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Oh my god, this guy is insufferable. Take him to your appointments (let them know ahead of time, like on the booking notes), that your partner in particular needs certain things explained - and let th…
Different Businesses Need Different Content Formats – Here's Why (i will not promote) — Hey everyone! One thing I see often overlooked is the fact that **not all businesses need the same type of content formats**. Depending on your target audience and the type of business you run, the …
advise on how to promote a social feed app to specific communities (i will not promote) — hi Folks, Over the years, I have been toying with code and platforms etc. and recently I had sometime and with the help of copilot + and external help I have been able to create a very low cost, scale…
How do people become emotionally immature? — I was raised by and surrounded by emotionally immature adults my whole life, while living in a toxic and abusive household created mainly by my father’s abuse towards my mother, and her compliance and…
Out of curiosity, do your parents even fit the "demanding in-law" stereotype?" — This is a reason often levied against AM for not wanting to date them, but the Asian generation I know who are 1.5 generation onwards are honestly very chill and easy going. And this is doubly true fo…
I (36M) am in tears in my own home while my parents play with my daughter. — My wife has gone away for a conference today (for the first time since we had a kid). I am alone with my parents in my own home and feel so unsafe with them. At any time, I fear an attack will come my…
"Men Can't Be Men Anymore" — A week ago, I [posted about the Louis Theroux documentary on the “Manosphere,”](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stoicism/comments/1rtveyg/the_manosphere/) noting my surprise at the scale of the phenomenon, u…
Epictetus and Blame — I have been trying to work through past regrets and found this quote that I think might be help me out: > Uneducated people blame others when they are doing badly. Those whose education is underway b…
I (f 22) tested positive for an std after years of being clean and consistent testing and my bf (m 24) of 2 years says it’s “impossible” it’s because of him despite not being tested for 5 years and now we’re not okay. — \*\*\*UPDATE\*\*\* After a long 3 days my results came back and they were all negative. I, of course, told my boyfriend and he was relived much like I was. He was supportive of me and he apologized …
Better city to date women for me: Houston or Atlanta? — Hello. I (34M) am a south asian man primarily attracted to asian or white woman. I have a good career in medicine and value fitness (5'10 and lean). I was born abroad but have been here for most of …
Ouch. Starting over, into the lonely void of dating — I'm 38M and picking up the pieces after abruptly being discarded by an avoidant two days ago. She told me I'm in different 'tier' of people who is able to express emotions and needs. And that she's u…
I feel like garbage after seeing my best friend......... — Im a 46 year old man. I'm married with 2 kids. Im fat, bald and 5 foot 5. Im a piece of shit and cant take it anymore. My best friend is actually a girl who i have always been in love with. Shes marri…
I (18M) caught my Mom (44F) Cheating on my Dad (46M) and I don't know what to do — General Idea of our Family - My dad goes to work 5 days a week and comes back to visit us on wednesday evening and weekends. My mom is a teacher and goes to school in evening shift from 1 to 6 pm ever…
How to get over the fear of entities ? — So I’ve been getting pretty deep into AP lately, and I had an experience a while back that I didn’t fully understand at the time, but now it makes a lot more sense. I didn’t put a ton of effort into …
I think I’m addicted to emotional pain — I don’t really know where to start with this but when my partners cheat on me it makes me want them even more.. When I argue with them, my dopamine levels rise and it excites me I will say, I am so…
How to navigate when it feels like your therapist over-explains things? — I never know what to do in general in life when you're in a situation where someone is telling you something that you already know. Since I'm the type of person who is afraid of offending people I usu…
need help from an educated birth chart reader to interpret my chart — I have A LOT of aspects to explore. The overall theme of my life feels like ongoing depression when dealing with family & friends. Both of my parents have mental issues and divorced after 34 years of …
I feel like I have no personality but I don't know how to fix it. — To preface this, I'm very online. I know it. But I tried a "digital detox", stayed off my phone for two months, and it didn't change anything. All it did was made me bored. I don't really have any ho…
Parents failed to realize I had ADHD — Part of me doesn’t fully blame them because I realize it was out of pure ignorance. Part of me does blame them cuz why couldn’t you have been a little more observant and educated?! I started strugglin…
Alienation? — I made a lot of mistakes during the divorce over 6 months ago. No charges or anything like that. I was just blind sided and un educated. She took everything, including custody of my child and when I …
