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First, I want to give you a secret of ALL relationships: Break ups, when they happen, occur bit by bit with little "jabs", "negative comments" whether they are said out loud or just to yourself. Th…
Shifters who argue with anti-shifters do more damage to the community than shifters who let the negative comments pass — While I understand the need to protect your beliefs, shifters’ job isn’t recruiting people into believing in shifting. Fighting anti-shifters in the comments not only wastes your time, but it also bri…
Issues from anger stops me from building long-term connection — NOTICE: I'm sharing a ton of information, and self-assessment so expect this to be long I've come with alot of friendships from schools, outside, and many things that allows me to potentially have fr…
The year before being discarded via divorce- was there signs? — I sometimes sit here and wonder if I missed the signs of discard. 2025 (5th year of marriage) was pretty up and down then I was discarded early 2026. 2025: \-negative comments about me \-control th…
I want to know if my ex was a narcissist or not - examples — He was divorced with kids at 33yo. He told me in the beginning that he would marry again and would be open to having another kid, he knew early on that I wouldn’t be interested in a relationship with …
What should I do? Leave everything? Try move on? Wait for the true one? — hey, please don't judge me and don't hit me with negative comments, i already know how stupid this sounds. I'm not looking for blind validation but real advice and hopeful or real stories. so here it…
No contact but still living with narcissistic mom? — (27F) I’ve stopped talking to the person who gave birth to me but I’m still living with her and some other members of my family. My income is a bit strapped right now due to quitting my full time job …
How do I (38M) tell my GF (41F) my true feelings about love? — The other night my girlfriend (41F) was discussing philosophy with me (38M), which is really sweet of her seeing how she knows it's one of my big interests and I'm a deep thinker. I have been with her…
I want to start a Mettā Journal — I am currently very frustrated with myself especially when I am having conversations with others. I grew up with a very negative mother. Whenever I or other people were excited about something she was…
Law of attraction/manifestation — Awhile back I had said to the universe if I hear a thunderstorm ⛈️ my Sp is thinking of me deeply! And it has been awhile since that happened but I forgot about it ..and today I heard a thunderstorm �…
Seeking a reality check and validation on a “Trauma bond” and how I was treated — This is my first Reddit post so bare with me. Also pre-warning, some notes of DV And Emotional Abuse. I’m posting this because I need an unbiased reality check. I asked an AI to help me organize myse…
Stuck between my parents and my girlfriend’s family—how do I move forward? — I (18M) am a high school senior dealing with a really stressful situation between my parents and my girlfriend’s (18F) family, and I’m looking for advice on how to handle it. For context, I’m white a…
asian mom makes me very reactive and angry — I know my situation is far from unique, I just needed a space to let my resentment out. As most Asians growing up in the west, I was raised around a ton of family--grandparents, aunts, uncles, co…
What do you tell yourself when you’re feeling a little off? — Hi everyone, lately I’ve been feeling a bit off and slightly demotivated, so I wanted to start a small positive thread here. What are the lines, affirmations, or beliefs you tell yourself when you’re…
Respectfully, this is what happens when you only focus on material aspects and totally disregard the "spiritual woo woo." I'm not saying everyone ever needs to be enlightened, but there's a reason why…
Thank you ❤️ I am not sure what wording you prefer, but you can post anything like this: - Rayu deserves to be paid for the meditations you’ve sold. You talk about manifestation and abundance, pay t…
I see where you’re coming from and can understand why it’s hard to see such vilification of FAs. However, just because it may have been difficult for him to express his feelings doesn’t mean that his …
I know I'm late to the party, but that is such a strong reaction. It's great he apologized unprompted, but I agree that a deeper discussion is definitely needed. My husband hates dressing up. He's so …
Good on you for getting tested!!! Don’t let all these negative comments get to you. This type of negativity and shame is what prevents people from getting tested in the first place. I’d be shocked if …
Man I never realized how many miserable people there are in this subreddit. Ignore the negative comments, good post OP.
