poor boundaries

> *"I thought OP said the family invited her as well to easter though? Are you saying friend should’ve called him out for not bringing OP?"* Yes, in a *healthy* friendship, calling him out for ditchi…

How to deal with resentment. It is making me bitter and angry — Been wronged a lot in my life. Ig I had poor boundaries and my locus of control was outwards. I've this resentment and anger that I'm waking up with everyday and it is costing me peace. Everyday I'm d…

What a great job you’ve done managing the whole affair, pun intended. You’re far ahead in maturity than many men your age. Being analytical helps. Getting therapy balances the emotions as well. …

Poor boundaries, financial instability, emotional instability (you can be in hard times and still be consistent and emotionally regulated ask me how I know), he’s venting to you about your own child s…

*Poor boundaries - I had *horrific* boundaries up until maybe 7-8 years ago. I asked inappropriate questions, gave unsolicited advice, meddled in people’s business, made comments that should have been…

Exactly this. Some people tend to yank masks and ignore their own mask, it that is highly problematic. There is no issue with seeking support for a partner, but the support is that they are helping th…

Haha yes empaths in inverted commas. They're highly sensitive individuals who have poor boundaries. They're far from empaths. They are those that need to know how to manage their emotions and not abso…

Disclosing deeply personal information very early, especially the first in-person meeting, is a red flag imo. It’s false intimacy. It suggests poor boundaries, and a lack of concern for the receiver. …

This is a sign that he has poor boundaries and is socially inappropriate.

One possibility is a weak self-boundary. If you are the “helper”, but no one offers to help you, or investigate you, then there is an imbalance. Sometimes people can become overly helpful. If you ne…

Hey OP, therapist here. Firstly, this is a very distressing and awful experience for you, I'm sorry youve experienced this, probably the worst thing you can do right now is bottle it up, so thank you…

First things first is if this happens, redirect the conversation, and draw boundaries around when you’re ready to have your dates open up to that degree. But also, this could also just be a knee jerk…

Honestly, unless you're exhibiting poor boundaries, I don't know that you specifically need to do anything differently. If someone decides to trauma-dump and overshare on a first date, that's a data p…

I mean, it’s traumatizing if it traumatized you. What sorts of symptoms do you feel about it? Sounds like poor boundaries within your family, and I understand if you’re feeling violated. I wouldn’t sa…

I have wondered about this sort of thing for myself. I was not raped or sexually abused in a repeated, overt way, but my family (even extended family) has had poor boundaries around sex such as my par…

I think it’s because we’re an extension of them, & they experience themselves as empty inside, incomplete, love can only come from outside… They nearly always have poor boundaries & that means that t…

You absolutely have to tell her you cheated. Anyone who says not to should be ignored. That is so deceitful and cruel, much worse than the hurt from the truth. Yes it will hurt her but she is already …

In a very real sense, many people who cheat are showing a reduced capacity for empathy (at least in that moment). Infidelity is, by nature, a self-centered act. It often reflects prioritizing one’s o…

When we spread out auras horizontally (far, thin and wide) the issue seems to be one of pushing our senses outward for early warning — like a kind of security perimeter. But this attitude energeticall…