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Wow that's awful. Your best friend sounds very codependent. Once I read this, everything made sense: [https://coda.org/default/assets/File/Foundational%20Documents/Patterns%20Characteristics%202011.pd…
[Coda.org](https://coda.org) Find your local meeting! Hope this helps🫶
I have a 17yo. And the things we don’t teach our youngers is mind blowing. 1. Learn to digest emotions. Especially the ones that (in your mind) make you a not **nice person** or not a **cool girl…
Just gonna leave this here. https://coda.org/find-a-meeting/online-meetings/
Well that’s a control pattern. And then an inability to deal straight with people- that could be denial or compliance pattern. Read here about recovery. https://coda.org/default/assets/File/Patte…
https://coda.org/wp-content/uploads/Patterns-of-Recovery.pdf
What helped me learn what is and isn’t a healthy behavior is the document found at this link. It’s from codependents anonymous and it breaks down any/every codependent behavior and compares it to the …
In my experience interdependence is when you feel secure with yourself and dont need other people to get your own needs met. When you can easily accept "no" and recognise what is your responsibility a…
Sounds like you held space and that has to be enough. It’s a lovely blessing. If a friend needed something more it’s for her to ask. You created a safe space. I cannot express how difficult it…
Get to a CoDA meeting. And learn the healthy patterns. https://coda.org/wp-content/uploads/Patterns-of-Recovery.pdf You didn’t really mention what you need to work on.
Go to coda.org meetings
Start with coda.org. Get the workbook. Start it while you attend weekly meetings. Work the steps. Go to as many meetings per week that you want. Repeat for the rest of your life. The answers will come…
https://coda.org/wp-content/uploads/Patterns-of-Recovery.pdf
"Why is it so hard to stay whole in relationships and not love so deeply that it turns into control?" The answer only lies inside a [coda.org](http://coda.org) meeting, workbook, and your heart. Time …
Limerence is when we only see the good in people. https://coda.org/default/assets/File/Patterns%20of%20Recovery.pdf