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>am I dealing with a DA/FA or this man is just making a fool out me? Por qué no los dos? He is textbook FA and he is absolutely bsing you. You are well off not participating in those hot and cold ga…
How should this sub respond to reddit's api changes, part 2 — We stand with the disabled users of reddit and in our community. Starting July 1, Reddit's API policy blind/visually impaired communities will be more dependent on sighted people for moderation. When …
Feeling “off” after trust rupture — attachment system or intuition? — I have been dating my current partner for about a year now. Long post incoming. I’m posting because I’m noticing a significant avoidant shift in myself and I need perspective specifically on my own at…
Six Months of Dating in Europe as an East Asian Guy — Honestly Better Than I Expected — Today marks my sixth month living in Europe. Looking back at the past half year and all the European girls I’ve interacted with, I thought it would be fun to do a little reflection—what I did well, wh…
Help/advise needed please: “Spiritual awakening” or/and brain inflammation, thus spiritual psychosis, etc. — This is extremely important to me, and I think to humanity as well, so I appreciate you taking the time to read and potentially respond. This is my personal ongoing testimony; I fear no psychological …
Art and study of the Gateway tapes and general connection to the Universe (with my own experimentation) — \- I WILL BE UPDATING THIS POST EVERYDAY. LINKS WILL BE AT THE BOTTOM OF POST WITH LOG NUMBERS AND DATES - 🌠 Log. 00 \[Tuesday, March 24th, 2026\] So far, I’ve been repeating the same first 3 tape…
Weekly Synchronization :) — so, last week's worldwide, synchronization was such an overwhelming success and blessing to the people who organized and participated that they've decided to make it a weekly event. They've added a se…
Exhausted and confused — So my wife of 10 years has been very distant lately, starting in about October or November she suddenly started caring about her appearance a lot more, found a new interest in sports, stopped reading/…
I’m re-explaining my situation after everyone on this subreddit said I was the shittiest person alive — Hi everyone I know this is super long but please read all of it. So yesterday I posted this: “I need honest opinions because I’m really conflicted and don’t know if I crossed a line or if this break…
My dad just texted me to "get over it" after 8+ months of silence — I've been low/no contact with my mom since last August after she sent me a guilt-tripping meltdown over something trivial (I didn't text her back fast enough about a card renewal while I was on vacati…
How do you deal with being the only one who was hurt and knows the truth ? How do you deal with the flock of flying monkeys ? — I'd like to share a story. Unfortunately, I'm still dealing with the narcissistic person and the flying monkeys. I feel like I'm trapped in a spider web and that the pain is going to stick with me for…
Atheist here. Saved from abuse by good people in the the Church. — This is NOT a story of religious conversion. I'm somehow 'hardwired' to be an atheist and that won't change, but my life experience has left me with deep respect for religious folk who "walk the walk"…
2 Months after I broke up with my abusive Ex. — I'll give a bit of context before I get into how my recovery has gone so far. I (19M) met my now ex (21F) at university through a club that I am an exec in and that she was at the time a member of. w…
Does anyone else feel like the investment isn't worth the potential reward anymore? — Because I'm really starting to. I know dating at ANY age is a weed out process. You're going to be into some people that aren't into you. Some people are going to be into you that YOU'RE not into. Yo…
Any Golden Children that “woke up” later in life? How did you survive the transition period to your individuated, authentic self? — I grew up not knowing anything was off about my family. I was a shy, obedient kid that struggled to stand up for myself, but I thought that was just who I was. I felt that any negative emotions or any…
Parents basically destroyed my life or at least I feel like that — What I like to call as the collapse started about a year ago when I was 20 years old, I used to study mathematics at one of the best universities of my country (not really relevant but with near perfe…
You participated in the dynamic when he said he didn’t want a relationship but wanted to waste your time still seeing you, and you agreed to this. Why? Do you not think you deserve better? If you resp…
I wanna apologize to you and all avodants. I've been hurt in the past and actively participated in demonizing Avodants. It’s easier to view avodants as monster than hurt people trying their best. It’s…
My husband is not into dress up at all but if I were to dress up as a princess for something I would 100% be the prettiest princess to him because he loves me. And I know because I have dressed up and…
oh so you participated in the military machine that the US uses to brutalize and oppress the world? good to know
There actually are "cuddle groups" where I live, that are organized professionally. I have a depressive friend who was chronically touch starved after his wife left him, and I convinced him to try som…
Totally agree, because if you have one dynamic going for 9 YEARS and then, instead of talking about how your own wants have changed, you do a “test” by keeping the other person in the dark about what …
To say that the other person is not at fault is a very dangerous statement. Even if they have no connection to the OP, they still participated in something that caused harm to the person and their fam…
I experienced exactly this, and she told me the exact same thing. When I reached my breaking point, I finally forced us into marriage counseling after years of her resisting it. She participated, but …
No problem! It might help if you observe the charts of others as well, both to study astrology and to see insights for your own chart too. My partner is a scorpio rising and his peak state is when he …
They grew up completely indoctrinated that mental health help was only for insane people who need to be locked up. My dad didn't understand until he was almost 80, that he had what is now known as PT…
I genuinely don’t know why this was recommended to me. I’ve never been on this page or researched/participated in this topic I’m from the Caribbean😭 BUT please for the love of God don’t listen to an…
My children are young, but I would be SO proud if i learned they had this sort of prenup in the works, especially considering how dirty their father did me during our 20-year marriage. I worked and …
My divorce is almost finalized. Last 5 years were terrible. My wife participated in nothing, anyhow I think you just ran into the wrong guys. You should continue to try. I am now looking for the same …
My Dad found me behind the dryer after my mother smothered me with a chenille bedspread when I was an infant. She had left me for dead. I was always focused on the event of him coming home and rescuin…
Reporting back! Thank you to everyone who participated.
