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>Its pretty obvious IMO that he wanted it to be kept private It's not even remotely "obvious". You called it a "diary". It isn't a "diary". It's nothing of the sort. It's a collection of apothegmata…
Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure? — Working on an API gateway/proxy that sits in front of APIs. The proxy adds its own validation layer (toxicity, etc). I'm wrestling with an API design choice: when my **proxy's** validation rules bloc…
How do you persist data across pipeline runs? — I need to save key-value output from one run and read/update it in future runs in an automatic fashion. To be clear, I am **not** looking to pass data between jobs within a single pipeline. Best solu…
Turns out I needed a "middleman" to have a successful relationship with a DA — Now the title may sound wild, but stick with me. # The Story So I (26M) have been dating someone (24F) who, as I came to realize, is a dismissive avoidant. It's been about a year now - though truthf…
I (re)earned my secure attachment this week. What a journey this has been. — I just wanted to share this diary dump with anyone who wants a success story. I believed myself to be FA/A for a long time, and this week I can finally call myself secure. TW: sexual assualt Despite …
I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work — **My Journey** I can’t remember not being depressed. I have some memories of the time before, but they are pictures, frames of a child enjoying life. But I’ve struggled with depression almost my enti…
I (19F) told my boyfriend (19M) it’s not my job to prove I won’t cheat. — For context, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months. We met through mutual friends, and he’s my first boyfriend. We got along really well and started dating about a month after we bega…
My abduction story. — I was abducted from my balcony when I was 16 years old. It was October 2018, around 8:00 PM, when my mother called me downstairs for dinner. I left my phone on my study table and stepped out to get my…
I think I manifested way more than I thought was possible — Okay… so I think I just came to the realization that I manifested ALOT more than I actually knew was possible…. Whether it was positive or negative. For instance. My elementary/ middle school crush…
How do i maintain a journal with privacy — This might seem like a very stupid question but i really wanna write down my thoughts in a journal diary to obliterate anxiety and to have a self reflection but how do i keep it provate like i dont wa…
The impact of Mother / Daughter SA - People don’t talk about it — People don’t talk about MDSA (mother daughter sexual abuse) much. They do more than they used to though. There’s also Janette McCurdys Memoir *I’m Glad my Mom Died*, which discusses this type of abuse…
I found my old diary and realised I never really changed just got distracted — I recently found my old college diary, and it surprised me. Back then, I was naturally drawn to reading, not just Mills and Boon stories, but history, space, black holes, and spirituality. I also ha…
Best apps for self help?? — Hey everyone. Which apps do you use for your mental health? Habit trackers, mood tracker, journal/diary writing etc. Please comment which ones you use! Thanks ✨🫶🏻
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Join study diary and stay consistent — Starting a “study diary” to stay consistent 🌙 instead of tracking perfect days, I’m just logging what I actually do. “I made a small space for this if anyone wants to join r/studydiary So many o…
TW!!! How common are long term passive suicidal thoughts? — **TW: suicidal thoughts/ sh** Hi everyone. I wanted to ask if it is normal to have suicidal thoughts, like wanting to unalive yourself or just disappear when you are stressed. I know this question c…
Smearing campaign begins. Paints cheating as retaliation — tw: narcissism Backstory: STBXH of 15 years admitted that he did in fact had an affair with my best friend for 1 year at year 5 and lied and gaslit me for 10 more years. Also fucked prostitutes when…
Smearing campaign: cheating was now in retaliation — tw: narcissism Backstory: STBXH of 15 years admitted that he did in fact had an affair with my best friend for 1 year at year 5 and lied and gaslit me for 10 more years. Also had sex with prostitute…
Am I deactivating? — I'm still new to attachment theory and romantic relationships in general, so I'd like to hear other people's thoughts. I (20F) was dating one of my college friends (22F) "Clara" up until last month, …
A narcissist mom VS an ASPD son. — My mom's words will be dashes(-) and mines will be plus signs(+) pretty sure my mom is a narcissist, I have been checking boxes and she checks every criteria to be suspected or assumed. I am 21. and …
I did everything right but has not gotten any results yet — I used scripting to manifest a diary and i did everything. I wrote a letter to universe about receiving a diary for my birthday. I didnt chase and i was detached. I read the letter for 20 days. But i …
Is it unethical to read meditations as its a private diary ? — This may be a naïve question, but isn’t it at least questionable, if not outright unethical, to read someone’s private diary when they never intended it to be published? I can understand approaching i…
НЕ CAE BACK!!! How I got my bf back after he broke up with me — The Backstory: On 1 march 2026 bf of two years ended things. He said he needed space.I tried everything begging, crying and it only pushed him away. he went totally cold. I dived deep into vedic astro…
