with school. me: why ru messaging me ex: I…
I pushed away the Best Friend I ever had because I kept spiraling. — They were the kindest and most understanding person I've ever met. We had a lot of fun together. We connected on such a deep level in a short amount of time and I felt so honored to be allowed into t…
It’s been a year (yesterday) since my ex cruelly and coldly discarded me by text (after 18 months of dating… and lots of life experiences).. “I can’t see you anymore, I wish you well”.. It was massive…
My bad, a misinterpretation. Glad to hear you’re healing and wish you well
Thank you for the wisdom. I to know what it’s like to have an avoidant rip your heart out and discard it like trash. I wish you well.
No, I’m not suggesting that. Not what I said. Your tone seems defensive and, at times, hostile. This discussion is not productive for me. I wish you well.
Hi, I need some support. It's all ended with the guy I was seeing. He basically just disappeared. Said he felt so mentally bad, couldn't go to work for two days, was so depressed. I had been trying …
So he answered this to my "breakup message" (a bit below). His response: "Can we at least call each other tomorrow to settle this up.. I just don’t know what to say anymore". What do I even say? Wh…
I know this feeling deeply. I’m still struggling thru it. The idea of what was supposed to be—all of the dreams. What has started to help me is to replace the dreams “we” had and replace them with jus…
Dude… this can’t be real… if it is I would shop a new lawyer that is more engaged with a strong sense of urgency for you and your child’s best immediate interest. She’s gonna drive drunk with him in t…
Forgiveness should be your choice and part of your agency, you don't owe it to anyone. It's part of you taking back control. You don't have to give it if you don't want to, not that it's really a choi…
I really wish I could give you somewhere to go or impart some real relationship advice here.. But the insecurities, the swings.. God to garbage. It feels familiar. I think therapy may help as well as…
It irritated me so much when she said "i truly wish you well and all the best"
man, I've been feeling the same as of late, it's unreal. today especially. me and her were together for almost 4 years. domestic. marriage talks at some point. it's about to be 3 years since she walke…
Becoming Supernatural, Joe Dizpansa. He shares many stories of people who cured their illnesses and what did they do. I wish you well
I have been thinking of them lately and wondering how they were. Thank you so much for posting this. And if you are reading this, Annika and Tristan, I so wish you well! You are very courageous and I'…
I had a similar experience when I was married. You are an adult and no one has the right to tell you how to live your life. For me it was a slow process of my husband getting more and more critical …
I’m sorry you are experiencing this. And I can totally relate. I am brilliantly intelligent and highly intuitive (INFJ- like so many of us are). I am 56 and feel like my entire life has been a waste.…
I wish you well too brother! I hope you never have to go through what i went through. At the end of the day I know that I gave her my all, and tried my best. Love who loves you, text who texts you and…
Pro life tip: you don't have to stay in a partnership with a selfish person. Another pro life tip: you need neither his agreement nor his permission to end the relationship at any time. You simply t…
I’m sorry you and your wife are enduring all that trauma. I wish you well.
Appreciate it man. I wish you well also. I hope you come out of this better than ever.
then why you married him??🥲 my ex bf is scorpion asc whatever you said all it matches him. Please takecare , i wish you well
People who have narcissistic traits/are controlling hate when you hold up a mirror to them. It sounds like you exposed an insecurity he actually knows makes sense - he limits your freedom. You have to…
I wish I could give you advice, but I can see you wouldn’t take it if I did. So I am just going to wish you well with your plethora of mental health issues.
I did this too- and it bit me 16 years later 🙈 it’s never worth it. I wish you well and full healing
How long have you been together? You say you’re afraid to talk about it but the only way out is by way of communication. You might be pleasantly surprised in terms of how beneficial a conversation m…
First, I feel bad reading your post. To actually catch them at a hotel then listening to a confession from her. It had to be tough. She lost feelings for you because she had someone else. This is a te…
My ex and I were together for 5 and a half years. We talked about marriage, buying a house together, and blending families from our previous marriages. I was her person and her best friend. She went o…
Thank you for your incredible work and generosity. I will donate to Radiance. I wish you a peaceful passage. For whatever it’s worth my father died from ALS and his final hours were easeful. I wish yo…
From our couples counseling sessions I ended up in exactly the same spot. However I kept on with the therapist for individual therapy. I’ve been going to her for a year now (weekly). What I’ve learned…
Break up. You're not ready. You need to come to terms with what happened to you, and forgive whatever you are blaming yourself for. I wish you well and I hate that this happened to you.
I would hope your counsellor would be able to guide you if you felt able to show what you have written in this post but it would depend on how well they are informed on narcissism and trauma. Your m…
I truly wish you well and hope you’re doing okay. It’s really tough because you battle with knowing it’s right and should you. It’s even harder when you’re the one having to step up and do it
Yeah I was the same. Always minimized my own emotions or hated them because I deemed them invalid since everything was fine. I am also feeling that self love slowly and it does feel like a new era in …
You have such profound and fantastic insights. I believe these will serve you well. I wish you well ❤️
Sorry about your wife that must have been so unimaginably hard on you both. Just wanted to wish you well. Good luck!
Boy do I understand…. It’s hard. It’s really hard! I’m 20 years in to my diagnosis. It began very small for me getting better that is in the beginning I was self confined to the corner of a couch…… as…
i dont think i have ocd, but this had been a major fear for me too. to the point of having anxiety/panic attacks. i would essentially have to just think that everything works out, everything works out…
All this sounds like a lot and I wish you well OP. But the good thing about hard times is that it passes. First I would suggest that you should reflect and work on yourself and figure out why you we…
From what I am reading, yes you got into the Stanford "admitted but at the cost of my childhood", lets set straight the priorities here what do you want? Do you want Stanford over your freedom? I am n…
I’m broken hearted reading this. My heart goes out to you. It’s only going to get more difficult if you stay in this space. I’m sorry, I wish you well.
You are completely right and congratulations. 🎁 You have just unlocked what will be a newfound life of peace, stability, and freedom. It's sometimes the most difficult choice to do for so many reaso…
You said your dad told you this? He shouldn’t have. You are the child and not the parent (regardless of whether you are 3 or 33 yrs old). You are not responsible for your parents action or mental h…
Yessss. I'm exhausted after years and years of performing and over functioning for the outside world without building up resources for internal strength, e.g. a consistent art or movement or meditatio…
This is such a blessing in disguise and youll see it in hindsight If i were you id write down whatever was said in a note to get it out your head, you can then process it another time to see if there…
You might have been together much longer, but your newlyweds. He should have stars in his eyes, not a metaphorical food app handy to criticize. Your feelings are valid. His criticisms are coming fro…
Is he worth being flexible for? If so, keep going with him, if not move on. What matters is how much it matters to You, since you are the one that will be in the relationship with him. No one else’s o…
She’s told her parents AND her friends. The secret is out because of her and you already know that her parents and friends have already told other people. Dude, it’s time to cut your losses and move …
'He has said before he has anger issues and that a past relationship ended due to the ex not wanting to deal with them' I don’t know how to respond to him and have just been quiet since we live separ…
Perhaps the trauma you had has left scars that your mind has built defense systems for. The thing with trauma is that the body does a lot to compensate for it. This is most obvious with physical traum…