I'm a half-Asian woman who does some performing arts. There are many online spaces where there's a subset of Asian/mixed men who do little with their time except rage at the existence of couples con…
When they say something hurtful to you and then claim it was a harmless remark or joke and you are overreacting or cant take a joke. Telling someone they are tired is a normal harmless remark. Tel…
A group of girls here in South Korea lied to others behind my back that I needed a therapist because they wanted to cover their racist asses up and what they did to me. Another woman, an actress (this…
Hi, this is coming from someone who has been skinny and chubby within all the 4 years of being with my boyfriend. He has NEVER made any negative comments about my body. He has always been positive and…
I understand how you feel 100%. I too had a relationship like this when I was young twenties too, and it took me some time to leave too. What happened for me is that it started small, like this - li…
Okay but he's apparently making negative comments about op's body as well. Like, that's a massive red flag imo. What's the plan after they have kids?
Solidarity with a subreddit that is constantly raided by others (non asians) who constantly criticize and demorize Asian americans. No offense but this isnt a private subreddit whose goal is to protec…
Your chart ruler (Aquarius) is fixed. Not a sign known for “letting go”. Capricorn and Virgo are both kinda serious (especially Capricorn) where they take themselves very seriously. Scorpio is also …
Compile an assortment of women with big boobs, small boobs, natural boobs, fake boobs etc. Tell him you wanna play a game. Tell him that if he can guess with 100% accuracy, whether each girl has natur…
It must be so hard, I know. I had a partner who constantly gave me backhanded compliments at best, and outright insulted my looks at worst. Within a few years, my self confidence was rock bottom. I ju…
It kind of sounds like that's what your bf wanted to do with all his little negative comments - make you feel ashamed of your hobby so you'd never go back to it. I don't trust anyone who tears down …
I get it and I think your feelings are totally valid. I don't get the negative comments here.. I also don't like tank tops or t shirts that show cleavage. Short are fine but something like bloomers, n…
my issue with telling from comments is that creators can just delete negative comments from their videos, and it's also not hard to fake/bot comments I imagine? Thanks though :D
Ignore the negative comments, just because you're tired of something does not mean they're low energy. I honestly think Reddit is filled with people who don't actually live life. I'm in the same posit…
Seriously. Ive never been so triggered to respond to negative comments like this before. Its so frustrating to see. Genuinely think they're bots.
U just defied all the negative comments by people who don't believe in manifestation and have one argument all the time - "oh so u think ur woo woo can make a famous person fall for u?" AND THATS WHA…
Here’s what I saw or o should say now realize we’re the signs and red flags looking back. The victim. When I met her she had just ended a 5 relationship with her married boss. She of course claims h…
Mine would say that he doesn’t like me wearing cardigans or obvious makeup and his reasoning behind his hatred for these things was because his “lazy horrible bitch” ex would wear cardigans a lot and …
I would be honest that it is highly unlikely that you can change the mind Asian in-laws. I’m Chinese myself and I have seen it all the time. You can try learning Chinese to gain favor with them- i bel…
Hi OP. I was in a very similar situation as you, and ended up dating the guy through college. He was so amazing, but always thought about “what if.” Our intimacy was fine, but not amazing. After colle…
Yes, and they were always slick passive aggressive comments that they refused to own up to; Obviously comparing me to other women, checking out other women even saw him look a woman up and down then …
This is probably the best and safest place to post your experiences, IMHO. Regardless of drugs, mental, or emotional trauma, or temporary insanity. This place is meant to be a safe haven for discuss…
This will probably get buried under all the negative comments, but this sounds like exactly the type of thing couples counseling can help with. I think it has to do with your different communication s…
Haha no it's all up there, probably comes off as a sad story overall ;) So yes, but part of that was making moves to a city, actively building friendships and moving in with a housemate - all of whic…
The 16 of 18 really stuck out to me. To get to that ratio with good scores I feel like he had to either had to have been so unpersonable that every interviewer that they had very negative comments or …
Don’t worry about the negative comments. They are from angry women who feel like they have been wronged by some man. You’re fine. You do you. Protect your family. Eat whatever you want on your wedding…