Dad threatened me with a gun weeks ago, i can't stop getting flashbacks — I (15F) was sitting in a desert area in my neighbourhood. I was listening to music and writing in my journal. I was staking this place out as somewhere to run away to if things ever got too bad at hom…
Therapy is not going well, I don't know what to ask for or where to redirect sessions. — I came here seeking advice for a different path to try or how to ask for or seek the right help, even if it's outside of therapy. This post grew and grew as I found myself struggling to describe what …
learning to script — ive just gotten into manifesting, and im doing some methods all together, like visualising and robotic affirmations but ive also been trying scripting but theres always a lack of clarity around it! i…
what to do? — Hello, i am a 16 year old girl who is kind of new to manifesting. i have manifested stuff using subliminals but only for my physical appearance and money. i want to do something more vague and bigger,…
In laws led to divorce — I got married a year back. He and his sister had a weird relationship which did not sit well with me and it all started there. Constant fight abuse misunderstanding. His mom was also dual faced and wo…
Maybe this is the END OF US! — On 4rth of April, 2026 Dear Diary, He shut me off! finally! yeah, i never actually thought he'll ever do that to me, but deep down i was afraid 'cuz every boys/men are THE SAME. Fight arose 'cuz of …
NC since christmas. got ambushed at easter. abuser parent showed her colors infront of family(socially), first time ever. need emotional support. (struggling to come to terms with MBP,/captivity /starvation abuse and abusers complete refusal to acknowledge) — to preface , id like to say some of my story/past (although, for those of u who are regular here im sure u have seen some of my olde rposts from 2 years ago) the easter incident will be at the bottom…
My [25M] best friend [36M] has "half ghosted" me, how do I deal with this? — Sorry, I understand the title may be confusing. We have been friends for over 5 years and in that time he has always been the greatest one I could ask for. He genuinely changed my life; the way I thou…
Parents ruined my relationship with sex and dating — Basically since i was a kid my parents had a obsession with me losing my virginity and all that I since i was a kid never had any interest in anything sexual. It's just not a priority to me An…
I can no longer trust people after what narc did to me — so basically I had the idea that writing in a diary would help me process the trauma narc gave me....boy was I wrong while it did help me write my emotions down, she took the opportunity every chance…
Saw something in my bf’s browser that feels private, should I tell him? — My bf (26M) and I (25F) have been dating 2 years, live together, and share a home pc. His cousin gave it to him/us, but I have free rein to use it as well. I usually don’t but right now I’m applying f…
My mom read my diary out loud at dinner and somehow i’m the problem now — So my mom just randomly decided family dinner was the perfect time to humiliate me, and somehow I’m still the disrespectful one. I was 16, stuck in this tiny apartment in Naples where you could hear e…
Narc Abuse - Coercive Control - Police — I’m from England. Coercive Control is now a criminal offence here. I left 1.5 years ago as he slept, four days later got the most brutal discard (all the things he promised he wouldn’t do), silent tre…
I think i manifested my breakup — I mean, I generally wonder if you can actually manifest your break up like I was very angry at my boyfriend. We were having fights like so many and I used to write in my diary that I hate him that I d…
Some notes from a healing codependent — Hey! With all the negative-leaning (has its place!) stories and thoughts on here, I thought I'd give a bit of my own learnings, and positive moments, to show healing IS possible. Since I don't wanna…
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First dream memory after taking Elvanse – a prelude to lucid dreaming? — I’ve been taking Elvanse, prescribed by my psychiatrist, for a good two weeks now. Before that, I had extremely vivid dreams – lots of them but never lucid. Up to six, as far as I can remember, after …
I had zero privacy or control of my bedroom growing up and that has left me with deep fear of my pirvacy being invaded — My parents are very old school, conservative Christians. Growing up, I wasn’t allowed to have social media accounts like MySpace or Facebook unless they had full access to them, including my passwords…
How do I write my statements in a notebook designated for that purpose? — Hi, I'd like to ask a few questions about how I should fill out a notebook for the demonstrations, since I'm going to have one for the first time. 1. Can it be any regular notebook or does it have to…
Is it a valid for me to be concerned by my partner’s cultural knowlege? — I (21F) have been with my partner (21M) for 4 years. I love him and he’s a great person. He's patient, so kind, and I've grown up with him. But I’m starting to be bothered by a certain level of "intel…
This is a very different vibe, but the CTRL album by SZA was so incredibly relatable when it came out, it’s like she found my diary and put my thoughts -and feelings into song. Especially songs like G…
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I literally felt the same, and so needed a second opinion. Here's what Claude Opus 4 had to say (after copy pasting it): Why does this reddit post feel like an ad? My spidy sense is tingling: Yo…
Dude do you think this subreddit is your personal relationship diary? This is the kind of immature nonsense that turns attachment theory into a joke.
