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I've been single for well over 10 years now with the odd situationship every other year or so. I've moved a lot and struggled greatly with my mental health over the years and never focused on dating m…

Help me understand-anxious now ex bf + part avoidant ex gf — My anxious ex and I met in ‘22. Online I was a full dismissive avoidant I began to work on myself in October’23. Since October ‘23,I have been a dismissive avoidant in recovery Recently,I have …

Lost my lucid dreaming ability the same day I told someone about it ,could metacognition explain this? — Hi everyone, I’m curious if anyone has experienced something similar. For about two years I practiced lucid dreaming very consistently. I used reality checks, dream journaling, and other methods, and …

I (28F) had an affair and don’t know what I’m doing. Please help. — I’ve been with my husband for 8 years, married for 2. He is genuinely the best person I know. Kind, safe, loyal. He’s my best friend. When I cry, he’s who I want holding me. When something funny happe…

Stop trying to get them back — The long paragraphs, gifts, and romantic gestures are only pushing them away. A good rule of thumb is: if it seems like it would happen in a romance movie, don't do or say it. Those are fiction for a …

I can't stop APing on accident and want to stop — Around 6-8 months ago, I was really into the idea of astral projecting. I tried for months with meditations and sounds, but nothing came of it. A few weeks after I stopped trying, I APed and had one o…

i almost lucid dreamed but i couldn't control anything — so last night i remembered about lucid dreaming and i wanted to try it again because i had in the past and it didn't work. recently I've been having very vivid dreams where i remember them a lot and i…

Soul crushing loneliness is one of the worst parts for me. — I always feel different in a group setting. Every single time. It doesn't matter if it's strangers, classmates, even friends. I'm always the weird one. I never belong anywhere. And that's just how it'…

manifested my crush driving me! — im so bad at explaining sorry! i dont know how i even did it i just remembered a while ago he had gotten a new car and i visualized him and i in it and i had affirmed that it would happen ex: “h/n wil…

I have realized I manifested my entire life, and now I am obsessed. — I am pretty confident that I somehow manifested the core of my life since I was in middle school. Right now, I am 26. It has been quite some years that I think I have been “manifesting”. When I was r…

Support needed. Last year at this time I had a crisis and ended up being victimised multiple times — ​ Last year between April and May I had a crisis and I started breaking away from abuse (reiterated s.abuse). When you try to break free from abuse, a lot of things can happen, but I never tho…

Had a fight with (ex) friend. How to manifest a new friend group? — For context generally im (20F) able to manifest SPs pretty easily. I mean this in a way that I always knew what someone would do. This was a very natural thing and nt smth I actively manifested but …

I (19M) think I'm in love with my best friend (20NB) — I've known this person for nearly two years and we're already the bestest friends towards each other. We make jokes all the time, hangout a whole bunch, just be in the same room and do our own thing, …

Have you had any experiences where the beings that interact with you displayed an amazing sense of humour? — **Specifically of the good natured kind**. Events that were seemingly playful, funny, kinda like an inside joke between friends, trolling *****(which NGL it feels like the whole phenomena is in a way …

Survive or maybe so? I just want to let it out my feelings — You know I beg, I plead, and I ask them if we can talk like adults. Even though I shouldn't be part of this situation, I involve myself because I don't want to lose them. I love them both, but do they…

Sexual trauma without sexual abuse? — I have no memory of being molested or assaulted. However, I have experienced several things in my life that have made me deeply uncomfortable in my own body. \- When I was 8, a neighborhood friend of…

Can I vent here? I just wanna get it out my chest. DA ex — My ex ghosted me over and over throughout our 8-year relationship. We broke up around 6–7 times. Back then, I didn’t understand attachment styles. I just knew I was anxious and he kept disappearing. …

My husband told me he has $63,000.00 in credit card debt. — My husband who is 58 years old me female thats is 48 female. Got married in October of 2023. My husband told me on April 6th he has $68,000.00 in credit card debt. I have lost complete trust in the…

Tried manifesting something and it failed for no reason — I kept persisting and I kept robotically affirming and I was so sure it would happen and not only did it not happen but it was WORSE than usual. I tried manifesting me selling over 10k (im a sales per…

Dating makes me feel lonelier than just being single... — I've been single forever (with a few short affairs sprinkled in), due to wanting to work on myself first and being avoidant in my twenties. I wanted a boyfriend but I've also always felt a strong need…

Agreed. I also dated a guy like this and things got progressively worse and worse- no amount of ‘*understanding*’ would have fixed it because ultimately he wasn’t fit to be in a relationship. On refle…

Welcome to the club? I don’t think anyone meant to say that it would happen fast.  

I like it but I had a weird effing day with other people yesterday. I literally was like is mercury in the microwave? Then I messed up travel plans this morning & this girl told me that she knew it wo…

I’m 4 years out from that relationship. I took almost 1 month off work (thank god I was able to) and just laid on the couch. I cried all the time and could barely eat. The grief made me physically ill…

Thank you for sharing your story. First, I want to say that I have not delved into all the online classes and manifestation books because I have seen how belief is all you need. The most powerful mom…

I’m sorry to say this but I wish it would happen again.

