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To be fair, I don't think I find the lack of touch *itself* "difficult". I'm very able to be alone to what would probably be considered an abnormally unhealthy degree. *Maybe* it's intertwined, but I …
Welcome to r/ecommerce! Please Read Before Posting — **Table of Contents:** I. Account Requirements II. Content Rules III. Linking Policies IV. Dropshipping Guidelines V. Reporting Violations VI. Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) VII. Encouraged C…
Can someone explain to me why my competitor is ranking second on Google when the homepage is just the shop with no text and his menu has the shop and a contact us page? — I’ll DM links if that’s allowed and anyone would like to see both sites. I’m currently building out a site (it’s basically finishing just setting up payment gateways and adding product to the shop on…
[I will not promote] i built a tool to help with affiliate outreach because i kept forgetting to follow up — hey folks just wanted to share something i’ve been building on the side i’ve been trying to grow an affiliate program for a while but finding the right people is tough outreach feels like yellin…
[I will not promote] curious does affiliate marketing still work for early stage startups? — hey folks just wanted to share something i’ve been building on the side i’ve been trying to grow an affiliate program for a while but finding the right people is tough outreach feels like yelling in…
How Would You Approach Digital Marketing for a Premium Food Product Expanding Internationally? — Hi everyone, I run digital efforts for my family’s pistachio butter business based in Gaziantep, Turkey — a region famous for producing world-class pistachios. We’ve been in business since 2007 and …
Bootstrapped Turkish Food Brand Exploring Global B2B Expansion – I will not promote — Hey everyone, I help manage a family-run pistachio butter business based in Gaziantep, Turkey — a city known for producing world-class pistachios. Since 2007, we’ve been selling a premium, all-natur…
Plan to build the healthiest farm-to-table meal delivery service. Seeking advice. I will not promote. — I WILL NOT PROMOTE. Plan on building what I believe can be the cleanest and most transparent farm-to-table meal delivery service brand, and I’d love feedback from anyone who’s worked in DTC, food or j…
Different Businesses Need Different Content Formats – Here's Why (i will not promote) — Hey everyone! One thing I see often overlooked is the fact that **not all businesses need the same type of content formats**. Depending on your target audience and the type of business you run, the …
Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote) — Hey everyone, I’m in the process of building an exciting startup focused on **fantasy football** and I’m looking for a **technical co-founder** to join me and help bring this idea to life. The core i…
Advice on Partnering with UK Freelancers for a Marketing Agency – Need SEO, PPC, Content Writers, and More — I’m in the process of starting a marketing agency and looking for some advice on where I can partner with skilled freelancers (based in the UK) for the following roles: • SEO/CRO Specialist: Someone …
Warning: Aggressive Tactics from Paperstack – A Cautionary Tale for Store owners seeking funding — Hey fellow builders, I want to share our recent experience with [Paperstack](https://paperstack.ai/), an e-commerce financing provider, to caution others who might be considering their services. We …
How to get Millions of $$$ from ANY government for your business (I will not promote) — Experienced founder & CEO here. I'm gonna tell you how my business got straight cash (like literally millions) from the gov and how you can do that too. I've bootstrapped my last german education bu…
Finding Like Minded Business People — **TL/DR :** Looking for people who are stuck with unsure with what business they want to pursue and end up learning a little bit about all of them; that want to partner up to stay focused with each …
Solo founder here—bootstrapped a travel startup, no bookings yet. Influencer model failed, paid ads feel too risky. What would you do? — Hi everyone, I’m a solo founder of hopmytrip.com trying to build a travel group tour platform—basically fixed-date trips to places like Bali, Thailand, and Vietnam, where people from any country can …
I am solofounder and I love it — Sure, it can get a bit lonely sometimes. But there are a lot of upsides! * Fast execution * Total decision power * Absolute creative freedom * No back and forths on colors or small things * You can s…
Losing (F23, AA) my mind in my relationship with my (F22, DA) sister. — We’ve had some real struggles, and I’m at a loss for what to do. I feel generally pretty secure outside of this one relationship, but recently it’s been making my AA flair up in my romantic partnersh…
