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Weekly Feelings thread - Share what you're going through without feeling judged, this thread shall be a safe space for all of us to share (rules still apply). — In this thread, please share all that you've been struggling with. Find support and be witnessed in your struggless. You are encouraged to share the good, the bad and the ugly! Nothing is off limits a…

Weekly Feelings thread - Share what you're going through without feeling judged, this thread shall be a safe space for all of us to share (rules still apply). — In this thread, please share all that you've been struggling with. Find support and be witnessed in your struggless. You are encouraged to share the good, the bad and the ugly! Nothing is off limits a…

Weekly Feelings thread - Share what you're going through without feeling judged, this thread shall be a safe space for all of us to share (rules still apply). — In this thread, please share all that you've been struggling with. Find support and be witnessed in your struggless. You are encouraged to share the good, the bad and the ugly! Nothing is off limits a…

Weekly Feelings thread - Share what you're going through without feeling judged, this thread shall be a safe space for all of us to share (rules still apply). — In this thread, please share all that you've been struggling with. Find support and be witnessed in your struggless. You are encouraged to share the good, the bad and the ugly! Nothing is off limits a…

Weekly Feelings thread - Share what you're going through without feeling judged, this thread shall be a safe space for all of us to share (rules still apply). — In this thread, please share all that you've been struggling with. Find support and be witnessed in your struggless. You are encouraged to share the good, the bad and the ugly! Nothing is off limits a…

Weekly Feelings thread - Share what you're going through without feeling judged, this thread shall be a safe space for all of us to share (rules still apply). — In this thread, please share all that you've been struggling with. Find support and be witnessed in your struggless. You are encouraged to share the good, the bad and the ugly! Nothing is off limits a…

Have a bit of free time for next couple hours, tell me your manifestation roadblocks and I'll try to assist — Nothing to say that hasn't already been said on this forum, so I'm just here with a few quiet hours of no work and feeling inspired to help others lock in and achieve their goals. Ask me any questions…

WHAT DO YOU WANT?! — OK IMMA ASK A QUESTION - **QUES-** how many of ya'll had worse "3D" after learning about manifestation? reading neville? reading secret? law of attraction? law of assumption? anything at all youtube?…

caring is subjective!! — Yesterday I asked my three closest people if I’m a caring person… and all three said no. Apparently I’m “not consistent.” Meanwhile, in my head, I’m literally the most caring person for them. Like …

Though as I can guess from any other attachment style (or even mental health issue/relational pattern in general) every person is different, I imagine clarity and communication are key here. I would o…

You've got a good head on your shoulders. Don't punish yourself for what you didn't know and don't try to do it all alone. Definitely share your struggles of suicidal ideation with your people. I woul…

It sounds like we are definitely in similar patterns of mindset. I'm sorry about your struggles and loss and hope that you can heal in a way that you need to

I appreciate this. The self abandonment aspect is definitely part of my history, like text book examples. Like I had an out of state job offer textbook example. We’re not in a relationship anymore and…

Thank you for explaining in detail, it's very helpful. I'm sorry you had to struggle through trichotillomania without help. It's doubly painful to be in that position, getting yelled at when you need…

That's so hard... That's such a long time to be with someone and such a shared history. To validate yourself a bit for your struggles, I do think you're still in the thick of it right now and some rum…

Them brushing off your struggles is narcissism probably made worse by their now being financially comfortable. Though I bet they brushed off your struggles before this, too. It is really too bad that…

Can you put into words what exactly your struggles are? Is it only the sex and that you can't believe that they didn't had sex? Or is it more something like that you no longer feel like you can trust …

You need to share your struggles with him so you can work through it together. 

Apart from the obvious concerns of him not being a present partner or father, did you know there’s a connection between likelihood of miscarriage and the health of sperm. His alcoholism may be in a fa…

I am so very sorry you are going through this. it’s strange how much this resonates and it hurts thinking someone else is going through something similar. Reading this makes me feel less weird about t…

I'm sorry to hear your struggles and glad to hear that u escaped. I also moved away from my parents and now they're offering me to save money by renting a bigger home and living with them, but I still…

You are correct! As listed, you can overcome anything with good enough intention, but at the same time, the purpose of this post is acknowledge them as you can't overcome what you aren't aware of and …

Oh. Still now that you yourself know that it isn't necessarily a properly done prescription, you can now visit an actual therapist and tell him about your struggles. I don't know much about anti-depre…

thank you so much for writing this! i've heard advice similar to this but for some reason your explanations made it click for me. i've also been recently going through a tough time these past few we…

Codependency is a different problem from person to person. Make another post but explain what your struggles are. Also state what you know and have already tried or thought of. The more info you give,…

I do like the thought you put into this. That said, have you considered you were trusting your intuition the enire time she was doing this? I think one of the hardest parts of these kinds of betraya…

Jesus this one. It's hard because I can try so hard but sometimes my capacity is nothing and it's like that for weeks or months. But I'm expected to push through it and I'm just "a big baby". Which is…

Things that I got "taught": "Don't talk too much about you, or people won't like you. If you keep picking at your skin, nobody will ever want you. Don't get impregnated. You need to study, but somethi…

I feel silly copy and pasting this so close to the original lol, but I think I maybe should have replied to your comment in the first place: Jesus this one. It's hard because I can try so hard but so…

Thank you! When she concluded saying that she is staying with him because she see how singles struggle alone, I thought lady, your struggles are just beginning!

