it was good

I've been matching with lovely people, but conversation has been such a uphill battle that I keep loosing interest in responding. Its not one word replys but rather they dont usually ask anything back…

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I’m FA, he’s DA — I can’t believe this is where we are, but we’ve been together for 5+ years. You’d think we would have gotten to the secure part by now, for 75% of the time, we are. But when we activate each other, it…

Question for those that stayed after D-day — It's been almost 7 years since D-day for me. The question I have is for those that stayed. Did you fully recover? Are you the same person as you were before? For me I'm not 100% and I don't think I ev…

Something I noticed after my breakup that nobody warned me about — Something I didn’t expect after a bad breakup was how confusing the memories become. When you're in a relationship, certain moments feel clearly wrong! But after it ended, my brain started replaying…

I (18M) caught my Mom (44F) Cheating on my Dad (46M) and I don't know what to do — General Idea of our Family - My dad goes to work 5 days a week and comes back to visit us on wednesday evening and weekends. My mom is a teacher and goes to school in evening shift from 1 to 6 pm ever…

Day 6 — 6 days since. Today was another pretty good day. Still think about her/us all the time. I try to listen to music as much as I can to drown out those thoughts but they still come in. If you are reading…

Ghosted after 7.5 years (4 years of dating 2.5 years off and on and 1 year friendship prior to dating) — It hurts so bad. This woman treated me like shit cheating on me, gaslighting me into taking antipsychotics I didnt need (instead of admitting to cheating on me), trickle truthing me for 2 years about …

Please help me understand if that was a dream, and who/what did I meet? Was it malevolent? — Hi, I have been rational, sceptical person most of my life. After trump's remarks about UFO, I fell into and extreme rabbit hole. I am a psychologist by degree. For the last month I have lately been …

My(20F) boyfriend(19M) says our sex is bad and has made me insecure beyond repair — Is this fixable at this point? My 20F boyfriend 19M tells me that my pussy doesn’t feel good in his words “my pussy is trash”. We have been together for about a year and 3 months. He tells me that it’…

Why is it so hard to restrain yourself from feeling guilty or bad for them? — Living with nmom. She’s been a single parent. I’ve just now started looking at my life as my own and I’m trying to disassociate myself from her. It is so hard. No matter how bad she is to me, I can’t …

He said he wasn’t ready for anyone… 6 days later he’s liking other girls’ posts — I (F) just got out of a 5-year relationship, and I’m honestly struggling to make sense of what’s happening. The last 2 months were rough between us, but I was still willing to fight for it and try to…

My gf (F19) and I (M23) have cheated on each other. Would I be blinded by love if I stay with her? — Before I start, everytime I tell someone close of mine my current situation they get stunned so my story right now could either intrigue you to reading more or bore you. But if you put yourself in my …

My ex broke up with me over text 4 months ago [VENT] — hello, so idk who to tell this too, so im just gonna say it on here. My ex (16M) broke up with me (16F) around 4 months ago via text. This relationship almost lasted 2 years, and it was both our firs…

I 25f think I need to breakup with my boyfriend 23m and I need advice — Hi, So, my partner is a chef, and recently we’ve been fighting a lot mostly surrounding his mental health and his career and it’s made me realise I don’t think I want to spend the rest of my life lik…

I(25M) was in a 5 month relationship with my ex(25F). What are some things I can do to deal with a breakup? — I just got out of a very ineresting "situationship" of sorts. So here's what happened. We(25M 25F) met through mutual friends that we had and started hanging out as friends. Then she dropped enormous …

He came back and then hurt me again in 2 weeks — I broke up with my bf after half year of struggling. I already broke up with him twice, so three times during the whole relationship. The first one was because I wanted it to be a real relationship no…

No response before first date? — Matched this guy on bumble Thur night. We talked on the app for Friday and Saturday . Conversations were very good, we talked about mostly hobbies and got to know each other a bit and there was def mu…

My ex broke up with me over text 4 months ago [VENT] — ​ hello, so idk who to tell this too, so im just gonna say it on here. My ex (16M) broke up with me (16F) around 4 months ago via text. This relationship almost lasted 2 years, and it was bot…

Growing up with a mother who hates the idea of relationships. — I love my mother to death. I would do absolutely everything and anything for her if it meant she was happy. Ever since my siblings and I were young, we were always told not to get married early and to…

I’m literally lost — For context, we work together, things got very emotionally intimate very quickly, talked about marriage and kids and life. She asked me about becoming religious for her sake and it was good for awhile…

