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Hi! Sure, this is my own healing journey, nothing more, nothing less. Everything here comes from sources that I have listed, I relied on their status in the scientific community and didn't go as far a…
You're not trying to text them. You're trying to soothe yourself. There's a difference and it changes everything. — Every "just checking in" text. every perfectly worded message rewritten 20 times. every "I just want closure" conversation you've rehearsed in the shower. it was never really about them. it was about …
I think the attachment styles in place work well. I know it was studied exhaustively on thousands of children in the 70s/80s/90s and had there been more definitive styles we would have caught them bac…
Hey. These titles are often interchangeable but can mean different things for different organisations, depending on their role responsibility expectations, product/services. As such I wouldn't focus…
The thing is the more I have aged and worked on myself getting higher self esteem and confidence, the more I have self reflected and become more aware of myself, the more I have slowly recognised the …
I appreciate how much time you put into this. It’s well written and you’ve got some genuinely interesting ideas here. That said, it’s important to add some context so people don’t mistake this for set…
Was looking for this take. OP is really rushing and placing way too much weight on a phrase that’s simply not even as common in Spanish as you’d think. I’m Mexican and Te quiero holds as much value as…
Wow, I just took a screenshot of this to bring up with my new therapist next week. "I'm turned on by the 'I can't believe this is happening' feeling" resonates with me SO much. I don't have anythin…
They’re interchangeable terms, deactivation is detachment. The brain deactivates the attachment towards the attached figure. And as for what triggers this, it is subjective. DAs have been conditione…
This side thread is making me question what I knew about (romantic) love. At some point, after so much headache wondering if I was aromantic, I decided to make it easy for myself and decided that "I …
Physical touch is a heavy part of my love language too from as little to hugs to all the way to sex. And it’s sorta interchangeable for me. Well maybe not let’s say a hug for sex. But let’s say I st…
When he started banging his kids' stepsister, Woody Allen said, "The heart wants what the heart wants," but I think the concept of having particular, especially physical "types" is... a negative actio…
Listen to your gut intuition here- I dated someone similar, I had a child and he did not. He rarely asked me anything about my life or showed interest- he just wasn’t interested in who I actually was …
how is being scientific interchangeable with being spiritual? many, many spiritual views conflict with conventional science and vice versa. also, you shouldn't say that the LDs people normally have ar…
The amount of extra work, physically & mentally… over decades? Absolutely not. Having to search for things that you put away or are in the process of getting rid of? No. Doing it multiple times? A…
the point I was trying to make was in the phrase "scientific or should I say spiritual" as if those are interchangeable or similar modifiers
“I wish I would have left your mom the first time we split up” and I respond, “but then you wouldn’t have had my brother and I”. His response, “yes I would, you’d just look different.” So kids are i…
Mine absolutely got worse, and I’m pushing 50. I have yet to hear of parents with genuine narcissistic abusive qualities ever mellowing out with age. Feeling less desired, needed, empowered, and h…
I have yet to hear of parents with genuine narcissistic abusive qualities ever mellowing out with age. It almost always gets worse. Feeling less desired, needed, empowered, and hopeful (all that whi…
Somatic based interventions and mindfulness based interventions are what I have found effective. CBT feels pretty archaic but it’s treated like the bread and butter of interventions. We should just re…
So just want to disclose I've been out of the field for a few years now due to my own health issues. However this is a big interest of mine and I'm also still constantly discovering new things myself …
Gnostic Christian. Non judeo. Non church attending but if I could find the right type of church, I wouldn't be opposed. Dead Sea Scrolls, Book of Enoch, Nag Hammadi scripture, Marcionite Bible, Emeral…
I don't think all greys are in the same exact spiritual stage of development, nor are humans. It's like saying "the chinese", as if 1 billion people think exactly the same and are interchangeable. I t…
This whole notion fundamentally collapses if you’ve ever experienced a relationship that was not just functional, but formative. There are people who don’t just fill a role, they reorganize you. They …
Well in my opinion you can replace a 'function' or a 'need,' but you can't replace a person or a shared history. Every connection has its own language, its own inside jokes, and its own growth. Saying…
"You don't have to do anything" (Wrong). You must ASSUME the STATE and PERSIST in it. No assumption = no change. "Everything happens automatically" (misinterpreted) Manifestation unfolds automaticall…
I get the sentiment but I think replaceable is the wrong word. People move on. Relationships end. But the specific way you existed in someone's life doesn't get erased just because someone new shows u…
Especially if he considers her family to be his family. He knew she’d be a problem for her. And the “she” and “her” in that sentence are interchangeable between OP and the friend.
It's normal to have moments in a friendship where you say something stupid or culturally insensitive. But, as I'm sure you know now, going in on the interchangeable Spanish/Portuguese bit was likely a…
You can be their "world" & their "everything" & do everything you can to make them happy—& they will still replace you with the first person that gives them a bit of attention & tell them all the BS t…