let it fade

I can't believe people are saying "let it fade" or just unmatch. We're all over 30, right? Just be upfront and then unmatch. At this point you don't really owe an explanation but a simple "sorry, not …

silent break up — I was in a relationship for 1.5 years. For the first year, he was the 'perfect' boyfriend in every way—attentive and loyal, though a bit emotionally reserved. Suddenly, he told me he needed space to …

By the way, I'm also in the Netherlands and dating here has been... painful. Matching and no replies. Replies that are purely sexual. Nice conversations that just stop. And I must admit that sometimes…

When is the mutual fade okay? I feel weird because we have gone on like 6 dates, but things are fizzling. He hasn’t asked me out and I haven’t asked him in the last week. Do I need to like officially …

I let it fade for a few days and then unmatch. If it’s an active chat I will say something vague like it was nice chatting but I don’t think we’re compatible enough to meet in person and wish them the…

Just let it fade. It doesn’t matter.

"Who cares?" Going along with your own apathy about other people's preferences, why even ask about etiquette? If you are no longer interested, then what does it matter how you end the conversation? …

Yes, we're all over 30. But I don't think there's anything immature about not sending a message to every single person you're not interested in after chatting. They're total strangers and I'd burn out…

Why are you letting such small things ruin a good vibe? But whatever, let it fade and don’t unmatch, you never know maybe next week ur music taste will change lol

Honestly I just let it fade. Nothing happened, no explanation needed. The pattern for me was that this kept happening on the bigger apps no matter what I did. Switched to something smaller eventually …

3. Not being married or having kids doesn’t make a relationship any less special or important, though. It’s still a part of your life. 15. It didn’t cause me longer distress. I feel more at peace wit…

48F and totally agree.  I met a guy a in the wild a while ago that I initially really liked. But the more we got to talking and getting to know one another, it was he takes care of his mom. He's in …

4 dates? Do nothing. Let it fade. She's checked out, too.

I think it's more the four months of talking near daily. But my inclination would be to let it fade as well.