this is what I need

I actually feel that I'm only slightly anxious leaning and relatively secure but I got triggered more when he was avoidant and I think a secure person would have a very hard time staying secure. I thi…

Ex unblocked me — I’m 24f and ex is 22m, he broke up with me May last year, a few months after the break up I had to tell him to block me on instagram and Spotify because those were the accounts I couldn’t stop myself …

How do you deal with the virtue signaling? — I wrote this in another narc sub the other day but I’ll try here as well: My cluster B ex (his SD-3 score is 3.9 machiavellinism, 3.8 narcissism, 3.2 psychopathy if that helps) has a habit of using h…

To All Waywards – Part 1: What I Needed (and Still Need) on D-Day and Discovery — To all the Waywards out there, please heed my appeal. This may not be what your SO needs perfectly, every situation is unique, but this is what I needed and did not received. Since you are here I am a…

To me, right now, this is so simple but so profound. In my own journey I’m struggling for understanding, for rationale, for healing and resolution, and ultimately closure with a partner who is unwilli…

I think this is what I needed to hear. I've been feeling guilty for being irritated and felt kinda selfish thinking things should be different

Thanks and agreed. I have a close friend here and am staying in a different area of the island but yeah it’s bringing a lot back. My goal is a new country every summer with my daughter after she turns…

You wrote this at the end almost as a footnote: "As someone who was severely anxious just a year ago, the work I've done with myself and through therapy has really done wonders to being a more secure…

Thank you SO much for this! This is what I needed. I've had moments of feeling so hopeless because I have been trying to manifest away back/neck pain that I've been experiencing for like 7/8 months. I…

This is what I needed to hear. The only thing I can do is what’s right. The right thing to do is be more understanding and doing the best I can.

Therapy for sure. I'd be pretty honest in a "this is what I need" kinda way. Could you agree and compromise, maybe Saturday and Sundays do this and have TV meals the rest?

Still different and I'm not sure this is productive anymore. You've given her 8 years and said this need in the context of the future, not in the context of the present. Look man, I did something simi…

Thanks for sharing, honestly it gives me hope to overcome the struggles I have to deal with. These experiences make us stronger and it's good to recognize that I'm not alone. Thanks, this is what I ne…

Not sure why youre getting so much backlash, this is what I needed to hear and I didnt take it in a negative way. You're completely right. The numbers really dont matter too much for me because 95% of…

holy shit thank you so much, when i read this message something literally clicked in me, this is what i needed to hear thank you !!

this is what i needed to hear, thanks

Oh hon, listen a minute to an old grandpa. Some things in life you got or you don't. Realizing what you ain't got and doing something about it, or being just stubborn, stupid, lazy sort that just don'…

This is exactly what I needed after always in bed time. I just passed an exam at work giving me a an opportunity to move higher. I haven't been to the gym consistently and this is what I needed thank …

Gosh I love Reddit this is what I needed. I needed to feel validated. Everyone in my personal life has said the same and I’m just in such disbelief. I know I’m young & that’s okay because I don’t unde…

From someone who came here thinking about how to find advice on how to move on after being heartbroken for the first time (at the age of 31, Jesus 😂), I think this is what I needed. I hope you’re oka…

Don't explain or justify yourself, it puts you on the defensive immediately. They will argue your feelings with you. Keeping NC would be for the best, but If you need to say something, keep it short a…

Im stuck in a dark ambient and dsbm loop. Maybe this is what I need 💀

This is what I need. I know there are people that care, but I have yet to find someone who can truly be with me in a space. I’m so good at holding space for others. It’s sad to not receive it. Actua…