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I often find people reframing my reality to make them feel more comfortable. Rather than simply hear my words, they need to "interpret" my words, they seem to insist on "reading between the lines" rat…

My arguments against manifestation — 1. **Maladaptive daydreaming proves that manifestation isn't real**; Manifestation doctrine teaches that what you focus on expands and manifests in your physical reality. Do not split hairs and try to…

Long road to dream job and instant healing. — Bestcub called me to write this, I hope it will be helpful to someone. A story like many others. After years of wandering around shitty loa and other stupid spheres, books and forums I finally start…

I got ghosted and I feel blindsided — I (26F) met a guy (26M) 3 months ago who was in every sense of the word my dream guy. We spent 1 week together before he left back to his country. Ever since we have Facetimed every single day, and we…

American Sign Language in DevOps Communities and Teaching — Hello everyone, I’m a student in university who hosts workshops within our local Google Developer Groups Chapter. I go to a university that has a substantial deaf and hard of hearing population. Th…

Considering a move from big tech to a small company. Worth the risk? — I know this sub leans junior, but hoping to get some advice from senior folks. Especially people in Bay Area, NYC, or Seattle-type tech scenes. Tagging this as Job Search and not Senior Only because I…

Microsoft's interpretation of Journey Map vs Storyboard — Hey all I'm doing some Microsoft UX certification coursework and am puzzled on something that they don't seem to be clarifying very well. I know large companies may define parts / components of user c…

r/AstrologyChartShare Is Being Rebooted - Stay Tuned! 🌙 — Hey everyone, We’re the new moderation team for r/AstrologyChartShare, and we’ve officially submitted a request to Reddit to reopen this subreddit! Our goal is to revive this space as a welcoming, o…

Afraid of the "how" — Hi to all. I have been studying the law and this sub since many years, then left, then (1-2 months ago) came back. I had my fair share of watching coaches, reading the content proposed here (and more)…

Anxiety only triggered in romantic relationship, how to manage it? — Hi everyone, I’m a 26M and fairly new to relationships. I’ve noticed my anxious attachment only really shows up in my romantic relationship, not with friends, family, or colleagues. With them I feel …

Global Policy Journal: “Don’t look up?“ – Why it is past time for serious holistic research into Unidentified Anomalous Phenomena — Karin Austin, Michael Bohlander and Kimberly S. Engels have contributed an excellent article to the Global Policy Journal. Two of these people I've met personally and they are experiencers who are doi…

If my nervous system is used to interpreting intensity as chemistry, then...am I just supposed to settle for love where I don't feel any "fuzzy" feelings? Like is love supposed to be boring? Then how do I even know the difference if a relationship is boring but good vs. boring but bad?? — Like I really don't want to be stuck in an anxious-avoidant loop again, and I get that secure love seems more boring to someone with an anxious attachment, but then...like...are all romantic feelings …

Feeling friendless — Hey guys, Sorry long vent, you can skip to the bottom if needed. Recently I have been doing great attachment-wise on the romantic relationships front. But for some reason I feel like I can’t mainta…

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Septile vs Novile — Hi friends 🩵 so I've been digging pretty deep into astrology recently, I had been messing around with it lightly for a couple years but now going in headlong. Not to make a career out of it or act li…

Specific question about reading empty houses — So, if someone has an empty house - where do you then go to interpret that aspect of their life? Do you just read the ruling sign? Or do you then see where the ruling sign sits in their chart?

What is one placement or combination that consistently surprises you when you see it in real life charts? — It could be something that: • behaves differently than expected • produces unusual outcomes • or contradicts common interpretations. Would love to hear examples or patterns you’ve noticed.

Experienced ego dissolution and timelessness while a friend spiraled into a bad trip believing we were communicating through “waves” — I wanted to share a recent experience because the contrast between my trip and my friend’s bad trip was extremely interesting, and I’m curious if others have seen similar dynamics in group trips. We …

If You Get to the Center Time Stops; Sun as the Center — During yesterday morning's tarot card reading, I received the message, "if you get to the center of the wheel, time stops." My interpretation was that getting to the center means *perceiving* time as …

Unexpected emotional shift after Adventure - Five Messages. Has anyone experienced something similar? — Hi everyone, I wanted to share something that happened recently and see if anyone here has had a similar experience. For some context, I recently went through the end of a **10 year relationship**. …

This is a lifestyle — At some point you have to ask yourself one question: Do you really believe in your own bullshit? Not Neville’s philosophy. Not a guru’s interpretation. Yours. Because sooner or later you realize s…

Opened up to my wife about how I feel about our relationship and she just said "That's your problem" - am I crazy? — We're both in our mid 40s, been together for 20+ years and we have two kids who are both teenagers and I've been thinking about divorce for quite a while now as I feel like I just don't get anything b…

