keep the connection alive

Thanks for your perspective! I'm just unsure whether I can allow myself to be comfortable in the silence until my trip, or if I need to actively "keep the connection alive" without seeming clingy…

he showed up to my door uninvited yesterday — i'm spiraling. it's been two months since our last breakup conversation. i told him i was still in love with him, and he still said he didn’t want to be partners anymore, but that “labels are confusin…

You wrote this at the end almost as a footnote: "As someone who was severely anxious just a year ago, the work I've done with myself and through therapy has really done wonders to being a more secure…

> I'm just unsure whether I can allow myself to be comfortable in the silence until my trip, or if I need to actively "keep the connection alive" without seeming clingy. Depends on how was your messa…

We still talk, but I can feel the difference now. His messages are more neutral, less warm and I understand why. I was the one who left. I catch myself wanting to keep the connection alive, to messag…

i’m proud of you. i’m in a similar boat. been two months since our last breakup conversation. i told him i was still in love with him, and he still said he didn’t want to be partners anymore, but that…

I think I’m with ya on this. I tried friends but seems we’ve ended back at me being the only one putting the effort to keep the connection alive. He’s to inconsiderate of anyone but himself. It’s trul…

What you are doing is not pathetic, it is grief. But it is grief that is keeping you stuck. You made the second account because a part of you still believes there is something to find. Some sign they…