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No More Mr. Nice Guy

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Getting married soon help me pls

Don't try to figure out stay or leave right now. You would just be guessing at what door to take. Prioritize yourself. Grey rock her. Look and ask literally nothing of or from her. See how she chan…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/12/2026
I’m the problem.

Check out “No more Mr. Nice Guy”. You seem like a very giving person who sees focusing on yourself as selfish. It’s not. People need to be able to focus on themselves in order to be better for those a…

r/Divorcecomment3/9/2026
Today was the worst day of my life

It's a loss you have to grieve... not really her, but the person you thought she was. Research the 5 stages of grief, and power through it. You'll come out stronger, and smarter. I say smarter, be…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/15/2026
Those of you who were blindsided, discarded, or abandoned- how are you doing now?

I'll keep it brief here, but I made some videos about it on my channel. Some of the things that helped me the most were: 1. Realizing no one was coming to save me - I could continue to be sad, hoping…

r/Divorcecomment3/25/2026
Anyone else had a golden retriever husband/long-term partner that turned out to be a serial cheater/womanizer?

The book No More Mr. Nice Guy really helps break down how/why the nicest guys in the world are the ones with the most issues sometimes. It has a lot to do with covert narcissism, needing validation, c…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/3/2026
What are boundaries?

Boundaries without consequences are just suggestions. Make the consequences known and enforce them. It's not controlling to want respect. She is free to do XYZ, but not while being your partner. Then …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/5/2026
GF of 3 years broke up with me because cause I couldn’t open my life to her. Should I broke up no contact early?

Man, you should read "No More Mr. Nice Guy". From what you're describing about your growing up this book will be immensely helpful to you. Regarding reaching out, I'd respect her wishes. Contact shou…

r/ExNoContactcomment4/5/2026