I’m literally lost — For context, we work together, things got very emotionally intimate very quickly, we talked about marriage and kids. She asked me if I would become religious for her sake and it was good for awhile bu…

tl;dr My boyfriend 29M and I 26F are trying to get back together after we broke up for, a 1 year relationship. I think he’s lying to me about sleeping with his coworker after I snooped through his phone. I still love him so much, Any advice? — So my ex boyfriend and I are trying to get back together. We broke up a while ago and both slept with other people while we weren’t talking. We both kind of lied to each other at first but each came c…

How giving up was better than happy hysterical manifestation for me - SP Stories — I was manic manifesting a man I went on a date with, a year ago. He was really nice to me. However, when I met him, I felt no attraction and he kissed my hand without consent. It felt like alarm bel…

I (29NB) am realizing that my best friend (33M) of eleven years has been abusive for a long time. We're currently not speaking, and I don't know how to remove him from my life, or even how to feel. — He and I were close. Really, really close. For a long time, I wouldn't have hesitated to say that this was the most meaningful, important relationship I'd ever had. In some ways, I think that might st…

Please help and offer your much needed advice — I’m 27F had recently separated from my ex of 7 years (30M) for about 3 months now and I’m struggling to cope. Should I go see a therapist? Probably but here I am writing on Reddit. We share two beauti…

my girlfriend lied about being SA'D? — look i have no confirmed answer as too if she has or if shes hasnt but ive done some digging and found out a couple of things. she lies about a lot of things and i mean alot like just the other day i…

>Before you ban me, please understand that I’m not trying to argue with you, I was just pointing out that claiming people can’t think critically is not a wise move because it can easily be said of yo…

My 5cents, as a person that’s been interviewing candidates for several years (almost 10 at same company, seen it grow from 100 employees to 2k+, interviewed QAs, SETs, Devs, DevOps and SREs). I’m sor…

Dates are different though, because it’s normal to state your intentions on a first date. Op simply ran into her at a party, and that was the second time they had met. Even my DA bf and I spoke about…

Last week, after a 2 month hiatus, I decided to give up on dating apps. I opened Hinge to delete it and accidentally liked whatever profile was open when I opened the app. Hadn't even read it. As I wa…

I've been in a relationship that lacks that ineffable magic SOMETHING for nearly three years now. I've spent the entire time trying to be content with this. It hasn't worked. In my case, the relatio…

I dated a bit post divorce, but have full warning to everyone I dated that I was not looking for anything serious and just to date and have fun. I probably wouldn’t do it again if I had to do it over.…

A good partner doesn't steal your joy A good partner doesn't demean or insult you because they don't get why you're excited about something My wife is really into those terrible Hallmark movies. I a…

I'm proud of you. I've been trying to pull the trigger on the same for the last two months, almost the same amount of time too. It was good for awhile, which gave me hope, but the situation changed an…

Well, my first ex broke up with me on the account of me being immature (which was true at the time). Nowadays she’s, AFAIK, married and with kids, so getting back with her isn’t an option. I broke up…

It’s too bad they are behaving like this. But…it is theirs to do with as they choose. They have sadly showed you how selfish they are. When my grandmother died, my parents got about $300,000 and they …

The gender disparity is surprising. Where are you based? I did one in South Melbourne years ago and it was good for a laugh (best go with a friend)

Just watched it. I know a day late. How did I survive? You are right it was good. I mean I am not saying Chris redeemed himself but he didn't make it worse and at least he seems to recognize that he w…

I'll tell you what, my dear... Some of the teachers suspect us of having an inner sense of unworthiness that fuels all our doubts. And there is a strong grain of truth in this. Not a big particle. But…

I like this trip report. It was good fun to read. Thanks. Also I've and many others also experience telepathy. I think tryptamines suppress the default mode network, allowing brain to unify and conn…

It was good time for me

It is a terrible thing. A divorce without lawyers or paperwork. It was good that it ended before we got married. Could have been far more difficult.

Maybe in your mind it was good..clearly in theirs it was not. Self awareness is a beautiful thing

Just at a glance, both the NIH and JAMA (Journal of the American Medical Association) Pediatrics have studies showing the many benefits of family dinner. While it's not quite as important for an 8-mo…

Yes. He made a big show about his cooking. It was good, but I had to clean up after him. He was so proud of his skills, he invited my friends over to my house for a big Sunday meaI, without even askin…

I’ve scrolled through a bunch of the responses of people saying go with it, and that this is a great connection, but my experience with that kind of connection was that it burned to the ground as spec…

The sleeping at nights does get better. But both times I’ve had to resort to over-the-counter sleep aids. I bought a 12 pack, and when that was done, I bought 1 more and didn’t need it in the end. Yo…

Because it was good for him. I read timing as lack of. She wanted sex a couple of times a day.