Maintaining this piece of positivity — Alright gang, I hope everyone is well. I’m getting a lot better with my attachment. I’m so proud of myself for times recently when I’ve had a thought about wanting to play into games or behave in cert…
Is casual sex compatible with secure attachment? — I feel like I have a solid grasp of attachment theory after reading a fair amount of the literature over the years, but there’s a philosophical question I can’t quite resolve. Can someone who is secu…
Feeling conflicted, I don't know if I don't love him and I am settling or if I love him and the "cons" are avoidant deactivation? — I 33F have ve been dating this guy 32M for 8 months. He's chased me for years and eventually recently I started to feel attraction back, he figured it out and kissed me. For some months I didn't feel…
Dating over forty and living separately — I feel like I do better in relationships where we don't cohabitate. I'm autistic and really like control over my space, living with someone messy can feel very overwhelming. Also, I find that having …
Partnerships, love life and marriage ? 24F. Positives and negatives.....Drop ur views. — I've read something bad and scary about Jupiter and sun in 7th. Unfortunately, I've both. In D1 and D9. Partnerships....Professional / personal and gains/loss they might bring in my life.
Why is casual sex so hard? — It took me 3 years to find a man that I had explosive chemistry for a consistent casual sex partnership/FWB. Start having weekly meetups and then I turned into a crazy person dealing with the highs fr…
Grand Seiko announces global partnership with Shohei Ohtani — While Rolex has Roger Federer as an ambassador, Grand Seiko has Shohei Ohtani as their ambassador, great things are happening for Asians. "Asians are no good at sport" was always a myth.
Anyone NOT having a rough time dating? — I mean dating was no picnic in my 20s before I got married, lots of weird people out there and a ton of immaturity in the 20s. I see so many horror stories that paint an even worse picture in 40s, an…
People Pleasers Make the Worst Partners — I'm a Codepedent in Recovery. My partner is also a Codependent (Severe) and he's refusing healing and is a Chronic People pleaser. Being in a relationship with a people pleaser is exhausting. You sl…
self concept work is no joke — For years I have been manifesting things like money, good career, etc via scripting, visualization and other methods with ease. But I noticed that every time I acquired those things there was still …
I was the husband who didn't do enough. Sharing my perspective — It wasn’t a single explosion but a slow grind between two people who couldn’t agree on what a "good life" looked like. For a long time, I was admittedly the husband who didn’t pull his weight, a chara…
You cannot build a future with someone who is incapable of repair — I think that repair is the backbone of any real relationship. Its not the chemistry, not your history together, nor how amazing it was at the start Its about what happens after things go wrong. Becau…
Do people eventually want marriage/long-term partnerships, or is it mostly just dating at our age? — I'm a 42M, only a few months into my divorce. To be clear, I am by no means looking for a relationship right now. However, I've been lurking on this sub for a while because I knew my marriage was c…
Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules — I consider myself a feminist, and I have followed the burned haystack method with great interest. I have been dating for about three years, and I have been aware of this method for at least the past y…
Grieving a divorce — I've never posted and I don't know who will read this, but I've been reading a lot of posts for people in similar situations and wanted to share my story. I recently divorced my wife of all of 8 mont…
Overarching Energy of the Libra Full Moon on April 1st, 2026 — This Full Moon is all about our responsibility when it comes to our relationships. We are reminded to balance what is external, creating harmony without sacrificing self. The solution isn’t about “we…
Boyfriend(m38) doesn’t want to split bills equally with me (f30), should i compromise or call it quits? — I (f30) make $31/hr and my boyfriend (38m) makes $45/hr. He wants to pay $600 a month and no utilities. He currently pays $800 to rent a room and he’s telling me he can’t afford $800. my rent is $2k. …
Black and white thinking — Hi, how do you guys deal with black and white thinking? I didn't know what this was until recently. My therapist suggested that I make a pros/cons type of list to get a better understanding. For me,…