So, I don't keep counts of my manifestations. But I swear by scripting. Scripting has changed my life. I am a very rational person myself. I strongly believe in science but I also believe in God/uni…
I think you should try to only put in the amount of energy you can give away freely without resentment. I got into this pattern for a long time; I'm a natural planner and like to have things in the d…
I'm not qualified to give you any pro opinion but I can tell you what I've done, for myself. First step is admitting you can't continue this way, for your own sake and the sake of your close ones. S…
chat gpt is not a person, its a bunch of code programmed to analyze what youre saying and keep a conversation going. sometimes it spits out pure nonsense just to answer your question. it literally jus…
Interesting you bring up the Nordic countries cus I’m just watching this Swedish netflix show, diary of a ditched girl, and the entire time the protagonist hooks up really fast with people, I couldn’t…
A lot of people get used to using this daily thread as a sort of dating diary. If you visit it regularly you'll start to notice the accounts which do this which seems to be what you are picking up on.…
Yes there are a few people you whose adventures you can follow along. I've done diary-like posts too. But also I've definitely seen some post exactly the same stuff multiple times.
I went on a massive binge. There were some good ones, actually. Palm Springs was really good. I watched Bridget Jones Diary for the first time. Which was great! There’s a few more, too. But there we…
So I’ll be honest with you - it’s a great tool when used properly. It’s pretty widely recognized at this point that chatgpt is highly reaffirming and will only counter your viewpoints very softly unl…
Welcome to a club many of us (including me) didn’t know we’d been in for a long time. Speaking of late realizations, I very recently wrote in my journal that I realized my mom was my biggest bully, an…
I straight unmatched I guy I liked first, who had “partner in crime, a muse….” Basically the live, laugh, love but dating profile version. He finally pops up- any exciting plans for this week? Despit…
Hey there, I understand that a bit, I had a time when that was the case. Healing is possible, but it takes effort, sitting with tough emotions, and finding a path towards yourself. That is at times…
Thank you for sharing that. The line about realizing your mom was your biggest bully really hit me. I think a lot of us come to these realizations really late, sometimes even after years of therapy li…
reading this felt like reading my own diary honestly. the resentment that builds when you feel like youre the only one steering the ship is so real. and then you start wondering if youre being unfair …
It's different for everyone! For me, a week of not messaging isn't preferable but is fine as long as we have the next date in the diary. I know that's not for everyone so I communicate early that I'm …
You are so right, reading past diary entries/reddit comments is helping x
And I repeat, money is a very impersonal thing compared to specific things. If you want a cola from a store you dont manifest legs first , you just get it, unless you are thinking of "Oh i dont have l…
Girl you basically went into his diary where he was venting his feelings in a safe manner and you’re offended and making his hurt about you. And you know you’re in the wrong. If you want to work t…
Hey, it’s my public diary! Yall I have lost my damn mind. Got back on tinder and paid for a week of gold, for funsies? Really though I feel a need to sort of build up a bit of a roster or just explo…
As a wife/caregiver of my partner I understand both sides to this story. The fact that he hasn't brought it up does sound painful, I'm sorry you had to find out online how much he struggled emotionall…
Haha happy to see I am not the only one posting here my public diary. The duck 🦆
i’m guilty of using this sub as my diary, i usually delete my posts not long after posting. nobody gets it like the people here. i’m really struggling right now but after 6 months of unemployment, af…
As someone who agrees phone passwords shared between partners isn't a big deal, he shouldn't be mad you don't want him to read your diary. Yes some stuff should be private. If he doesn't like that, th…