What about people who have manifested things without believing it would happen? I've been in panic mode years ago, several times, trying to manifest on a time crunch, not believing it would happen at …

Don’t beat yourself up too much. If you really loved her it’s normal you had hope. I found my first real love at like 16-17 years old. For years (after the breakup) I completely shut myself off from b…

I had a question in my mind about forcing outcomes and over ’not doing enough’ and then feeling bad for not doing enough or  simply just trying to make things happen while anticipating them not to bec…

From what you have described, it seems more like this is the straw that broke the camel’s back. It seems like he does “jokes” like this often, which demeans the value of them as jokes. Humor can oft…

Yeah it’s a cold world brother never thought it would happen honestly shit blindsided me out of no where but doing better now just sucks to think about

I tried not to, although it would happen involuntarily. When I felt really good, I would allow myself to imagine but I didn't want to limit the bridge of events to what my ego could comprehend, even w…

It was one the oldest houses in the area of the city I lived in, right next to train tracks (that I know a group of boys died on train jumping). Now as to where they specifically died I cant say, but …

Not just unrealistic, opportunistic Honestly I would argue she's using you. Big red flag imo. EDIT: lots of people here who downvoted me because they had no argument against me. Trust me OP, there a…

That idea is misunderstanding of a natural phenomenon that CAN occur, and tends to occur, depending on the person and their inner structure. It is problematic when spiritual teachings are passed …

Well it complicated, it wasn't a bad break. When I met her she wasnt in the best place mentally. She put in alot of work and I was always there to support her. Never forced her to change anything jus…

I didn't have kids. Assumed it would happen with my partner of 10 years but decided after hitting 40 it wasn't going to happen and I'm okay with that. I have very little interest in nesting and am no…

While I need a connection of some sort to want to have sex with a woman (doing so with a stranger is not for me), I'm able to separate out sex and other physical acts from the underlying friendship. …

I think I did, but then lost hope that it would happen but it did, but it should’ve happened sooner, it was definitely not who I thought would cuz it was my younger sister and then told my parents abo…

How do i control my dreams? Before i was fine with controlling my dreams decently but i just can't seem to do it suddenly. Before i would literally just think it and it would happen but now i can't …

I'm not defending Bledsoe OR going against him. I'm just neutrally posting this fact: he was supposedly misinformed on WHEN the star would line up with the sphinx. And I can't remember If it's actuall…

>*I'm not defending Bledsoe OR going against him. I'm just neutrally posting this fact: he was supposedly misinformed on WHEN the star would line up with the sphinx.* Here's the thing, though -- firs…

And you even state how in the past you would achieve end state and then drop it (it would happen the one time and then done) lol so you accepted it as your new reality and dropped it.

I'll explain it as I experienced it then, and not from the perspective of now when I have more information: As a teen, I would get this buzzing/electrifying feeling in my head/mind's eye and body wh…

Your situation hits close to home - had a friend dating someone in big law and it was brutal. The constant mental absence even during "free time" was probably harder than the actual long hours 💀 …

I am spiraling at this moment. Maybe the worst but doubt it. I ended a 16 year marriage around a year ago. Was with that person for 18 years and friends much longer. That relationship was great until…

Well I did the dumping but heart break is still heart break no matter who did it imo (exception of cheating and etc) For me, it doesn’t hit right away—it comes later. The healing from a breakup feels…

One time…we kind of approached each other. I wish it would happen more, I just don’t have the time to go out all the time.

The TL:DR of my experience; I've never gotten over my first girlfriend. I've been in love with her since I was 19 (am 44 now). I've dated other women since. Its never been even close to how I felt a…

👆👏👏👏👏👏 His parents need therapy too. OP admittedly treated her like crap and then had his parents pile on too. Once a woman has had enough, she does go cold and moves on to find and be her auth…

My dad told me once men would start to look at me the way men were looking at a lady in a commercial. This was Mexican tv so it was gawking and catcalling 😐 he didn’t add anything else, just that it …

I manifested passing 4 exams. All I did was visualize my report card in green, without caring about how it would happen. Before each exam date, I’d just browse through the study guides — but barely ac…

Yes it was communicated. There were multiple situations were she would have emotional outbursts from random things. Get really frustrated and then take it out on me and throw a literal tantrum in publ…

True. My worry is that she'll say she won't drink, and won't even plan to and will try to behave herself, but then the day of one thing will lead to another and it would happen anyway.

That is a very kind and amicable entity your working with. So much so that I'm almost certain it is some aspect of your higher self, from an outside perspective. Your skill far exceeds mine, but i …

Heh... I feel you. To have everything end smoothly with everything explained and everyone feels heard. But sometimes... These things happen because when you were together... Nobody understood each oth…

Original copy of post by u/izzybitsy2: I've been single forever (with a few short affairs sprinkled in), due to wanting to work on myself first and being avoidant in my twenties. I wanted a boyfriend…

Dated a girl like that. Started dating my friend. Warned him it would happen to him. It did