Your dream of winning the lottery. Does it include winners photos in the local paper or did you stay private? Are you having chats with your new wealth manager about to how to spend and invest? Is it …

What do you lose in trying, though? Is it really so terrible for a LTR to come to an end that you would think none of it was worth it, none of it was good while it lasted? I think you should keep lo…

I was with a therapist for 5 years on and off and never really got into the nitty gritty. Maybe that was me never feeling totally comfortable, but I feel he could have helped me more. It was definitel…

oh yeah silent treatment and resentment and using one’s emotions as weapons whether seething silence and tone of voice and body language but never direct communication.  also not to instantly seek o…

>To get " it was good" in response. I see that as a good sign that this person isn't a strong conversationalist and you should unmatch!

I've had a lot of them and other abilities here and there but it was good

Yeah so in this instance, it was good you dumped her. If there was cheating involved NEVER EVER go back, that person is highly unlikely to change even if they say they will. I updated my post to say t…

It’s a challenge to summarise - I have been thinking if over and did intend to write back. He gave a good overall explanation of how ACE’s affect or CAN affect children into adulthood. This was the …

In my country, there’s a saying that goes something like this: “The wiser person gives in.” My parents used to say that all the time, and I always thought it was good advice. Now I realize that my par…

My parents thought it was ok to say “we love you but we don’t like you”, because it was good parenting to let me know I suck. I was a straight A kid who barely spoke and read all the time, very obedie…

I kept hoping that he would understand it or view the situation through my eyes. Yes, it was good that we broke up, but it still stings.

Hey so this isn’t uncommon at all. The vibrations are normal and a sign that you’re close to focusing your consciousness away from your body. Its like a flashlight in a way. Wherever it points is what…

it’s shameful when we beg because we know when it was good, our partner respected us enough not to let us suffer to the point we feel we have to beg. it’s not natural to beg, it’s a panic button, a …

a couple of weeks ago, on their anniversary. we wished the sperm donor a happy anniversary and asked him what it was like being married for so long. he responded that it was good/easy until "a few ye…

This happened to me! He reached out 2 years after and I was seeing someone. I did in fact go back, I hadn't really let go of them and thought that maybe the time apart was good. And indeed it was good…

Thanks for reposting. I think once. I've had a few relationships. Definitely have felt infatuation with some of them. Or wanted to be in love, but he kept doing things that made me feel like I wasn't…

It's funny because it was good for my PTSD but Terri for my OCD

I have manifested almost immediately or extremely quickly for others. I have little to no resistance to other people as their circumstances are not in front of me. Neville said take your friend and ho…

It was good times. My friend and I used to go troll religious chatrooms (we were kids) and basically all conversations ended with "wanna cyber"? A lot of people took us up on that, but we made it weir…

It was eye for an eye. It didnt mean anything, but it was good that it kept happening lol.. Relationship is over when cheating happens fyi. Forgiven the person that hurt me? Never. I dont care for th…

Don’t be my man. You will heal. You will sleep better. Another person in bed is extra heat. Heat is bad for sleep. When my wife started menopause, she was angry. Sweaty. Mean and hot. L…

I'm sorry you're going through this. When I went through my long term relationship breakup last year (12Y together) I had read a lot that some people move on really quickly and often get married quick…

I used to use the YouTube versions and had less immersive results. It was good enough that I kept at it for a long time. Took a break of a yearish and when I recently got back into it, I'm using the f…

Number one alone would make me fight a stranger for doing that to his gf. Gtfo of there before he tries to kill you, girl. You are so young. It is hard to leave but that is the most difficult step. …

It’s insane. I treated her with the upmost respect. I’m also European. Idk we were good together when it was good but this blindsided me. Very random 

I wish it was that easy! I definitely feel small. I don’t feel good enough, and I feel resentment at the world for not being better. I’ve had a hard life and I’ve worked tremendously hard to secure th…

You’re wonderful. I’m so grateful. My mind. I was really down. I’m down. But not so much and talking to you helped. I just never want to be a bother to any.just never a bother a irritating person… I s…