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I hope this reframing makes it less frustrating to hear those kinds of "compliments". I think it makes sense to treat "you're a catch" or "you? Still single?" from friends, family, etc. as a social …

Improving the Minds Eye — This is a very simple exercise. Grab some paper, stare at it and really commit it to memory. Don't panic if you can't—it's all meant to be improved upon over time. Close your eyes and visualize (to …

1 month relationship with previous history. Both with ADHD. — Hey all, To start, I'd like to give context. I'm 29M, she's 26F. She has diagnosed ADHD. I had undiagnosed ADHD at the time of dating her. I've been recently diagnosed post-breakup, just started Vyva…

I'm struggling to fight resentment when people want to spend time with me. It's getting better but it's worse when you can tell they like you (more than a friend). This guy is pretty respectful of my …

1 year on the apps, hundreds of matches, dozens of first fates. Last night I got the 'you're great but the spark is not there' talk after the 3rd date. At this point I doubt it will be there.

I'm not an expert since im just starting to see changes in the 3D. But I mean like if I wanted a puppy, I would affirm that I already had one—be as specific or non-specific as you'd like. Keep affirmi…

" Ive seen how you are with the kids, you're great, youre fun, but I already have to manage our entire house, calendar etc, I know I would also have to manage all the kids too. Youre the fun parent, w…

I get that this is a HUGE issue for men in the online dating pool, but as a woman, it really shocks me how much I see other women openly admit to such a harsh and superficial dating "dealbreaker" so f…

100% id rather take a badly written post where I can tell there's a human behind it over AI any day, especially on this sub - I still think you're great at writing tho still ;) I don't even think you…