That's...stupid . "Move this private thing to another location so that I can have full access to your phone". What does that even do? It's respecting one boundary so that he can stomp on a different o…
Couple things. First (only because it’s easiest…) You’re both being childish with the not speaking to each other thing. What do you mean you “don’t know what else to talk about?” Weather. Basket…
Imo, you're missing a stronger reaction. But you've still been very smart about this. What he's doing is crazy work. It is very average these days, for the average person to be on their phone a lot. …
"I don't have to prove to you that I'm not cheating" sounds a lot more suspicious than "I'm not cheating on you, it's a diary"
Yea, in my 20s I went to a spiritual sects, so I know about delusional avoidance, basically pretending like you live in a reality where only you and few others have access to, and somehow it makes you…
My thought process is if you agreed to be in this relationship then you trust that person. Unless they did something to waver the trust, I do not understand why somebody should not be allowed their ow…
I make this point rather frequently on here and IRL. Please have a conversation with your wife about her health and hormone levels. After several years of anxiety, fatigue, depression, dealing with …
EHhh, I dunno. It feels like you are both in the wrong here. You went thru her phone knowing that she really didnt want you to. Its equivalent to reason someones diary I kinda feel like. I get you …
To be a bit more precise: I explained that I wouldn't trust if I asked a friend how he perceives me because he probably wouldn't want to hurt my feelings, but that I would trust her. She was hesitant …
Ive felt like this since i was a kid lol (had a diary entry where i wrote something very similar to this when i was 11-12... sadly i almost never documented anything), it feels .. reassuring? that im …
I underwent this process many years ago after realizing how 'broken' of a person I've became. Also had a diary entry about it ironically but stopped maintaining one shortly after I started feeling bet…
I'm so pleased that you like Meditations, it's a wonderful book. Did you know that it's the private diary of Marcus Aurelius? Cos of that it's a bit hard to follow sometimes. Marcus learned his s…
Personally I think getting access to instagram profiles early in dating can be unhealthy because it can lead to an overwhelm of information that isn’t divulged naturally. Some people can be very obses…
So this is more of like an old cringy diary entry from my “angsty era” if that makes sense. But atleast you did the research means you’re committed to the truth pretty cool.
No. > what would you consider it being "severe" enough to tell someone? When you are hit. Write it down. Treat each event as an 'incidence report' even if you don't share it immediately. Date, time,…
I hate to be "that guy," but I must point out that attributing "trauma" to the research process in the same sentence as the actual experience of those who lived through the mistreatment really devalue…
I used to write in my diary about how my mother is more evil than Hitler. So… early early childhood?
I also had a white coworker who felt like he needed to chime in about how Asia is “not known for tall people” because of diary product intake after my Taiwanese coworker said something like Taiwanese …
I'm a 21 year old Indian girl and I resent my parents every second for how controlling they've been all my life. I'm extremely traumatized till today and they're still control freaks. The only way out…
this is exactly it. you didn't change, you just got buried under the noise. the core doesn't disappear, it just gets quieter. fwiw there's a free self-leadership course i've been working through that…
Well that is a good comment. “Buried under the noise.” I was cleaning my desk and mini library 📚 just came across this diary that I value the most. Interestingly I used to collect quotes of famous …
We believe you, I'm so sorry these creeps are harassing you, have you reported this to the authorities/reported them on the sites they have harassed you on, and gathered any evidence like messages, sc…
[I baked some Easter themed cupcakes](https://imgur.com/a/Zo0QmxX) to bring into the office today and they're my best reviewed ones yet 🥳 My new partner is diary free so if anyone has a great diary f…