How do I know when to walk away? — My husband and I have been together a little over to years, married around 5 months. We had issues before our wedding I’d hoped would get better after we didn’t have much stress. Things haven’t gotten…
Married 2 months before he admitted feelings for his best friend (ongoing sexting for a year). How do I move forward? — I (33F) am going through a separation from my husband (36M), and I’m looking for advice on how to process this and move forward. We started our relationship at the beginning of 2023. Six months in, h…
People often say that the 1st lord in the 7th house indicactes that you're all about partnerships/marriage but I think that's a very common misinterpretation — I think the 7th house gets very commonly misinterpreted as THE house of all things related to ONLY marriage and spouse but I think people often overlook other qualities of the 7th house. It can, in fa…
I go back and forward between ending my relationship every week, even though it's essentially perfect — My boyfriend \[22M\] and I \[22F\] have been together for over two and a half years. It was originally going to be a summer fling. I had gotten into a different university and was planning on transfer…
[29F] My boyfriend [29M] expects me to move across the world for him, but treats our relationship like a "performance review" and says telling my parents about us is a burden. — I \[29F\] have been with my boyfriend \[29M\] for a little over a year in total, but our history is a bit complicated. We met in September 2024, but broke up in April 2025 because he felt "uncertain" …
How to tackle my (M34) wants to be a father with my partners (F31) indecision? — Hey team. Running I to some issues regarding children in our partnership. I M34 rwlaly want to be a father one day, im pretty set on it and clear in Mt decision. My partner on the other hand is on …
Considering leaving a 3 year relationship… — I \[24F\] am thinking about ending my almost 3 year relationship with my bf \[28M\]. Help. I feel ridiculous even making this post, but hopeful that some outside perspective can help me come to a cle…
This is why narcissists love to end long term relationships by ghosting and NEVER accept any responsibility for their actions — In a narcissist's mind, everything is about maintaining their sense of control over others. For them, nothing else is important. In their warped minds, ending a relationship with a sudden, unexpected …
I feel like I'll never find someone who I can truly feel safe with — I just want to be seen, held, and understood by someone. I would happily give that to someone else, but I can't find the right person. My person. The people I've met who understand my struggles are to…
Guilt of a partner not moving on — After we separated, my partner had a revelation, realised they were wrong and vowed to work on it. It was quite a big confession honestly. complete 180. And now it feels like it's on ME to now decide…
how would you interpret this message ? F/23 - M-29 — soo i got this text the other day from my situation-ship that i just met 4 weeks ago .👇🏽👇🏽 “ I appreciate the text and understanding where you're coming from but the way you just left with no com…
NMom sabotaged vacation, attacked my wife, showed no interest in 9mo grandson — A few months ago, we went on vacation with my mother when our son was 9 months old, and her behavior was extremely stressful. She constantly made jabs at my wife, showed hardly any interest in her gra…
Boundaries in friendships — TW: CA Context: I was diagnosed with a panic disorder that is characterized by C-PTSD back in 2023. C-PTSD is from enduring physical and emotional abuse from ages 8 - 15. My trauma response is the f…
Realizing you’re unlovable — I do not say this to be a martyr, but somewhere in between the core belief of being unlovable and the world outside my mind, lies this reality where I’m FUNCTIONALLY unloveable. I cannot function bein…
My boyfriend who I was initially friends with lacks any romantic initiative [24F] [27M] — We have been friends for 2 years and now on our 5 month official relationship. I (24F) feel like I’m chasing my boyfriend. In terms of initiating, planning, and securing our date nights I’m the one …
My (22M) wife (21F) asked for a divorce, then "apologized" once I went silent. I'm starting to realize the whole marriage was abusive — I’m struggling to process the last few days and could really use some perspective. My wife (21F) and I (22M) have been together for 3 years. She is currently in China and I am in New Zealand. A few da…
I sometimes question though: was it good that we would have stayed with them forever? If they were that disinterested? Wouldn’t it be a bad choice on our part to stay with them? I know what you…