Today I got the confirmation of why we shouldn't trust 3D — Sorry for my terrible English, I'm using a translator. I’ll summarize my situation a little: I’ve been manifesting my ex since December, and the 'bridge of incidents' in the situation is that he sees …

The way as a slave — “The unrestricted person, who has in hand what they will in all events, is free. But anyone who can be restricted, coerced, or pushed into something against what they will is a slave.” —EPICTETUS, DIS…

SPICY Shifting Tarot Pull (collective message)? 𓆩༺✧༻𓆪 — Hey friends, I am a tarot reader (for myself and others) and I just did a tarot reading for myself in regards to some blockages I have to shifting to my DR specifically. I wanted to preface by saying …

Histories of Native American Treaties and Anti-Chinese Violence Win Bancroft Prize — Emilie Connolly’s “Vested Interests: Trusteeship and Native Dispossession in the United States,” published by Princeton University Press, examines the financial aspects of many U.S. government treatie…

how could my mercury-jupiter conjunction in the 3rd house be interpreted in terms of curiosity and learning? — I'm trying to understand this placement in my chart a bit better bc I've noticed a pattern in how I approach learning. I tend to feel a strong pull toward learning new things, especially when somethin…

It Was Always About You — I thought I would share an experience I had a while ago that really changed my understanding of Neville’s teachings and manifestation in general. **How it started** In 2022 I was very into occultism…

I (26F) told my boyfriend (26M) I sometimes miss the freedom of being single and he broke up with me on my birthday — I (26F) have been with my boyfriend (26M) for about 2.5 years. A couple nights ago we were lying down together and having a really open conversation about different things going on in our lives. The …

Why does it feel like I'm a late bloomer and an over analyzer/overexplainer? why do I have such a hard time fitting in among my peers and never quite feel like I am myself with others? — I think the over analyzing might come from mercury being retrograde on the chart as well as both the moon and ascendant being ruled by mercury but I don't know if I'm interpreting that right. maybe th…

Saturn in the 4th House – How to Overcome It? — Hi everyone, I’m posting here because I’m trying to better understand a placement in my natal chart that has always felt quite heavy to live with: Saturn in the 4th house in Gemini, conjunct my Moon …

Why does nobody talk about unsuccessful manifestation journey? — Well, here we are. Changing oneself, assuming new beliefs, new ways of interpreting life and it's meaning, healing, flowing, call it whatever you want. Commanding, choosing, focusing on who I am or wh…

Are there any benefits to an 8H Mars placement? — Hi all, Having a hard time interpreting my 8H Mars in Leo placement. When I try to research it online it seems like the default to 8H placements is somewhat negative? Are there any positives to this …

Sagittarius cluster in 5H — Hi. Does anyone have any insights about my 5th house, specifically about the implications of Rx Mars and Pluto in this house? It is my understanding that its meaning is related to children, but I …

I was the husband who didn't do enough. Sharing my perspective — It wasn’t a single explosion but a slow grind between two people who couldn’t agree on what a "good life" looked like. For a long time, I was admittedly the husband who didn’t pull his weight, a chara…

The dangerous 'toxic positivity' of AI therapy: A personal story — **TL;DR:** I used a customized Gemini "Gem" as a complementary therapist, but it completely failed to spot a predator. The AI interpreted extreme red flags (love bombing, gaslighting, and manipulation…

I don't get stereotypes and their relation to Sun signs? — When people jokingly (I hope) say they hate X sign because X signs are always like so and so, they're always referring to Sun signs. But from the little I know, a question inevitably comes to me, isn'…

How does pluto in the 7th house opp sun/venus in the 1st influence intensity/ projection in relationships? — I’m trying to understand this pattern in my chart, I’ve noticed that when I do form close relationships (platonic or not) they tend to become very intense at the beginning then end abruptly. From wha…

The Gift of Fear by Gavin De Becker — I love this book and this quote by him "Avoid being in the presence of someone you feel might do you harm." This is how I interpret that - Avoid being in the presence of someone you feel might harm …

What matters more in interpretation: house placement or aspects — When reading a chart, how do you weigh house placements versus aspects? For example, if a planet is in a strong house position but has difficult aspects, or the opposite, which tends to influence you…

Am I in a codependent relationship and if so how do I set boundaries/what should I do? — I’m looking for outside perspectives on a close friendship that’s started to affect me emotionally. Over the past year, I became very close with someone. This is the closest I’ve ever been to another…

I (36M) am in tears in my own home while my parents play with my daughter. — My wife has gone away for a conference today (for the first time since we had a kid). I am alone with my parents in my own home and feel so unsafe with them. At any time, I fear an attack will come my…

