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My[24M] girlfriend[24F] went to an IPL match with a guy she just met. How do I discuss boundaries with her?

That's up to you whether it's okay as a one-off event but not as a habit. You seem to have a visceral reaction to this, though. It seems important to you. Hate isn't common in healthy relationships. H…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/13/2026
My husband (36M) told me (33F) that I don’t deserve love until I’m 140lbs again?

You being healthy, happy, and confident is so more important than numbers on a scale. This is not how someone who genuinely loves and respects you would ever speak to you. Please check out the healt…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/12/2026
I (26F) told my boyfriend (26M) I sometimes miss the freedom of being single and he broke up with me on my birthday

> I begged him not to give me the silent treatment > I often feel like I’m walking on eggshells around him. He can be very strict and when he gets angry he sometimes gives silent treatment or holds …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/15/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
I (20M) haven't slept in my own bed in almost 2 months because of my (19F) girlfriend

None of the top comments are mentioning this so I am not sure if there was an edit, but hurting herself to control your behavior is abuse. You are being emotionally abused. Please look up loveisrespec…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/28/2026
My boyfriend (23M) keeps asking me (23F) to change how I dress because of other men, and I don’t know how to handle it.

I'm willing to bet that this isn't the only issue with your relationship https://www.loveisrespect.org/everyone-deserves-a-healthy-relationship/

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
My husband(35M)wants me to quit job because I(36F)make more than him.I don’t know what to do?

Accept that promotion without a qualm. Take this test, https://www.loveisrespect.org/quiz/is-your-relationship-healthy/?%3E then read this book: https://dn720006.ca.archive.org/0/items/why-does-he-d…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
My (23F) husband (26M) gets offended over EVERYTHING and I don't know how to handle it anymore?

https://www.loveisrespect.org/quiz/is-your-relationship-healthy/

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
My [27F] boyfriend [29M] goes through my phone regularly and says he trusts me but not "other people's intentions" -- how do I bring this up without it turning into me defending myself?

Please get therapy. You do not seem to know what a healthy relationship looks like. It will also help you heal from this relationship.I wouldn’t get into a relationship until you know how to say “no” …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
My (42F) husband (41M) grew a mustache that triggers my childhood trauma. He says I should get over it so he can do what he wants with his face. Am I being unfair in asking him to remove it?

JFC does he like you? Tell him he can start touching you again when he shaves 🤷‍♀️ Here's some resources Is your relationship healthy? https://www.loveisrespect.org/quiz/is-your-relationship-heal…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
My (25F) boyfriend (30M) invited his parents to my masters graduation and then called me entitled and selfish after I said that it made me feel sad to hear that they felt awkward at the invite.

This is a huge red flag. And I bet it’s not the first. Glad you posted so you can get outsider’s opinions here. He’s manipulating you. And trying to bring you down a notch. It’s a huge achievement f…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
I think something in my marriage crossed a line and I need outside perspective 31M 31F

With all due respect, this looks abusive and awful from the outside. Please go to LoveIsRespect.org and take the “is my relationship healthy?” quiz. I think it will be eye opening for you. Also the…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
How do I (23F) cope in a relationship with someone who has depression (22M)?

Here's the thing. Being depressed may not be his fault. You can empathize with him all day long, because that sucks, but that doesn't mean you should settle for someone who is unable to treat you well…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
My (22M) wife (21F) asked for a divorce, then "apologized" once I went silent. I'm starting to realize the whole marriage was abusive

You can try this quiz: https://www.loveisrespect.org/quiz/is-your-relationship-healthy/ It does sound pretty toxic. Multiple instances of physical abuse or intimidation is a deal breaker. You can't h…

r/Divorcecomment4/11/2026