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Thank you for sharing this. It's quite rare to read genuinely insightful reports of peeking out there instead of the usual "love and light" BS. I've seen/sensed this fractal/recursive structure too (…

THE PHOENIX LIGHTS 29th ANNIVERSARY This is what I saw that night March 13, 1997. It was a totally solid piece of machinery not just lights. I could see the bottom of the UFO clearly by two light sources illuminating the bottom of the craft as it flew over my head — I posted this also in UFO sub. March 13, 1997 I was working in East Mesa, Arizona in a 10 bed Hospice inpatient unit as the Charge RN. We worked 12 hour shifts getting off at 7:30 PM but that night t…

Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱 — Earlier I made a post and someone commented that they didn't want to watch a video. Understood! Here is an account of what I saw during my time with ceremony number one with iboga. It was not what I i…

I stumbled on my husband’s reddit account. One of them, anyway. — I’ll probably delete this, but right now I need to get it out, to call my nerves and be there for my kids. My hands are a little shaky. I was certainly not expecting this today. Or any day. I was goi…

It’s so hard finding my people — I want nothing more than to find my friends, my “tribe”, and my own little community. I was in a friend group but deep down I knew they weren’t my people, I found them kind of corny tbh (no hate, I’m …

It’s so hard finding my people — I want nothing more than to find my friends, my “tribe”, and my own little community. I was in a friend group but deep down I knew they weren’t my people, I found them kind of corny tbh (no hate, I’m …

Anyone who isn't understanding is just wasting your time * energy that could be with a better fit. Find your tribe, you don't need the rest

This is a great question. I was in therapy for 10 years and also went to countless coaches and therapists. There are a handful of things that actually helped me significantly: 1. Creating deep, meani…

Of course it has. Like rape and killing of random people just because you were part of the nobility or higher status in tribes and kingdoms. That doesn't make it right.

# I, 37F, am struggling with boundaries, jealousy, and my 48M partner’s friendship I’m wrestling with complicated feelings about a medicine retreat my partner of 6 months wants me to attend this summ…

The only thing we have to watch out for now is war with Saturn and Neptune in Aries. Though tribes are meant to be good they indicate a flow of energy. So there is a flow of revolutionary energy with …

If I had to choose one, I’d lean 11th. The 3rd house explains the *mechanism* of Reddit. Writing, scrolling, exchanging information, short-form communication. That’s the interface. But the reason pe…

They're acting like they won the lotto. Loads of lottery winners end up broke in the span of a few years. Tit for tat, a healthy family is supposed to be a tribe and help each other when they can. A r…

Not driving in a city where public transport is good, this isnt an issue. The fact is your disposable income. You cant expect a date or a partner to pay for it all. Dinners and drinks out. Days out et…

I’m 46 and was just thinking about this. I don’t have a tribe. My parents died and I thought things would be better but they’re not too much better. I dropped a lot of friends the past few years since…

I have a 17yo. And the things we don’t teach our youngers is mind blowing. 1. Learn to digest emotions. Especially the ones that (in your mind) make you a not **nice person** or not a **cool girl…

This is important timing. Building a village when a baby is born is from the ground up and I think your brother is trying to lay the foundation, and earlier commitment with clear support makes the who…

It will suck for about 2-3 years, you’re in the middle of a transformation, you need to let go of the old to make room for the new. To include ideas, beliefs, people, etc… your tribe is out there, fin…

There’s no way i could possibly type out what’s been happening to me over the last 2 years but ill just say that it’s been A LOT 😂but i am looking hard at Isis and her potential “role” more so than H…

1. I found out that a person I met online had a Minnesota solidarity image in her social media feeds. It sent a pretty clear message about where she was politically. 2. Social research shows that pol…

People in on this convo, you are my tribe. Thank you ALL!

I programmed my lights to turn on before I got home and always have the TV on as well as headphones. We evolved in campfire tribes, night stories, we need to honor that need.

I used to work at a movie theater, and some of the whites and Mexicans I worked with tried VERY hard to try to get me fired. I got laid off due to COVID. When I wanted my job back, my white former man…

Moon in Leo third house. You protect your tribe, siblings. Sagittarius seventh house,the archer in relationships. You have chiron in asendent, your wound of youth. With aquarius made you an outsider.