First Stage Separation [Success] - Wave 3, Exercise 6 — First thing first, English is not my first language so if I make mistakes I'm sorry, I won't use any AI translators for my experiences. I've done Wave 3 a few times and my first experiences with "Fir…

The 'technique' that helped me manifest in 1 week what I have been trying for months — I decided to make this a more general post since it's extremely helpful for any manifestation. Like everyone, I was trying to manifest something for a few months with common techniques like visualizi…

PsychoCybernetics Visualization — Based on the teachings of PsychoCybernetics, I started visualizing every morning and evening to optimize my personality. I've noticed profound positive changes in my personality over the past week. A…

Has anyone felt themselves gaining agency in dreams before gaining lucidity? — In my journey of journaling my dreams, I have so far failed to feel super Lucid. More often than not I'll just feel like I'm playing a videogame, instead of realizing I'm in a dream. Like some kind of…

Can anyone provide some insight? — I (45F) recently met a 47M online. He told me early on that he had just gotten out of a 10-year relationship about 7 months ago and wasn’t necessarily looking to jump into anything serious, but was op…

How does my 12H Jupiter in Gemini show up for my life? — I feel that I have not put much focus into understanding my 12 Jupiter in Gemini but looking at it feels very contradictory. I am still learning more about astrology but I know 12H is one of those “sc…

My Experience in Intro Focus 21 Odyssey Wave IV, Movement to Locale 2 — Last night I was in a meditation session (Wave IV, Odyssey, Movement to Locale 2), and after the part where you’re guided to move toward and through the white light, I ended up somewhere that felt ver…

​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it? — **​I'm getting private messages now so I'll add: please don't repost or use this anywhere else.** TL/DR: husband keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my stuff--what tactic or wordi…

Anyone else struggles to understand basic social skills, but can fake being socially adjusted? — I’ve thought myself to mimic pro-social behavior in most cases. However, I offten come across robotic and fake because I’ve learned to imitate social behaviors but not fully understand them because …

Also if you use any substances, they can affect your brain function too. I'm not a doctor or anything, so don't take what I say as gospel brother. There's a sub that is centered around dream interpret…

I actually like Neville for his psychological interpretations of the bible. Joseph Murphy is amazing too because his books are easy to understand and very practical. I do find most of Nevilles teachin…

I wonder if the practicality of Joseph Murphy is the reason the "pornstars" don't bring him up much, where as Neville is more complicated and requires more interpretation/explaination, i.e. coaching.

Murphy's methods seem to involve a more literal interpretation of prayer.

Regardless of what it was, it was a non-physical experience. There can be lines blurred between what is lucid dreaming and astral projection, here's a video explaining the difference https://youtu.be/…

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

Thank you lol, those who don't want to focus on the Bible aspect don't have to. Just use it practically, that's it. But the Bible knowledge he spread is extremely important and freeing for those who b…

Could I post my Natal Chart here asking for some interpretation?

1. Mental thoughts don’t become physical reality. Beliefs do. Repetitive mental thoughts turn into beliefs. 2. People in your world reflect your beliefs. Perhaps upon meeting someone you had an origi…

Tbh you’re allowed to have your viewpoints but this is attention seeking behavior judging by your posts meant to get a reaction out of the people here. Also, why go on a Murphy sub for this? You alrea…

Okay logic and science- so your RAS reticular activating system is basically the minds way of filtering and processing the insurmountable data that it takes in from the environment 24/7 as well as pro…

Thanks for your opinion on my 10% figure. Besides that, I did not say partners should be at my convenience. I said other aspects of life can throw a relationship’s typical patterns out of balance. Ha…

I am avoidant and I don't hate my exes - I just don't want to be smothered or expected to constantly reassure people. Just because I have to get away doesn't equal hate. That is a strong interpretatio…

My bad, a misinterpretation. Glad to hear you’re healing and wish you well

I think it comes down to when those comments are brought up. If someone is assessing you this way without a conflict thats really cruel. I feel on reddit it appears only in connection with a breakup …

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Interpreters make do. Sometimes agencies will have specialists that are better at technical or medical or legal contexts and send them, but it isn't always the rule. When I was in grad school, there w…

It's certainly an interesting problem... Not knowing anything really about how interpreters operate and just spit balling, would it be helpful to provide the interpreters with a quick glossary of anti…

Sophia NLU (natural language understanding) Enging released, with full specs and online demo at: https://cicero.sh/sophia/ For anyone deploying conversational chat bots at all, and is alternativ…

Yeah, we know that. I mean, it’s kind of what defines us as an INSECURE attachment style, right? most FAs did not experience healthy conflict growing up, so now any form of conflict feels like abando…

I think it all depends on whether or not you are able to communicate your need for space. If you just disappear without saying anything to the person you’re traveling with, dating, or communicating wi…

I'm a FA that leans anxious, and someone going quiet only interprets abandonment if there is a sudden drop off of otherwise normal consistent communication. It's that inconsistent dynamic that creates…

Used quotations because I was trying to articulate that closeness can be superficial as opposed to true intimacy… i wasnt implying its an intrusion but okay interpret it however youd like.

