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Everyone on these boards has healing to do, so that's not some "gotcha", my friend. >for some reason you’re very emotionally attached and aggravated by this.This is just a personal rant on some perce…
Why you should always schedule your job interviews in the early morning. — I got reminded today of a very important tip when you're setting up interviews. \>> Do not set up job interviews at the end of the work day. In short, there have been studies done on judges that sho…
How do you persist data across pipeline runs? — I need to save key-value output from one run and read/update it in future runs in an automatic fashion. To be clear, I am **not** looking to pass data between jobs within a single pipeline. Best solu…
Nonordinary Perception — I'm so glad I found this community, I've posted in the paranormal and the witchcraft communities and been called fake, liar, crazy, and all kinds of names for sharing my paranormal experiences, so I'm…
An update : Projected twice since meeting my wife’s deceased great/great great grandmas and it was not a good time — Hello my fellow travelers. Since my first post I’ve projected two times and both of them were not the best time to be honest. To pick up where I left off here is a link to my first experience [The G…
Finally sniffed this one out — I met this guy at work about 2 years ago (different departments) and we have been friends ever since. Dude helped me schedule my first doctor’s appointment in almost 6 years and even offered to take …
Does anyone actually enjoy lying to their APs? — i'm pretty much living a double life. lying to my AP and making myself seem much more successful in her eyes chills her out and she leaves me alone for a while. then there's the every day lies you tel…
Look I’m not go back in forth with you after this, I mostly answered because for someone who said some good points you got quickly derailed and started projecting your own trauma. It wasn’t a gotcha. …
Absolutely. When my avoidant stated his excuses for the fun being over, I wanted to cry and rage at the fakeness of his excuses, and unfairness, and how I didn't do shit wrong to him, etc etc. But I …
I gotcha. I asked because I was just curious. Your boyfriend sounds a lot like how I used to be. I never realized I had DA until a couple years ago. Most of what I attributed to depression and anxie…
Oh no, I gotcha 😆 I didn’t set out for this to be a serious thing, but we did meet on a dating site. So I kinda figured dating would be involved 😅 I wasn’t super in love and I didn’t think there was…
Gotcha, so it's less about you "going too far" in any particular interaction and more about your overall pattern of interactions.
Oh gotcha, I took it as a more recent thing that was weighing on this issue. I think when it comes to the spiraling maybe you need to work backwards and see where it starts from, what triggers it an…
Gotcha. The way I read it at the time sort of came across as the profiles you were reading were obvious on looking at them. Even then, I don't think I'd feel awkward if someone didn't represent th…
Not really dating related, but having spent over a decade dealing with health issues and not working, then 2 years ago finding and getting a degree in a career that's basically made for me, and then a…
oh gotcha, im not sure how that platform works. Okay, just didnt know what you were going for. Yeah I would just add photos of you smiling. You seem like a nice person but it doesnt really come off in…
Ohh ok, gotcha. The quotes made it confusing Yeah, that sucks to feel like it's going somewhere serious and letting your guard down to only be met with that. :\\
oh gotcha, Im sorry to hear that
Gotcha. Hey it's all about your tolerance for emotional pain, haha. I just don't think you can or should expect more from her and it sounds annoying having to try and tip toe around respecting her nee…
Gotcha, so it's an age as well as location thing. Well, Shuffle Dating organizes by age brackets, but it sounds you shouldn't have a shortage of less structured activities, judging by where you live. …
Gotcha. In retrospect, it has dropped from 8-9 hours a night to maybe 5-7 hours per night. And it seems less impactful throughout the day. Like I just select being energetic rather than tying it to …
good luck with moving out. im also pakistani and its awful the ways in which they make you feel you owe them your entire life when they dont even make the effort to be cooperative in everyday conversa…
I find myself being very sceptical that he’s telling the truth about this ‘test’ to see if you’ll initiate. No high libido person can go three months for the sake of this experiment. A couple of weeks…
gotcha, thank you! :)
Ah, I gotcha. While I have aliens, they are honestly just as focused on growth and shadow work and lessons and yada yada yada as "spiritual" beings are. I *wish* they would give me some sci fi firewo…
“We were morally wrong” so to him, being in a same sex relationship with me (which he started btw) was morally wrong, but cheating on me wasn’t, got it. “I was with you because it was convenient” oh …
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That's way over the line inappropriate for her to have done that. It also reeks of bitterness. Like, yeah, men lie about their heights, which is BS, sure, but the pictures don't lie. Like, no way hal…
Yeah, no, it's time to run. You shared your password and in response, he got mad that you didn't share it sooner? That's crazy talk. "Hey, you gave this to me, but now I'm gonna whine that I didn't h…
Ah gotcha. I even just Googled Esther Ku supports Asian men and the opposite shows up 😂
I did some research and apparently this is a Chinese American female graphic artist represented by a legit literary agency. Given the age of AI and social media rage baiting there certainly still poss…
Gotcha, thank you for the clarification!
Gotcha! Thank you so much! Ive dome 3g shroom trips recently and felt like i was going to detach from my body. It felt like i was so close. Il try and not get attached to the idea and let it happen :)…
Gotcha, very important context. So you feel like she doesn't do enough financially, she feels like you don't do enough domestically, even though both of you (based on the current split) should be pret…
Ohhh 😂 I gotcha lol, that's crazy I never made that connection but yeah I can see how that would be misleading
during the whole SEA vs Korea debacle, I saw so many SEAsians using comfort women as a "gotcha", had me confused. the glaze they have for them is confounding, like they're mentally cucked.
I don’t have sex that revolves entirely around my clitoris and nothing else because I’m not a selfish lover, so that’s not something that would ever happen. I know you think this is a “gotcha!” moment…
Not a gotcha, I think your statement is reasonable, given the described situation. I did wonder how you'd react to a post that could lead to my rephrased version of the statement, though.
Gotcha thanks. I’m actually 32 but close enough lmao (I’ll change it soon). She’s 29. I didn’t realize that location said my neighborhood and not city, and Orlando is big so it could be vague and thin…
I'm feeling exactly how you felt over 20 years ago. I've been interested in the "supernatural" since I was young, probably because I've had experiences. But recently had an experience and I went down …
Don't try to gotcha me, you said you were seeking R... Good luck with everything.
Gotcha. You'll get there. It's a learning process I'm sure, and it'll be more rewarding once you get it down
Gotcha. you can see the root cause but that makes it harder to process because it’s so raw. Thank you for your insights. I wish you the absolute best and hope this eases for you.
Gotcha. It shows up as a reply to OP, so came off differently. I've also dated irredeemable POS's, so I totally get it. I know good cis dude partners exist, but gd do they seem rare, and I often don't…
ah, gotcha 😅
Oh gotcha, sorry for the misunderstanding. Yes I agree fully with you. I think people get hung up on it because their partner often gives them all these reasons to justify their own immoral decisions.…
Gotcha! Can see you can totally be engaging. And yes just have to keep moving and swiping no on all the duds and hope SOMEone out there matches your energy.
Oh gotcha. Thanks for sharing that. I don’t need free meals, can afford to eat whatever I please so that wouldnt interest me.
ah gotcha could you give couple of examples of how you framed your self concept and targetted those limiting beliefs ? doesn't have to be the current affirmations if you're not comfortable to share t…