just assuming

Stop Affirming into a Void: Why Your "Identity" is Blocking Your Manifestations — I see the same questions popping up every single day: "Why isn't it working?" "I've been affirming for weeks, what am I doing wrong?" "Should I switch from Law of Assumption to Law of Attraction?" He…

Trying not to take being chosen over someone else personally — So I’ve really been struggling with my confidence lately. I recently ended a year and a half weird fwb situationship whatever you want to call it because it really was a nothing burger that resulted i…

boyfriend just assumes hes staying over without asking anymore — so ive been dating this guy for about 5 months now and things are going really well between us. im 28 and he's 30, i have my own place while he still crashes at his folks house. usually he ends up sta…

About a year ago, we got new seasonal hires at my job. One of them ended up being this woman. I usually chitchat with new hires if they have questions regarding the job and that’s about it. I would ch…

Ok then I'll go back to just assuming the first guy is dumb 🤷‍♂️

Yeah, we weren't actually friends - but at least for the night(s) we spend together, I would like to be "friends." I've had guys over who I didn't enjoy as people. Did they make me orgasm? Yes. But I …

I dated a guy who looked a lot like a sports figure back in the 1980s. Larry Bird, if you must know. He began wearing a bright green, shiny satin jacket that looked like a flashy team jacket, and it…

Its possible. I help folks with this. Just assuming it's your heart, sight unseen without examining our doing any diagnostic tests.... the heart is interesting one to tackle because it's layed. The…

Did you actually *check* what it was telling you, or are you just assuming that it was all successful?

Having needs doesn't make you a jerk! Literally just say a version of "I want you to go back to asking instead of just assuming you're welcome to camp out here whenever you feel like it". Gotta say - …

Are you and your friend Indian / South Asian? I am wondering if the reason she took your outspokenness as a negative thing is because she is marrying into a family with old fashioned ideas about women…

I’m from Canada and here a woman can assume her husband’s last name upon marriage. It’s not technically considered a name change in the traditional changing of your name. You don’t go through the expe…

I agree with you that a partner should understand your ex being a significant part of your previous 25 years; so whenever you start dating again, I think it's okay to address this early if it comes up…

Man, you Gen Z folks gotta get thicker skins! EVERY one of you have been assaulted. You have to learn to compartmentalize. That relationship is not this relationship. You broke that relationship o…

That’s pillow talk dude, don’t take words too seriously, actions speak louder. Then again bro, you can’t really judge how people move on, some people like you sit around and get sad and stuff for a lo…

It’s very very scary, but I have worked my hardest to be my healthiest self in this relationship, and i do love her, i know that, the least she deserves is if things go south, for me to have tried my …

If you’re letting that shake you after all you two have done up to this point, it’s showing that your self concept is being triggered. Nothing is going wrong, you’re just assuming it is and if you kee…

So sorry. I hate when they weaponize therapy, real or not. With real therapists, I understand that they are trained in most countries to hold all their clients in "the highest regard," aka assume th…

Most men I talk to say no, some women say yes. I’m just assuming but the ones who say yes don’t have much $.

Has she actually asked to get married or are you just assuming? How much research have you done about the asylum process? Are you just assuming she needs to get married? It sounds like she has given …

Then you should just communicate with him. Talk about having a low sex drive and not wanting to kiss or have sex as much. If he’s okay with that (if it’s what you want, I’m just assuming,) great! If n…

Man the distance thing is brutal, been there. Two hours isn't impossible though - my cousin did long distance for his first year of high school and it actually worked out pretty well. If you're b…

Look, I really appreciate your detailed response, but I was **not** asking for suggestions on what I should be eating. I feel like my original post made it clear I don’t want advice on this. Please le…

I used to think too. No receptors or anything like that = senses wouldn't work. But if they can see maybe they can smell too, I guess. Maybe it depends on what the person believes in their subconsciou…

Has your sister in law said she feels bad for being excluded? Or are you and your mom just assuming she will be? If you aren't that close to her there's no reason to have her in your bridal party eve…

I haven't even asked my bridesmaids to be my bridesmaids yet or told my mum the plan lol but i am just assuming my mum will ask why i'm not including my SIL in the bridal party - i don't even know if …

Right?!?! Worse I am on the spectrum and have ADHD so every date feels fun and new and exciting and I feel like they are definitely into me and I’m already just assuming it went perfect and deciding i…

You’re 18 and you’re on their insurance (if you’re in the US and I’m just assuming that). I had a reduction 3 days after I graduated HS when I was 18. My parents took about 3 years leading up to it fo…

Hello, some of these things you describe could be down to anxious attachment? Like needing reassurance, thinking that something is wrong (if someone delays texting), you needing a break/reset (she may…

You’re shooting yourself in the foot with your attitude. Sounds like you’re giving up because you’re embarrassed about your lack of experience. Just because someone has had good sex before doesn’t mea…