Thanks for your take! I was trying to interpret it in more practical ways. The emotional side makes sense this way too.

Ahhh, I'm sorry to hear that. Thanks for your sympathy : ) How did you handle no contact? I found the short, sharp disconnect (after something that had initially seemed so promising) extremely diff…

1. It seems like the study you linked investigates a slightly different topic than what your post is about. The study is investigating the psychological relationship between attachment anxiety, attach…

I think skepticism is always warranted. But I would make the case that psychological processes like cognitive dissonance and projection are likely magnified in insecure attachers.   Plus some peopl…

I think this is actually protest behavior and low key self abandonment? I did this too, interpreting things I saw and drawing to the conclusion that “we’re better as friends we’re not looking for the …

Okay, this is long and it might sound harsh, but I relate to a lot of what you're going through and acted much in the same way as you did, and I've gone from anxiously attached within a friendship to …

U said “I hear you” which can be interpreted as “I get it” dip shit.

Well first, I made a point to say words vs actions is nuanced but that this situation didn't seem like one where you needed to try to figure anything out because the words and actions matched, when yo…

Ah...interpretation. Right. Yep. Always a safer bet than taking words at face value. Because facing something, is, after all, too difficult for an avoidant. Easier to win at a game only you know th…

This is difficult for me to grasp, because if I’m into someone there’s no question about it. I’m either in or I’m out, and I know pretty immediately if I’m into someone, I don’t have to make certain. …

Thanks for that insight! >he would ask me “how are you doing?” In the morning. I didn’t know why at the time, but that question used to really annoy me. I can resonate with this. While usually I app…

Well if both parties are aware of attachment theory then I think they are less likely to judgemental of the different attachment styles. If not you can explain what an unhealthy attachment is and wha…

Go slow, always offer space. And, difficult but, when it’s something out of proportion, or irrational, that’s not something to take personally. FA brain is always on hyper vigilant mode. And it’s no…

To make sure I’m interpreting this right - you were loving one day, and then the next day you woke up feeling afraid that your trust in him was misplaced? Did he do anything between those two events t…

Yes, you are supposed to reassure him. And ideally, it's best to have a videocall if not every day, then at least a few times a week. But that's up to ya'lls preference. What i'm trying to say, reg…

Thank you for sharing. It sounds like you might be describing the 'Drama Magnet + The Citadel' trauma attachment patterns, which often come from emotional neglect childhood experience for you, and con…

Text of original post by u/Dralexus: Hi everyone, I’m a 26M and fairly new to relationships. I’ve noticed my anxious attachment only really shows up in my romantic relationship, not with friends, fam…

I think romantic relationships are a funny thing - and kind of special in adulthood because your body makes them feel crucial to your very survival - as it is when you must rely on parents when your a…

Well, it is a book that essentially expands on attachment and shifts the focus to behavior patterns instead of 'styles.' It acknowledges that people use attachment behavior strategies towards attached…

Yes that could be a good interpretation of it! It could also be that maybe this woman in the example had a good story about relationships in general but just not her current partner for whatever reaso…

Yes, to all of those questions. Also I feel like he is giving us examples for all types of situations, but I want to make sure I’m interpreting it correctly and I’m not getting tunnel vision where I m…

Not OP, but, as an FA, I would say that if pride or anger is an issue, it's probably actually fear and insecurity. When we're afraid and insecure, we go into fight or flight mode. When the mode is fig…

He makes me feel that he can live without me and I don't...it kills me. He can't make you feel any way...that is between you and your brain. AI says it like this: other people can trigger emotions, …

I get it. How much time have you been in this relationship with him ? I ask you this because I think one way to calm your emotions could be thinking something like "Ok, it's not the first time we have…

I'm not anxious, but feeling drained by a random "I miss you" from a friend sounds very weird to me. If anything, I'd be glad to hear that they think of me and miss me, not drained. And no, I wouldn't…

Honestly, I get this so much. In my experience, that cycle of noticing every little change and then later using it as “proof” that you were right to worry is such a mind trap. I used to think that mea…

The faux-closeness besides trauma dumping has been cuddly roleplay, because my autistic brain interprets that as ”real” because of the distance (and I’m starved for cuddling, in an innocent way, with …