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OP is using the word "neighbor" but neighbors dont check in regularly and buy groceries for each other. Also the neighbor trusted OP enough to tell them that they were pregnant when they havent told a…

Why do people in LOA communities ALWAYS go to Reddit for their problems when JM advised against that? — Hello everyone. I've been into JM's (and NG's) teaching for quite some time. I enjoy it thoroughly and dipped my toes into the subreddits, so hence why I'm here instead of the NG subreddit since I wo…

What concerns, besides price, would you have as a home owner if offered window cleaning services? — I'm just starting out and the only experience I have getting new customers for thos kind of bussiness is by neighbour's walking up and asking for a quote. I'd give a quote and 90% of the time they'd …

Small business idea for neighborhood store — Hi everyone, I'm based in europe, greece and I’m looking for feedback on starting a small, neighborhood-oriented business that I can run mostly on my own. Here’s what I have: A 110 sq.m. ground-flo…

Physical Reaction — I will try to keep the backstory short. I had not known anxious attachment was a thing or that one of my coworkers had become one of only a couple people I really felt a deep connection to, until a f…

My father is sabotaging my career and medical treatments through "smear campaigns" and monitoring. I feel like I'm living in a Truman Show nightmare. — ​I (25F) am an Indian doctor currently preparing for NEET PG, and I am living with a family led by a malignant narcissistic father. My mother and brother are complete enablers. I’m writing this becaus…

It does get better (dumped by an avoidant) (personal advice that helped me) — Too anyone who deems themselves as a hopeless romantic, anxiously attached, etc, this may relate to you. After three months of what I thought was the worst time of my life, it truly gets better. T…

Tired of people asking me for stuff... — I don't know how else to put this but I'm tired of people asking me to do stuff for them all the time.. it's at work (that's different, it's fine it's work.) But like my mom, my roommate, my friends..…

THE PHOENIX LIGHTS 29th ANNIVERSARY This is what I saw that night March 13, 1997. It was a totally solid piece of machinery not just lights. I could see the bottom of the UFO clearly by two light sources illuminating the bottom of the craft as it flew over my head — I posted this also in UFO sub. March 13, 1997 I was working in East Mesa, Arizona in a 10 bed Hospice inpatient unit as the Charge RN. We worked 12 hour shifts getting off at 7:30 PM but that night t…

Me (32F) leaving my husband (39M), MIL (70F) became distant. How do I approach her? — I (32F) recently made the decision to separate from my husband (39M) of 9 years after a long period of ongoing marital issues. Now that it’s clear that the separation is actually happening, things hav…

I want to leave America. What country to move to? — I am Filipina. It is 3 in the morning where I am, and I cannot sleep. I cannot do this anymore. What this country has become, the headlines, the racists (and most white people), are debilitating. I am…

The trauma bond is wild — I really wouldn’t wish untangling a trauma bond on anyone. It is the wildest/most painful/most persistent thing I’ve ever experienced. I’ve been broken up with my nex for 10 months. I’ve been no con…

(trip report) Telepathic communication through high doses of psilocybin — Dose: 8g (Myself), 5g (Brayden, first time), others 3–4g Setting: Friend’s house, nearby park, neighborhood walk Time: 3:00 PM – 9:00 PM Participants: 5 friends So a couple years ago me and my …

What We Really Need To Heal — Not sure if anyone else feels this way: but I'm kinda over all the "healing" stuff. Because it doesn't work. And I think there's too much pressure on survivors to "heal". The only way that we can …

House of Danube/Deneb & The Tuatha Dé Danaan — I have just had an unexpected and seasonally apropos experience with St. Patrick's day right around the corner. Meditating in a hypnopompic state yesterday morning I heard a man's voice speaking to m…

I was in Barbados… Well actually it was Turks and Caicos but close enough! — I was in Barbados… Well actually it was Turks and Caicos but close enough I just came back from a 4 week long vacation in Turks and Caicos in the Caribbean. This was the 10th year in a row I have don…

