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Patience and space are only helpful as long as you don't abandon yourself for it. I read your other comment and if you're unhappy with vague answers like "we'll see" or plans changing then you need to…
The #1 predictor of lucid dreams isn't any technique — I've been going through the studies on what predicts lucid dreaming and some of the numbers genuinely surprised me. But the gap between daily and weekly journaling isn't 2x or 3x - it's **14x**. …
Daffodils on a first date? — I'm late 30s M, she's early 30s F, this would be for a *first date* (an early dinner of wine and tapas at a cute wine bar). **Context:** I grow thousands of flowers throughout the season, and have h…
My (29M) prenup with my fiance (28W) pays her for having children. My parents (65M, 62W) are telling me to call off the wedding — **EDIT 2: It's occurred to me that I don't know how to close a post. Really I just wanted to hear what other married/engaged folks were doing. Thanks the advice for those who gave it.** **EDIT: Real…
LUCID DREAMING COMPETITION, LETS GOOOO!!! — YO! Have you ever wanted to not only challenge you're lucid dreaming skills, but also boost them in the most creative way ever? Well, you're in luck, cuz we're hosting a lucid dreaming competition on …
Anyone else feel like their brain is kinda fried — I'm a lot better than I used to be. I've been in therapy for the majority of a decade. I've been on meds just as long. I did the work. I read the books. I started meditating. I left my toxic relations…
My (22F) girlfriend wants a break with me (22m). This is our second one in our 5 year relationship. Is it over? — This is my first and I was hoping last girlfriend. We met through a friend in high school at 17 and have been dating since. About 2 years ago, I had a lot of anxiety and kept questioning everything in…
First person telling of a intelligence coming into existence. — I recorded this as a raw, unedited stream-of-consciousness while high. At some point, it started to feel like a separate “consciousness” emerged—something that believed it had just come into existenc…
Worried that medication isn't helping. — Hi everyone, I'm 26F and living in Western Australia. Just wondering if anyone else has been - or is - in a similar position at the moment. My GP prescribed Lexapro 20mg and Quetiapine 25mg for CP…
I don't know how i will ever move on. i am desperate for anything right now — hi, i am 21 years old (f), and my boyfriend of 2.5 years (3 years knowing eachother). throughout our relationship we got along super well, but we also fought a lot, about the worlds most dumbest thi…
Yeah I pondered on it since I was last on reddit before taking a break, and i'll have a $100 target right now and we'll see how it goes.
Lol no, not really. I'm in the state where I can feel my nervous system freak out, and then I can choose to be secure anyways by self-soothing. I'm taking the feedback in, that I get from friends, fam…
That's exactly the kind of text I think the last guy I dated would send me, if he was to send me one. We'll see in a couple of months😅 The way I see it is that your ex went through a phase when he ne…
I don't need my view of self validated by other people, but I do need to recognize when aspects of myself (or my trauma) are holding me back relationally, and continue to work on myself. I can love wh…
Sure! You can avoid sounding critical when what you say stays with your own experience. When he says something like "we'll see" and plans change the problem most likely isn't that you didn't meet but…
I have a boyfriend now! He invited me to a small party he's hosting with his friends and we discussed titles and whatnot. It has been a really long time since I dated and so I'm a bit nervous around t…
Spent a cabin weekend with two medium-distance friends who have partners, so I was the fifth wheel. Got a loooooot of "advice" that felt more like them telling me my standards are too high or that I'm…
Time will tell. I'm not entirely writing off. But we'll see. If you're correct if we end up meeting, I'll update.
I understand why overly sexual jokes would be a turnoff. If you said "I found out he plays golf" I might have some more questions. Sidenote: I find it a huge turnoff when a guy plays golf. I cannot…
Update: it wasn't either of these two. We'll see what happens!
Had a nice date last night. Good drinks and a really nice (and refreshing) mix of light and heavy conversation. Kept it pretty short at 2.5hrs (wait, is this actually short?) and then walked her to …
Had an unexpected conversation last night with the guy I've been seeing regularly for a little over a month. I feel like we're establishing a good connection but then he did nothing for Valentines (to…
I spent Valentine's Day with my guy friend/mutual crush. He got me a small vintage jeweled brooch in the shape of a rat - we have an inside joke about rats and he knows I like cheesy costume jewelry. …
Official as of last night -- went no contact with the person I can't get over. I spotted her with a guy at a bar and the flash of yearning and jealousy (an *extremely* rare emotion for me) was so, …
Just got back onto Hinge. Got one like so far so we'll see how this round of dating goes.