Omg I relate SO much to what you are saying. When my ex's affair was discovered he was remarkably cruel to me. He wasn't sure he wanted to continue in our marriage and refused to cut things off with h…
This is the way. My ex broke up with me last week on the phone before my dentist appointment. I had to cut the call short because I needed to make my appointment. I lied about watching a sad show on m…
You think you don't owe your partner, someone who's entered into a loving partnership with you, anything? That you can just walk away from that righteously, whenever? Sounds like a paltry, wispy comm…
There is a simple solution to the problem. Get involved with the start up community in your area. Get involved in meet ups. Hang out with other start up founders. Eventually you will meets someone who…
Lead gen for me is about consistent outreach and partnerships. Conversion comes from building trust early. Biggest question: "What makes you different?" Most drop off after initial interest, but I'm r…
For monetization, consider a subscription model for premium features like access to exclusive brands or analytics tools. You could also offer a marketplace where brands pay to be featured or connect w…
Hey there, first off, I really feel your burnout. I've been in that same spot where you have something with potential, but just don't have the energy tank to push it forward. It's brutal. A few thoug…
Hey, love the initiative! I work with a lot of entrepreneurs (I help ADHD founders scale their businesses) and having an accountability partner is genuinely one of the most underrated success hacks. …
Haha I certainly wasn’t try to bash anyone. My only point was to tell OP make sure the relationship is reciprocal, and his needs are being met as well. I would say that to anyone in a relationship reg…
You know avoidant are just people don’t you? A human who has suffered and who, SOMETIMES, reacts a certain way to being triggered. If you don’t want to date someone then don’t but don’t just label eve…
Yeah I tend to agree. Trying to pander to avoidants can be damaging. There needs to be give and take. If an avoidant needs some space to think, ok that's great, but agree when they re-engage in a few …
I do too! It’s incredibly difficult to pour into someone without a lot of reciprocation and some days/weeks are better than others. Our relationship is best when we’re communicating, spending quality …
Good lordy, this advice is fantastic. I've heard my partner say VERY similar things about wanting separate houses nearby or a duplex. Sanctuary is a big thing for them, and I've been struggling on how…
Anxious-preoccupied attachment patterns are distinct from an anxiety disorder, but there's definitely some overlapping gray areas. Questions to ask yourself: do you have underlying anxiety that af…
Text of original post by u/Alarmed-Most-2410: Alright gang, I hope everyone is well. I’m getting a lot better with my attachment. I’m so proud of myself for times recently when I’ve had a thought abou…
I feel I recently made healing progress in this department. I used to feel just like you do, everything you described. I’ve been in therapy for 2 years learning how to regulate / release feelings. The…
Although your story is different to an avoidant, doesn’t matter DA/FA, unless your constantly throwing up boundary walls at random and make them chase you they’ll stick to the avoidant (unofficial) ha…
Barging into your commentary sorry lol but just wanted to note that I am on the introspective learning journey and found your comment very insightful and would really love and appreciate hearing more …
Weird that you got a downvote, this is a great and insightful comment. I feel like I have a scarcity mentality about deep connection because I'm an unusual person, and it's hard for me to find others…
I've been looking into Ideal Parent Figure stuff too, and have done a couple meditations around that. Thanks for the link, I'll check this out. I have some understanding of eastern spirituality and n…
I don't "know this," otherwise I wouldn't be struggling. Polyamory isn't mutually exclusive with being chosen. I do think my ideal form of polyamory involves a very secure "home base" relationship th…
I see, I appreciate your very thoughtful response. I just disagree with the conclusions you've made. She mentions being able to use this as a self assessment (which should always be done before we jud…
Since this book gets recommended a lot, even in this thread, I am also making my own comment. This is about *Atttached* by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller. This goodreads review by a user named Melody d…
Like others said it is fine to not want to participate in small talk. However, the point of the therapist is to give you feedback on your issues and problems w your mentality. He is doing his job when…