Anyone Ever Just Start Hitting Them Back? — Very politically incorrect of me I guess 🙄 but I hate how all of the advice given out to victims never suggests hitting them back. It's like it's almost a taboo to suggest that you do anything but co…

Which placements could explain constant conflicts at home or with neighbors? — I'm talking about constant conflicts, weird situations and power dynamics where people seem to want to take over someone's living space. Are there any placements in a natal chart that could point to …

first shifting story i encountered — When i was a little little kid like 6 or 7 yo(yeah 67 whatever). I vividly remember that between us kid we told ourselves a story. We never repeated it to adults because they wouldn't understand. We …

Do you experience the paranoia of being in trouble? — I'm constantly monitoring other people to see if I'm "in trouble". Can anyone relate? Someone I've done work for who I like a lot hasn't answered a couple emails. This happened with another higher up …

Energy Exchange: How We Give, Take, and Protect Our Vital Force — Energy exchange is, essentially, communication. The energy a person generates is given outward. But, in accordance with the laws of conservation of energy, a person must receive energy from outside. …

Pulling the trigger but terrified, Male 48 — I'm a male, 48 years old. Married for 24 years to a woman two years older than me. I'm sure my story isn't unique, but here it is anyway. On the outside, we look like a great couple. We have a teena…

Asian Male Experience Living in LA? — Hey what’s up fellas. I notice this community often recommends LA for single, young Asian guys looking to date. But I feel like a person’s LA experience depends heavily on which neighborhood they l…

Has anybody encountered him before? — I don’t know how to start, but this “Purple Ghost,” as I named him when I was young, still plays an important spiritual role in my life. When I was a child, I used to dream about him often, or rather…

So Called "Punishment" or "Discipline" My Parents Did To Me — Hello fellow Asian folks, I have been lurking here for very long time, and I want to share with you all about some of my early life. (Trigger Warning) I (17M) did have some of happy moments in my…

My abduction story. — I was abducted from my balcony when I was 16 years old. It was October 2018, around 8:00 PM, when my mother called me downstairs for dinner. I left my phone on my study table and stepped out to get my…

Manifested what I craved again. — I was dreaming of eating raw papaya with salt and vinegar (which people at my place like to eat and my favorite snack). I woke up with so much drool, it's the first time I've done that😹 so I craved…

My grandpa (84M) is not doing well and my parents (61M&60F) think I (29F) don't care. I don't care a ton. How to navigate? — This is my last living grandparent, my dad's dad. Him and my grandma (his wife who died 11 years ago) were extremely verbally and physically abusive towards my dad and aunt. My dad only talks about it…

How I finally "tricked" my analytical mind and shifted from AP to Eversong Woods — Hi everyone. I’ve been practicing Astral Projection and Lucid Dreaming for a while now, but I kept hitting a wall—literally. My analytical mind would always pull me back to my body whenever I tried to…

Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱 — Earlier I made a post and someone commented that they didn't want to watch a video. Understood! Here is an account of what I saw during my time with ceremony number one with iboga. It was not what I i…

I think I’ve been having my first experiences - looking for a bit of guidance from the community — Over the past couple of years my view of reality and the world has shifted quite a bit. I’ve done a lot more exploring of the spiritual side of life and feel I’ve really “woken up”. I’ve had a couple …

San Gabriel Restaurant Removes Stinky Tofu from Menu due to Citations and Complaints — San Gabriel is one of the last places I‘d expect this to happen given it’s a Mecca for Asian food, restaurants, and culture. A restaurant in San Gabriel, CA called The Golden Leaf was forced to remov…

Out of a delusional episode and have quit drugs, but evidence of something "wrong" with saying it was delusional has emerged today... — First off do me a favor plz, google for "what is the electrical phenomenon some stipulate is needed for a timeline shift?" yourself and tell me if it throws in the answers anything about a change in S…

Question I would please like answered, if you have a good idea of what I'm asking? Serious — Technically speaking this is a strange sighting. I would really appreciate someone who may give me a proper answer and what it may mean. This is what happened, although condensed, I will stick to the …