Honestly hearing someone I was dating say that comment regardless of it was directed towards me, would cause me to pause and reconsider. Anybody can gain weight and I’ve always made it a priority to f…

I think a lot of other people can understand your struggles with communication, sounds like avoidant tendencies. one thing i know about avoidants is that they most likely need therapy to fix their iss…

Sorry for your struggles and yes that is abuse.

Sorry to hear about your struggles. I can relate a lot and I’ve been through a very similar journey. For me what turned it around was to realise that even getting better and healing and psychoanalysi…

Not pathetic man, not pathetic at all. You're trying to keep your family together. That's incredibly normal and natural. But you deserve better, and you need to know you deserve better. Don't take …

Hey, I think maybe looking a bit into gender theory and queer theory might help you to make sense of what you're feeling. I have been researching those topics for a while now (I'm a femininst and gend…

Hey, I’ve been there, although I’m an androgynous, non-binary guy, but I am pansexual and have dated all kinds of people. For the longest time I thought I was aro, or even aroace because I just hated …

I went to the retreat and it was life changing, I am grateful for what they did But I support your struggles and we should maybe try to communicate with them about those issues, because come on, they…

I like the deaf people analogy. Thank you. I’m sorry to hear about your struggles in not being taken seriously because not all disabilities are visible. I can relate. It’s difficult.

Wow, insightful. Sort your shit out. Trust me, as a man who lost a little boy I am very much aware that no one wants to deal with a grieving father. I am extremely aware of being told to man up or fuc…

Your marriage and career houses are both owned by Mercury. He's your Badhakesh (barrier planet). Saturn usually represents legal issues, and he's sitting in his Mooltrikona Rashi in the third in retro…

This mode of thought is understandable. You're grieving that she can't be that mother in your life all the time -- you get a glimpse for 50 minutes, and then you have to leave. It must feel like bei…

Consistency is not a continuous, straight, or always positive path. No matter what you do or who you are, you will fall off habits, make mistakes, go through slumps, and fail. the real difference …

I relate to everything you say. It feels awful and good at the same time. And it's frustrating how my body only responses to violence. You're not alone with this. And I encourage you to talk about it …

Yes I agree and I really appreciate it, we must all comfort each other and help each other out cause it really helps when you know that you are not alone with your struggles

Thank you for the reminder that the armor can come off. It does and it will. It’s just so fresh right now that I fear burdening the kids with my grief when they’ve already been given so much of their …

If he wanted to work on things with you, he would already be doing that. If he loved you and would do anything for you, he would do whatever he can to help you with your mental struggles. He would wan…

I’m sorry you are experiencing this. It sucks. IME the vulnerability of telling others or asking for help can activate your amygdala. But I’ve also found it brings deeper connection with those people.…

I tried the cold turkey method once, against my dr advice; because ai thought I was better so I don’t need them anymore (yes, very stupid logic lol). Believe me, it is not worth making your husband’s …

Im proud of you, how are you doing now do you feel like your struggles have gotten less? Or less frequent?

I'm sorry for your struggles! That's so much to handle while also being pregnant. And good on your for buckling down when it comes to your mental health, because that will matter so so much postpartum…

I'm not judging you, I'd never do that, you're struggling, and that is a fact. I'm someone with a lot of empathy for others, but none for myself, so what helped me a lot to stop invalidating my own …

It’s OK to be single! I think a lot of women need to read that, not just you. Someone who makes you feel bad for natural bodily functions is not someone worth being in a relationship with. They are no…

How long have yall been together? I have felt this way too and to be honest for me it just took time. My husband is also very honest with me so that helps but I have found myself over analyzing thing…

Would you feel frustrated if you were trying to reassure someone and it wasn’t landing the way you hoped it would? Maybe the fact that you had some feelings pop up about you perceiving your therapist …

I'm so sorry. I remember this as a kid and I have experienced hyperventilating while crying where I can't catch a real breath and end up almost passing out. I did enroll in a DBT group for a little bi…

The short answer is: Who cares? Why do we need people to acknowledge our "struggle?" How does that help? What are you looking for? Do you think women will find this attractive? If something is hard …

Hey Firefly (we've seenone today withmy lil sis ;), thank you for reaching out and I hope that you will be reading this well. Metrics alone won't drive results. You can try every method and go nowhe…

you deserve better. he is belittling, gas lighting, unempathetic, antagonizing. you have medical issues that will make your life more difficult. My dad had MS. and you will need a decent human bei…