It’s ok that it’s hard for you. That is true for most, in some way or another. People argue about our ancestors, but forget prior to modern civilization we were nomadic/tribal, so any coitus was wit…

My god...I had this whole diatribe scripted in my head before I read the text of the voicemail. This has it all! Aunt/family claiming they don't know WHY YOU are hurting the narc like this, narc sick/…

Im so sorry. Sometimes tribe of origin is the most dangerous entourage to have. I read somewhere " People that are sometimes safe, are not safe people". Sadly many people i grew up around , fit in …

I am so sorry you are going through this right now. Being sick with the flu while home alone is the absolute perfect storm for triggering this specific type of panic. I want to explain exactly why thi…

There are a few things going on. The ruler of your 11th house of friendships (Mercury) is conjunct two malefic planets - Saturn and Mars. Saturn rules your 7th house of one-on-one close relationships …

"I’ve always stated that porn isn’t an issue. I’ve had past relationships where it definitely evolved into an issue, but as long as my partner is being open and honest abt watching it - then I couldn’…

2nd Gen Chinese American here too, and I felt somewhat similar to how you felt when I was around your age. Though, after a couple of years, I came to realize what u/genek1953 said. It wasn't really wh…

I love that so much! Watching a familiar movie with your family is the ultimate signal to your nervous system. You are literally showing your amygdala: "Look, we are surrounded by our tribe, and every…

Sounds like a toxic group of people that want to justify their addictions by putting you down. Deep down they feels jealous or embarrassed about their own addictions, to validate their addiction then…

It’s such a shitty thing to say, because you know what? Other people have a support system. They have healthy families that would be there to “save them” if needed. Sometimes without even having to as…

The guy obviously isn't poor, so he probably should just take his money and move to an Asian country. He used the phrase "leveling up." I see this phrase a lot on this subreddit. This anime video-g…

Their Mars is in Taurus tribe their sun, not Aries, (and rules their chart so Mars plays a big role in OP’s life direction).

Such an important point... The lack of justice can also hinder healing. It's not cool that survivors are the only ones responsible for fixing what they never broke in the first place. And no one sho…

It does make a lot of sense when you see it from an evolutionary perspective. The tribe is everything when it comes to human survival. No matter how muscular one man is, he just can't defend himself a…

That doesn't make any sense. Humans have always lived in tribes and helped each other. These ideas of the nuclear family are very new ideas that only really existed since the 1950s. No matter how tou…

There is always a social dynamic, once you are in a position within it you are kind of stuck with it because it threatens others if you try to rise out of your allotted position. This is why I don't …

Being in a "tribe" with people freaks me out. I would maybe feel different if I pulled on together myself with people that I know can be cool with one another, but group dynamics feel like they *alway…

Don't forget you are expected to marry and have many, many, *many* children. Live births only, adoptions do not count. Why? For the honour of the tribe or some other backwards nonsense. So you're al…

Hypergamy - women support men with more power and status. AMs have almost nothing in the US. This is why building a community and having better demographics (higher birthrates) is the only priority …

It goes back further than I remember. My mom unironically bragged about leaving me crying in a crib for hours because, something about children need to learn to self sooth. Whatever tf thats about, it…

of course!! it's really refreshing to me too 🫂 i need to find some more indigineous voices from around the world to share. but at least on this land we call the u.s., so many tribes revered women and…

“I saw a tiger in the bushes, should I tell my tribe, or nah?” How is this possibly a question?

You don't know the circumstances of your conception and birth. It's possible or probable that your mother didn't want to have children, or are you in particular. (My mother didn't want me either, and…

Interesting. Nice to have data-backed things here. I learned recently about the work of Mary D. Salter Ainsworth. She did the field work on attachment, but Bowlby gets all the credit. She went into …

I don't know...I think for me it is a quite normal behavior to seek an anchor in the world, who can resonate with us and build stability...even more so in individualistic societies. I don't think ther…

Well said. I agree. Glad you made it happen! Any tips?? I can relate to everyone’s posts here, big time. I got abruptly dumped by my last partner when our kid was a newborn. I occasionally went out …

You will feel better. Dating and sex is fun. It's amazing how men will find you really attractive when your ex didn't or ignored you. Men can be nicer, some dates don't go so well. Your home can be pe…

Mine is similar but different. It was when I realized that if I had to hear her toxic diatribe one more night I would literally go insane.

Was he drinking when he went on this rant? He might not be a terrible person and just got lost in his own train of thought. My mom married a very loving and caring man who has been amazing to her, but…

They might not be the right people for you to be friends with. Find your truest tribe.

Totally agree 😍 Just look at how weed and psychedelics were demonised and now they’re being used therapeutically (like cultures did for thousands of years before).  We always had a healer/shamen in t…

I get jealous on my husband sometimes and actually on my little one as well. He has such a good family and had a good childhood. And my little one has parents who love her and would never hurt her. I'…