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Fair Play
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What do the household responsibilities look like? Does she do the larger share? The most common reason why women disengage with sex after kids is because they're doing the lion's share of the work. …
Fair play, I’m so happy for you. I’m also a sysadmin with decade of experience with Win, Mac and Linux, and have been helping out my company with devops stuff every opportunity I get (pipelines, ter…
This is completely legitimate, don’t let people who don’t know your circumstances dictate to you what you should be doing. Before some major negative changes at my job, one of our best perks was wha…
>If you want to hear what is (in my opinion) a great Oak impression, wait until minute 45:00 or so! Oh *really* now! \*Checks impression\* Omfg lolol. I shall have some words with Annika :P I kid…
Not sure it would help but I'm reading the Poly Bible. It covers alot of the discussion here and suggests many ways to deal with things like jealousy, boundaries, relationship design etc. I'm still no…
The fact is that Sun sign focused astrology is less than 100 years old, brought in by astrologers so they could sell more columns because everyone knows their Sun sign but not their Ascendant. Prior t…
>*I'm happy you've found some measure of peace and health, especially if you're a contact experiencer, which is often inherently stressful. But I'm not here to just say niceties, I'm on a mission. The…
"Privileged way to look at it"? Don't throw around nonsense. Leaving a review is not an innately aggressive action. Leaving an honest review is FAIR PLAY. It is REASONABLE. It is what people are SUP…
Fair play mate, glad you got there in the end. Must've been a nightmare. Hopefully it doesn't go that way for me but reassuring to know there's light at the end if it does. Take care
fair play to you for making that call must've been tough. Hopefully it doesn't get to that point but good to know it's an option if she proper loses it. Glad he's doing well now, gives me a bit of hop…
This is really not a cool comment. I’m a mental health clinician and your wife either seems to really be going through a mental break, OR, (and please don’t take this the wrong way - I know I don’t kn…
That's fair, appreciate a different perspective. Genuinely have asked her what more she needs from me and she just says "if you don't know then I can't tell you" which does me head in. I'm working, co…
This is really helpful, thank you. The fact you felt the rage but didn't act on it abusively says everything she's choosing to take it out on me rather than managing it. And the gaslighting is what fu…
Fucking hell mate that's rough. Cannabis induced psychosis is no joke people think it's just a plant but it can proper flip a switch in some people. Fair play for sticking by her through it, can't hav…
Yooo you should read Fair Play and then figure out a way to get hubs on board to read it. I’d recommend couples therapy as well. He’s keeping score and how can you do that in a marriage as a team and …
you need to have a serious conversation with him to let him know that you are considering ending the relationship / moving out unless he makes serious changes. read ‘Fair Play’ by Eve Rodsky together …
The part that’s exhausting isn’t the chores, it the ASKING. Having to come up with the request, remember to follow up, check if it got done. The logistical overhead of managing another adult is in and…
This is pure manipulation. It’s actually quietly terrifying that someone would go to these lengths to get out of basic cleaning. It is true that not everyone has the same standards, and when you liv…
You both need to read Fair Play by Eve Rodsky
Turn about is fair play. Start insulting his hygiene and his size. The trash will take itself out