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Ex Will Not Leave Me Alone & Is Messaging New Friends About Me 2 Years Later — **past context:** my online ex that i posted about previously posted about me in october accusing me of stalking him due to him seeing fake accounts view his story (i actually wasn't bc i was FINALLY …

One the biggest founder skill is knowing when to walk away - I will not promote — Yes it's hard to kill a project. Yes you might think "I need to keep going" to make it. And that's true in a way, you need to not quit. But iterating/pivoting is not quiting. It's showing agility an…

how do you actually move on from someone when the hardest part isn't missing them, it's accepting that they were never going to choose you in the first place? — i feel like i already know the answer but i genuinely need to get this out of my own head im 27f and this is about my ex. we were together for years, broke up last january, took like a 6 month break,…

i stayed for too long, got so hurt — i feel like i already know the answer but i genuinely need to get this out of my own head im 27f and this is about my ex. we were together for years, broke up last january, took like a 6 month break,…

Did I do this to myself... — long post warning i just need to get this out somewhere because it’s been sitting in my head on a loop i feel like i already know the answer but i genuinely need to get this out of my own head im 27…

oh boy did i get played — long post warning i just need to get this out because it’s been replaying in my head nonstop and i feel like i’m going insane trying to connect all the dots what makes it hard is that i'm so angry. i…

Any tips on how to get clarity when feeling extremely triggered and anxious? I've been seeing this guy for half a year and lately he has been extremely busy at work and feeling overwhelmed, which of…

Hey everyone, I really need some perspective on my situation. My ex and I recently broke up after almost 3 years together, about 8 days ago. The breakup was reportedly over “values” — but from my pers…

>it seemed harmless and fun for a couple months I gotta push back on this. This is where the intentional dating thing comes in, if you want a long term monogamous partner then this isn’t how it start…

What you're describing sounds more like open awareness or choiceless awareness meditation, which is absolutely a legitimate traditional practice. The breath-focused method you tried is just one approa…

That's really cool about the breathing technique finally clicking.... curious what changed for you last night that made it work differently? The fact that it happened in the same department is interes…

Don’t forgive him. Forgive yourself for being so agreeable, flexible, and capable that he’s been reduced to an entitled, spoiled, passive aggressive man-child. I can’t say he HATES you based off of…

I do think a lot of people feel entitled to closure, but I disagree that closure is always a manipulation tactic. I can see what you mean and definitely see how that can happen, but I think it’s a ver…

Sometimes it is useful to de-personalize the situation a little bit, in order to get clarity. Imagine you have a daughter who was married to an abusive husband, and she left that abuser and was stayi…

i am sorry for your situation but you could have lost 20 more years on a bad woman there is one more thing to get clarity over now when you know she is a cheater especially because she is careless …

What you’re describing is actually pretty common for people who’ve been in relationships like that. When someone keeps lying and gaslighting you, you start losing trust in your own perception of reali…

i mean i hate to say it but i doubt it had anything to do with OP. She made a big mistake during a hard time in her life and id just wanna hear her perspective on it and see if she regrets it. I think…

In my post you would have seen that he owes me a huge amount of money. This is a relationship that I’ve been in for a long time. And I am currently unable to leave safely without it have lasting and…

i feel like i already know the answer but i genuinely need to get this out of my own head im 27f and this is about my ex. we were together for years, broke up last january, took like a 6 month break,…

Ok but what if you’re not sure and you do nothing to get clarity and refuse to engage emotionally? Because I pointed that out to him before and he still didn’t engage emotionally…but he had no issue e…