This might sound stupid! — Hey all! This really might sound stupid or uneducated, since I don’t really know what classifies as OB but I have been doing the following as a child and what to know if this might be something like a…
POC solidarity as an Asian — Firstly I would not like for this post to derail into other non-Asian POC hate, and I know this is not ALL non-Asian POCs being this way. I know this bc my own non-Asian POC (Black, Indigenous Blak, P…
Tennessee’s first Chinatown development underway in Nashville suburb — Pan-Asia Supermarket is the first of three buildings to open in Antioch as Tennessee's first Chinatown development continues. **The development’s first business, the Pan-Asia Supermarket, is now open…
Met this guy last weekend and he thinks I was being immature 23F 28M — So I met this guy last weekend he’s 28M and I’m 23F. I want to mention I did feel like he was a bit uncomfortable with the age gap but he still pursued. Fast forward to Tuesday night we were on FT. Wh…
Trouble with AP/OBE, need insight — This may be a longer post so bare with me. <3 I have had a really hard time astral projecting / having an OBE. I thought it would come easily for me because i have always been “aware” or more in tune…
Help — I’m 32. I lived in an abusive family until I was 25, when I got married and moved out of my parents’ house. Both of my parents physically abused me since I was about 4 years old. They sent me to a pr…
Manifesting and how to exist in the state ✨ — How do you actually apply “living in the end” when it comes to an SP/ex that you’re still casually still in contact with, without feeling delusional? We didn’t end badly at all, it was due to his pare…
Family doesn’t approve of relationship — I feel like this happens more often than not, but i still need advice, also apologies if this is in the wrong subreddit. Context: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now (he’s mixe…
Listening to memoirs to heal — Hello folks. I have been listening to audio book memoirs on and off for the past 7 years. I started with Marina Abramovic's Walk Through Walls, which I loved so much. I listened to it 3 times while w…
Are my parents the nparents or am I just the shitty kid? — Hello everyone, I'm Subha. I'll get straight to the point because this will be LONG. I've always wondered if whether my parents are narcissistic or not. And I needed your help to make me realise …
My family is so horrible. — My mother has been a negative, narcissistic, horrible, boring, low life kind of person my whole life. Abusive, gaslighting, condescending, public shaming, addicted to drugs, mean, judgemental, you nam…
I hate you — I went to go see you back in July of last year cause I live in a different state. I loved you. Wanted you to be in my life as much as possible. You were talking to another woman but I thought only as …
Was anyone else "homeschooled" by their parent/parents? — It's only recently occurred to me how incredibly neglected I was as a kid when it came to education. Especially as the eldest child. Handing a handful of questionable and not at all up to date "textbo…
Should I accept my narcissistic parents’ job offer as a scaffold out of financial dependence? — TLDR; My wealthy parents have a sordid and calculated history of financial abuse, but are offering me to pay me to help manage their investments. I am disabled, possibly for life, and don’t know if I …
My bf (42M) says I(32F) ruined our relationship by bringing up a small issue. — Hi all! Can you help me out with where this conversation went wrong? I’m hoping I could get some outside perspective on what happened this past evening because it truly left me feeling confused. TL;…
Disagreement over Woody Allen with person I was dating. Am I overreacting? — I had been seeing this person for a few months and was having fun with them. But a couple things gave me pause and led to me ultimately ending things, but I don’t know I was overreacting and projectin…
Stuck on Abusive relationship — Hello there. Firstly, let me start with this: I know I acted terribly and was not a good person in this situation. This is genuinely the worst thing I've ever done, and I suffer for it every day. I do…
Toxic relationship — Hello there. Firstly, let me start with this: I know I acted terribly and was not a good person in this situation. This is genuinely the worst thing I've ever done, and I suffer for it every day. I do…
BF (22M) fell for a phone scam. I (22F) don’t know how to feel about it, as well as my response. What would you guys do? — My BF fell for a scam that seemed obvious to me. He got a call from a guy who claimed he was from a police department. He said there’s a pending felony charge against my boyfriend after not showing up…
How do I (24F) get back the romance with my boyfriend (21M)? — My boyfriend (21M) and I (24F) met working on an island where we are currently living now and hit it off from the first day he got here; we’ve now been together almost 6 months. I like him a lot but a…
It doesn’t get better with time or therapy for me... — ​ Because no matter how talented I am, I will always carry this rage because my brain's on fire. Like why would anyone want someone to suffer through this? Every person that gets close to me..…