I totally understand why that would be jarring as a client. To give a little benefit of the doubt, I am a therapist and I participated in a training a couple of weeks ago. During the training, the in…
I participated in several interviews, but deep down I always thought I hadn't passed, and well, that's what happened. I think sats helped me because it's a method I've always liked and hadn't practice…
I am currently 37 years old. At some point in my 20s I gave up on dating. A combination of rejections, romantic failures on my part, and side effects of my antidepressants resulted in my romantic dri…
I hadn’t considered the connection between Aquarius and online community building or participation, but it makes sense. My Aries 11H is empty except by SN, but my MC is in 9H Aquarius and I have a 3H …
Answering the questions from the side of the betrayed spouse (husband caught first time in 2016, with EA/PA of 2 years; Caught in 2025 with another co-worker - this time I left the house, and the marr…
It might have created the Romeo/Juliet type of situation, sure it could have. But that's better than feeding/clothing/sheltering a man who is doing harm to someone. Maybe if she'd kicked him out …
OK since other people are sharing their bons mots and comebacks to such a situation. Similar situation happened to me way back in 1990. (I'm old) During the time dude was radio silent, Christma…
Yes, totally. I once participated in a research competition of a very prestigious institution with my now husband. We sumitted a very crappy research paper and we knew there was no chance we would win…
Is your enabler maybe actually a covert narcissist? Since you write they participated in the gaslighting. Overt and convert often make couples..
it all felt so mutual until it wasn't. if I knew the game of love could be like this, i would have never participated
I think there is only one way this should be handled- Op needs to be supportive of his girlfriend and insists she seek therapy. If she was drunk, this is SA. Her going to a therapist will help clea…
I think there is only one way this should be handled- Op needs to be supportive of his girlfriend and insists she seek therapy. If she was drunk, this is SA. Her going to a therapist will help clear …
I think there is only one way this should be handled- Op needs to be supportive of his girlfriend and insists she seek therapy. If she was drunk, THIS IS SA. Her going to a therapist will help clear …
CHOOSING NOT TO FILE CHARGES DIRECTLY AFTER AN ASSAULT IS NOT INDICATION OF GUILT OR LYING! I was a victim of rape. Clear as day. No alcohol involved. No flirting no nothing. Just flat out attacked. …
While I understand that some people truly enjoy rough play and have no intention to shame someone who enjoys it, I think it's extremely important to not normalize such behavior and for women to discus…
Exactly this. A healthy & safe BDSM dynamic would also inform the decision to even engage in the dynamic when drunk. In fact, the dungeons I’ve been to don’t allow alcohol or anyone who seems under th…
Join a local Facebook meet and greet. There are lots of men and women in your area, in the same situation. Another suggestion is to reclaim a hobby or activity that you participated in before you met …
My ex (cheater) works in a high school (vice principal) and her AP was the principal (married and older). They had another female teacher who covered for them. That teacher was also married and has tw…
Seriously this is one of the best posts on Reddit I’ve participated in. I love what you wrote and the commentary from everyone is really upbeat despite the struggles. Sucks that we can’t do events or …
My nparents would always blame me in arguments with my siblings regardless of who started the fight. They encouraged and participated in openly making fun of me over everything and say it was their ‘l…
No, thankfully since it would have been comically false. My mother couldn’t care less what I did and never participated in my life. She was there, but as an uninterested sideshow. It must have hurt to…
>What do we do? If you believe you are interacting with people who will act in good faith, you push for better education and offer better education. In my mind, the biggest issues with non-Asian PO…
I feel this so deeply. This describes every year of my life until this year. Nobody can honestly understand the level of pain that people like us face in every moment we live through. Last year, I pa…
Diet is much much much more important than cardio or having a physically active hobby. You can have that kind of hobby and burn more weight but if you eat more calories than you burn and can't contr…
I got curious and looked into the case. And I’m not admissions expert, but he was NOT a well rounded candidate at all. A lot of his young accomplishments (like getting offered a job at Google and his …
Hard tellin’, but a year ago I would have been thrilled to go on a date with a bjj woman… In the future, keep bjj in the gym. Sorry this happened, but engaging others outside of the practice, (even …
Well it sounds like your husband’s movie hobby is something you’ve known about for a long time. And while you don’t say it, my hunch is you supported and most likely participated in it at the start of…
Good. I think I’m just amazed at the amount of people that observed or participated in harming you in this way. I’m sorry they never had to answer to you for it.
I do all this and more and thought it would help me move on from the heartbreak. but here I am crying over him every time I am alone. I’ve thrown myself into work, got new hobbies, started a business …
If I've ever gotten intimate with someone on the first date it was because I was into them too. What kind of backwards thinking do you have going on up there, where you're judging the girl for some…
I wouldn’t have participated in the exchange as soon as that bullshit started. Unless he’s in some way “challenged” he knew what you meant and decided to peck at you for sport. It’s like that guy wh…
Not the user you asked, but the main thing for me was that according to experts in indigenous Mexican shamanic practices and beliefs, there is no system in Mexico (or anywhere else) that resembles wha…
Original copy of post by u/Far-Spread-6108: Because I'm really starting to. I know dating at ANY age is a weed out process. You're going to be into some people that aren't into you. Some people are…