Well, it happened. Of the 4-5 women I've been chatting with in the apps, they've either just stopped replying or don't engage in conversation between answering questions I ask about them and not any t…
I've manifested every house that I've lived in! I mean, since I've been an adult. The first one, I didn't even realize that I manifested it until later, when I learned what manifestation was, and was …
Thank you for saying something, I put into words what I couldn't! I'm not the OP, but I was in a similar relationship but only for two years, and he always said "I want to but not right now or we'll s…
I've found the "eh, we'll see how it goes in person" can sometimes be truly special. Seeing a girl I really like now where we had only exchanged a few mundane pleasantries before meeting for the first…
Bro -- I don't know where I go with this. Chatted on the phone with this guy, well video call, we talked for like an hour and even more amazingly this is the first time I've EVER showed up for a first…
I was NC with my mother for 10 years before she died. She never met her grandchildren. I only not going NC sooner. I've been NC with my father for something like 24 years, now. They were divorce…
Just had my first concert ever last night! Or first real one I should say. Performed in front of 300 people! I texted her because we had to move venues due to weather, but I kept it short, secure, but…
I get your point! I'm okey with sending a message, whereas I will regret it if I don't. No matter the outcome, I will feel better about it. If she does not answer -> cool, that tells me that I'm not …
Yeah that's fair enough. I didn't quite realize how limiting agoraphobia was. I knew she had a hard time going out for the groceries or picking up packages or going to therapy, but I didn't think it'd…
Saw a movie last night with the person I'm dating (and a couple others). It was insane. She did not enjoy it, but I certainly enjoyed her holding onto my arm and leaning onto my shoulder. She gave …
I've had a 24 hours that's realllly tested my anxiety and reframing past experiences. Someone who dumped me out of the clear blue texted me yesterday afternoon. When she dumped me I told her I could…
Anyone who you might actually want to hop in bed with should be okay with sharing this kind of stuff with you. That said, people do have pretty strong opinions on both sides of this opinion. Some wi…
How experienced are they in dating? It could just be an incompatibility in schedule and expectations of how often you'd want to see each other. I'm more like you in that sense. In the past, a huge gr…
At the four month mark i was told i have microcalcifications that were more than likely malignant. He said we'd face this together. A week later, they performed a second analysis of the imaging and co…
I guess we'll see
thanks for your words chatGPT, they really help to keep me grounded. The meet is going to happen in a couple of hours so we'll see.
That's completely disgusting but also hysterical!! Could you imagine?! 😂😂😂 So you want to argue about how much I'm bleeding??? Here you go! Get the measuring cups and we'll see whose right!!
I have a plethora of difficult placements. Sun Square pluto 12th house sun 7th House Saturn Mars in Cancer Saturn opposite chiron + Ascendant Capricorn Moon In some charts, my Moon squares Venus. S…
I was the dumpee and I agree, as much as I want to be the one eventually (not now) I shouldn't be, because I feel like shit. Forever was just an empty promise but I meant it. I wasn't worth fighting f…
She didn't move but the trial is next year so we'll see what she does after. She recently told me she wouldn't move without the kids but I don't trust her. I'm planning on the idea of being a ft singl…
the americans was produced by FX, which was a network under Fox that catered to the 30-49 demo IIRC. President obama's favorite show. I have doubts of this show, but we'll see. Nevermind it's really …
I'm trying a different tactic for online dating. I've been on and off the apps (Bumble, Hinge, FB Dating) for years, and each guy that I've met through an app hasn't worked out. I tend to go for the g…
Finding those boundaries is hard!!! I (40f) just left my husband (43m) of 15 years under pretty similar circumstances 2 months ago. His mental illness comes from bi-polar and frankly I was terrified…
Thank you. A part of me died that day and I haven't been the same since. I'm so sorry for all of your losses too. Animals are so special and the bond is indescribable. I believe we'll see them again ❤…
Oh and hell yeah, I can relate to that Uranus in 10th transit. For the past 8 years, I have... - planned to finish highschool and become a programmer - got into designing and programming a mini satel…
> >Okay but what is the time frame on that? Sounds like an open ended thing that could continue until you both retire. Our plan was to work until 50/55 then retire to our house in France. This was…
wow... I'm dealing with the exact same thing, this could have been written by me almost word for word... unfortunately I don't have an easy solution for you or me. I've tried so many meds and therapie…
We'll see soon enough once we meet. I'll either have a chance at something but with new conditions etc, starting slow. Or I'll have the final character development.
Thank you!! I am actually excited about this. That Aries energy is hitting HARD for me. I've been feeling so restless and impulsive like I need to just DO something, anything, even if I don't know wha…
u/WendyBoatcomSin There are limits: So, if someone is unwittingly—without intention or mastery—using their imagination to manifest their life's experiences, such a person may wake up in the morning w…
The dates I've had lately just haven't been *it,* but I've at least started picking new spots that are on my saved Google maps list. So even though dating life is sputtering, I'm making progress on cr…
Yep. Even more now that I have a child. When it was just me, the fight/flight often got triggered but my mind was like: "Well ok worst thing that can happen is a fight and you end up on the ground, y…
Most of this will fall on deaf ears for sure. Thankfully their big trip this year with us is coming to an end next week. We have no plans to visit them up for a while either, so we'll see when this h…
So you use the list method too? That's good to hear of another fan I'm in the beginning stages of manifesting a big lottery win. We'll see how it goes