Looking for an alternate translation or source for this quote: — "To live an extraordinary life means we must elevate our moral stature by cultivating our character. The untrained brood about the constituent elements of their lives. They waste precious time in re…

Why are koreans so class/status conscious? — \*\* here, 'koreans' mean korean-koreans or first gen korean immigrants, not korean americans who tend to be more chill in my experience. I'm a first gen immigrant. I'm posting it here in a hope to ge…

I (M31) lost the best person I'll ever meet (F26) — tw: depression, suicidal thoughts and self harm I was trapped in a horrible relationship I felt I could not get out of. I posted about that here recently. tldr: 6 years of constant crises in which I …

I met my new neighbors today. — I say this with joy, because the house they are occupying was, up until two months ago, an absolutely wretched Air Bnb. My neighborhood is very family oriented and the house, directly next door, is ju…

Fiancé ended our 12 year relationship after meeting a new guy — Caitlyn, I'm sorry, and I miss you and still love you. I can't function. I can't sleep. I don't know what to do, and I don't know how much of this was me, and how much of this was him. Everyone has to…

Why are people so cruel? - Day 13 of Recovery — Had a bad day today... *Really* bad... People are so fucking cruel. First someone sees my scars at church of all places... Not that I'm Christian, but isn't it called a sanctuary for a reason? Anyway…

He asked for a divorce… after “upgrading” everything I owned — I’ve been married for 6 years, and out of nowhere, my husband tells me he wants a divorce. No buildup, no real warning... just dropped it like it’s nothing. What’s messing with my head is everythin…

I am heartbroken for my son! — My dad (multimillionaire) has been promising my son his 1972 corvette for his graduation his whole life. I work in the automotive industry, particularly restoration. We had plans to make this thing a …

Got what I wanted !! Again !! — Hi everyone, **Context** So I made a post called “7 Seeds - 1 Harvest” and mentioned there would be upcoming posts since writing about each desire that came true would’ve made the post way too long.…

manifestation + past changing — Hi to all of you!! It’s my first ever time writing something on Reddit. Well, I have actually been reading many stories to find courage, but I am new to being the one with the story hahah. Okay, so I …

Daughter drew this today. Has been having nightmares lately — Hello all, My 2 year old (almost 3) received a watercolor gift from a neighbor today. Lately she has been having nightmares. She tells us that she is seeing “fish with big eyes” at night. I have f…

Do you end or cancel dates early? — 42F here. I was married at 20, divorced at 37, so I never did the dating scene when I was younger, much less OLD. I started OLD after the divorce, had a couple bf's, taken breaks, re-learning what I w…

Success Story: Brought my savings account over $20K — This will be more of a public journal entry, as I'm still on my journey learning and mastering manifestation. There's a lot of backstory here so if you're not interested, you can skip below to the TLD…

My(32M) Ex wife(32F) might be stalking my wife(27F). Is it enough to be concerned? — A little bit of history between us. I was married to my ex wife let’s call her Jenn for 3 years and together for 5 (high school sweethearts). We both went to college at separate schools, but made our …

I hate children so much(tw child abuse — I know I can’t say out loud irl and I know it’s unacceptable in society That hating children is a malice of society It’s just feeling it doesn’t lead to any action I named that hatred, discussed fo…

He contacted me 2 years later — 2 years ago, my ex boyfriend broke up with me for the second time. To say that I was devastated was an understatement. I had a lot of trouble eating and cried every day for 6+ months. About 4 months a…

tiny manifestation that made me happy — hi, i've been struggling with manifesting for weeks (inconsistent thought pattern about sp, self concept wavering) so i tried out something small last friday. i wanted to manifest a purple tesla, beca…

i managed to do astral projection after 2to 3 months , i usually go to the gym alot and sleep alot , i would use an alarm for my second sleep where i stay still and let my body go , i will breath in …

hey dont do the rope thing it doesnt work , first , you have to be extremely tired first in oder to do it , you cant do it without feeling tired , train your body for a second sleep over , do …

yes , it took me like 2 months to master it , all i did was lay on the back look up and close my eyes , i would invision seeing myself fly around my neighborhood while doing this practice , , this ga…