Are you me? 😩 Honestly you’re better off without them, you weren’t too much, and your capacity to love/ need or want them wasn’t a problem, their capacity to hold space for you was. It takes time, y…
The fact that both of you heard nearly identical language ("you need a hobby") when expressing a desire for time together is telling. That's not about you being clingy or unreasonable, that's about pa…
Honestly, of all things you could match on regarding values, interests, life goals and you choose a non-issue which can be bypassed with some other app. Android users have issues with texting iPhone u…
I very much identify as a strict lover girl. I know I can be ooey gooey, head over heels Disney princess-y with romantic partnerships. **And because I know that** I take steps to protect that side …
That's fine with me. Because my standards for women/friends can't be lower than my standards for romantic partnerships. My best friend remembered a childhood toy i always dreamed of, sourced it on Eba…
Ugh, the "you need a hobby" line is a classic avoidant move, unfortunately. It's like they're saying their stuff is more important than just existing together. Don't doubt yourselves for wanting to …
What strikes me most about your post is that both you and your friend ended up with partners who made you feel like wanting to spend time together was somehow needy or wrong. That's not a coincidence.…
I do think that a lot of attachment issues are a downstream effect from the fact that our society is basically built in anti-human ways and that we've been pushed into really unnatural family structur…
I know this is an old post but here’s my FA take.. I have idealized romantic partners in the past. Yes. I don’t do it anymore since I’m married now, older and have a lot more awareness of my patterns…
You mean his gifts were generic? Well, you bring the creativity to the partnership!
Idk her so I can't say this about her specifically but imo I read the goofy thing as "I am accomplished/ambitious/the leader in other parts of my life, but I want my romantic partnership to be a fun s…
This is exactly what I mean. I am also the oldest daughter and my parents were absentee. My entire life I've had to be the leader and in charge. If at work and in family, I'm the one who has to keep…
Oh i crave the ramble, so no need to apologise. Yeah I can relate to so much of that, my new years resolution was to see my friends more. I think men have a habit of making their partner their main …
I (31M) would personally settle strategically if I ever decide to marry. I can't do marriage with a romantic partner that I am romantically obsessed with as I don't want the burden of dealing with str…
If I'm interpreting you correctly, it sounds like you might be dating from a marriage-minded focus? There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but if you're looking for an alternative framing, maybe …
Hey, I get it. My long term relationship ended at the 3 year mark a year ago. It was so hard to move forward, I had invested so much time and energy. I also remembered how much of a nightmare the ap…
I do something like that, although I've never framed it in the exact way you're framing it. I date for long term relationships. I'm not disappointed if they don't lead to a life partnership: I'm happy…
I think it’s normal, some people are more predisposed to be one way or another. But with any healthy relationship, I’d recommend honest communication and openness about your triggers. I find the more …
If you're leaning toward traditional astrology, it's worth knowing that the classical tradition focused much more on synastry than on composite charts. Composite charts are a fairly modern technique t…
This is kind of what I struggled with when I was dating. I wanted SO BAD to be an equal rights feminist and believed that if I'm after a partnership of equals, then our effort in dating should be equa…
1. **State your rising sign:** 25 Virgo ASC 2. **State the sign and degree of your natal Saturn:** 28 Libra 3. **State the two houses that Saturn rules (this will be the house cusps that land in Capri…
No not at all. I want someone who has left room for a partnership in their FIRE plans.
Someone who's left room for a partnership in their early retirement plans.
If you read Prasna Marga (a text on astrology) it mentions that people in love need not do matching of charts. If the two of you really like each other and see yourselves as compatible and having a li…
Part of any partnership is being willing to let the other be themselves without a need to necessarily understand (within certain parameters) having fun at an event with friends that includes dressing …