Yes!!!! Once in one night, I kept getting pulled between here and “the other place”. I’ve been calling it that, assuming it’s another dimension or parallel universe. It was somewhere familiar but unkn…

What would you make of an avoidant who, when unable to fully avoid, resorted to behaviors that can really only be described as hurtful? So deeply so that they nearly certainly must come from a place o…

What you are describing is punishment. And while it’s understandable to a degree, it can also cross into territory that is incredibly toxic. For example, one situation that caused this “escalation” w…

I'm a neuroscientist and I know a conditioned puppy when I see one. I will continue to meet what I sense being 110% wrapped up in classical conditioning and subjective emotions with 110% mental clar…

I have had numerous friends I think when we come from scarcity we believe that there will never be another As for the comment true friends stick around. I would not agree with that. People have dif…

Text of original post by u/upernikos: I will try to keep the backstory short. I had not known anxious attachment was a thing or that one of my coworkers had become one of only a couple people I reall…

I’m gunna go against the grain here because I get where you’re coming from and Reddit is full of myopic people: He is not a good long term partner for you. All these people saying that you should’v…

I'm a guy of 50M and am in a relationship with a woman who is 46F We are 2.5 years in a Living-Apart-Relationship. She lives with her childs, I live with mine. We see eachother once a week for one, t…

I am a 65 year old professional man, happily married to another man 25 years. Recently I started reaching out to make more straight "bro" friends because I really don't like the gay scene, (gay men ta…

Hi everyone, I need some outside perspective. Last summer I had my first relationship at 31. It lasted about 2 months. I was very inexperienced and insecure. She is also very insecure and has hot-and…

[trigger warning] I have a lot of childhood trauma related to a horrible abusive stepfather ( stabbed my mother when I was 4-6, shot at our house when we were inside) I was the oldest sibling and at…

Get cameras. Practice safety drills. Have the police on emergency dial. Teach kiddos to not engage and walk away quickly if neighbor try’s to talk to them. Teach them to never open the door for anyo…

I'm jealous you live somewhere where a long run is possible. My neighborhood trails are still covered in ice from a storm almost 3 weeks ago. I'm sooo over it and my mental health is suffering tremend…

Thank you for making me laugh 🥹 I’m just so bummed because I’m know how hard he worked to make this week special (I’m a double whammy… my birthday was just a few days ago) and some selfish potato had…

I am celebrating this v-day single as usual. I guess I’ll take some unexpected flirting this weekend. I had to drop off an item for <insert service here>. After moving to a new neighborhood I star…

Aside from the ones who just lie, there's a lot of NJ folks who commute into the city for work and list their work neighborhood as their home neighborhood.

My V-day experiences. Had a friend complain about how he'd done a bunch for his gf today, but she did absolutely nothing. Dude behind me in line at the grocery store was definitely doing a last minut…

This is mostly just a vent, but open to any comments… Tonight really solidified that I’m doing the right thing by taking a break from dating (if that’s what you call what I was doing). All apps are p…

*IRL Flirting* Ok for funsies here is an update on flirty service provider. I have abbreviated my prior encounters with the latest. ——————————————— I had to drop off an item for <insert service her…

I definitely don’t relate on some things - but the majority of my friends are married with kids. And I met them when they were already in that phase of their life. Of course, I also hang out with my…

Had a gentle let down from someone I was interested in earlier this week, then an "I'm sick can we reschedule for next week" text from a date lined up for this weekend, and THEN had my lunch nap inter…

Like, my dude, you don't know who all these "middle aged ladies" know. If I were looking to meet eligible young women do you know how much of a golden ticket it would be for her mom or neighbor or aun…

I dont think the point is to go to these things once and declare they never work and never will. A lot of the spirit of this advice is: get involved in some things and build community. Keep going to t…

I'm 32/F, one of those people who is super independent to a fault and rarely asks for help. Over the years I've had many friendships and men who were interested in me, but I tended to just friendzone …

This. I always say the same thing to people who are like “someone told me to go to x to make friends/find a date. I went once and no one talked to me!” Like dude, you have to go consistently for month…

The yesterday I lamented about being at a loss for words. RECAP: I met someone a few months ago at an event. We had a really good and free flowing chat. After we traded socials and exchanged a few f…

met cloisters, aire day spa (do NOT go to bathhouse spa in wburg), any public library branch but especially the nypl photo collection or the center for brooklyn history, movie theaters showing strange…

I keep an active list of places I want to try // things I want to do and just pick from that, that way the date is always at least fun for me. I can't say what's fun for you but some faves of mine: …

I met a couple last weekend who was middle aged, probably close to 50, who had a nephew and a sibling they kept talking about wanting to set up with each other, both of them sounded like they were in …

Posting this list from a previous Logan Ury newsletter for ‘third object’ date ideas - ones where there’s another focus other than just the two of you: Get moving together 1. Go roller skating or ic…

I do most weekends! [I swap between cortado/Gibraltar/cap/flat white based on mood and time of day]. I’ll also plan a coffee walk or bike ride to check out a place outside of my neighborhood. I also…

Hey everyone, I’m a 34M with anxious tendencies. I broke up with my 29F girlfriend (likely fearful-avoidant) 2 months ago during an argument over feeling ignored. We’ve been in strict no contact sinc…

I have not been to Chicago but someone else has recommended the same. Any neighborhoods you'd recommend in NoVA?

The further out from DC, the more suburb-y the vibe is. Arlington / Alexandria will be your best bets for finding single, working young people. When I say Alexandria, I mean the  Del Ray /  Belle Ha…

Also Libra rising, Saturn at 21* Scorpio in the 2nd, ruling 4th and 5th houses. Day chart, Saturn ruled by 29* mars in cancer in the 10th and/or Pluto in Scorpio at 2* in the 2nd. Saturn is conjunct …

In a way hinge isn't any better. The actual neighborhood you have to scroll over to see while your "hometown" is front and center. 

Wow, what an awful situation. I really feel for you OP, and it’s so clear that you’re trying to make the right moves and continue to grow and heal here so big kudos to you for that. \> “you used to d…

I'd definitely say 11th. Traditionally, part of what made the 3rd house comms/travel be 3rd house things of the lunar/terrestrial realm (the house of Luna's rejoice, as opposed to the over-arching or …

Tbh the US has a natal Aquarius Moon n Pluto is slowly but surely moving towards it. Not cute at all tbh. I think it will be somebody getting killed or like mass pandemonium with groups of people, n U…

Single doesn't mean alone, that's why we have friends, neighbors, coworkers, acquaintances, and family. It's not just about loving yourself in a surface way, it's recognizing how you're expecting yo…

I have a few thoughts here. So I think you are starting with a baseline assumption that is not always correct. Not everyone cares about being “presentable” or “attractive.” There are also some reg…

It is funny but seriously I have never even gone on a date with anyone more than 2-3 years older. And on the flip side the interest from men that are older is basically nil. At any age of mine after I…

Or just live in an extremely racist town/neighborhood who thinks any Asian American is a prostitute. I’ve seen more white prostitutes than any…so if anything….

**The moments when I have lucid dreams are usually when I can’t sleep because of stress. When I finally fall asleep, I sleep badly and only for a few hours, or I go to sleep with my mind racing becaus…

How are all immigrants not traitors to their previous country in your estimation? You're literally in a sub dedicated to a certain subset of immigrant experience and heritage. Doesn't it give you cogn…

Your comment made me think of the movie Under the Tuscan Sun. The scene where the main character is staying in the divorcee hotel and her male neighbor cries at night.

I am sending you virtual hugs! I struggle with very similar feelings. I’ve only had one physically intimate relationship, and it took me until I was 25. It ended very quickly, and ever since the…