The beginning stages of Ego Death … please help me understand 🙏 — **4/8/26 @ 11:00pm** **My personal paranormal experiences tonight & entity sighting…** \- I see lines going across my vision \- I feel a ringing-like buzz in my ear and I feel tingling and buzzin…
My BF (M28) and me (F23), I feel guilty for feeling this way, any advice will help — I’ve been with my current bf for almost 4 years and I’m honestly really scared to admit that this guy isn’t someone I want to spend the rest of my life with. He’s very smart, well educated, has a grea…
28F, feeling pressured into marriage and confused about my decision — I’m 28 years old and I’ve already had two broken engagements in the past. Financially, my family is not very strong but we are managing. I’m educated and working in a company. My father is unwell and …
Need help, multiple therapists have said they don’t know how to help me I don’t know what to do — Hey guys, I’m a 25 year old man and have some serious problems that stop me from living a normal life: 1. Extreme debilitating anxiety. I can’t talk to people on the phone and even asking for help at…
How do I know if I was a victim — My Earliest memories consist of me having really really graphic sexual fantasies like being tied up , kidnapped and taken advantage of. Like id see normal stories abt love and stuff (animated ones on …
U/Cluster B Mom Could Be a Damn SNL SKIT — It’s funny but also super triggering for me. This is the woman who raised me, this was one of her public and sometimes private versions where she bragged about her looks, intelligence, status, the env…
Did you overcome the manipulation and move on? — Say for example, you had to be the perfect child (grades, interests only nmom approved and you had to choose your nmothers career (which she never chose, her mom chose her career for her)) and you wer…
Like clockwork — I’m about a week away from my period. The hormone fluctuations seem to intensify the operations that go on in the back of my mind. How I feel is valid. AND What I’m thinking may not be accurate t…
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide — This post contains guides, FAQs and the fundamentals that are suitable for both beginners and experienced members. Explore the links, videos, Astral Projection stories from experienced community membe…
Introduction, Valuable Healing and Attachment resources — # Hi, and welcome! It is a pleasure to have you with us. Please come as you are, we encourage you to share openly and vulnerably. If you do not wish to share and just browse, you are welcomed here to…
More pseudoscience from you (the first being that gravity is attractive- gravity is a warp in the space time continuum as it responds to mass, and only appears to be attractive to the uneducated). No…
I am new to this. I often can control my dreams. It’s so strange- I dream within a dream or two and within that dream I have to check myself that I am not in reality by floating. I am well educated, m…
a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…
Just because its on [thesaurus.com](http://thesaurus.com) and just because uneducated englishmen have been using it wrongly over the years, doesn't mean it is correct. A little critical thinking would…
i am a 51yo married man and educated with a professional degree but stuck in middle management which is fine. I have become more or less an alcoholic in some respects because i love sleeping and my…
\>Daydreams and dreams serve a similar function. Neither involve looping a specific scene. Both involve a sort of mind wandering. Except one you are unconscious and the other you are awake. So I disag…
There's a million different opportunities. Most are viable. At 18 you basically have no experience. There's nothing wrong with that, and even a few advantages. But you also don't know what you don't …
So $800 is ten days of revenue. I don't know your financial situation, but I'd go for that as long as it wasn't my last $800. I'm not a gamer but my son is and it seems like (to my uneducated self) th…
We run a product development company helping inventors go from a sketch in their notebook to a fully marketable product. We have had a few successes and are confident we can perform the work we …
The same ‘fight’ keeps getting picked as I’m trying to educate the world about how psychiatry is questionable medicine at best. The problem here is the world believes that it is real medicine, thus …
This subreddit exists to talk about attachment theory. It's a theory that was developed to try and understand our attachments in *relationships*, which develop from infancy. It's not synonymous with e…
Thank you! I did do a little research after I posted this and it does say this is normal for their age but just hearing anxious attachment made me panic because my attachments are horrid cause childho…
You might be putting this friend or even this “bond” on a pedestal. A truly strong bond will not break so easily. You may have ups and downs but it won’t break. If it does, it really wasn’t a strong b…
There is no quick way to heal. It takes time and effort. Therapy helps. Educate yourself and take the time to do the work needed to be done to get to the root of the issues.
The sub is full of posts talking about healing anxious attachment and there is a Resources page full of places to educate yourself on it. There is quite a bit and cannot fully be covered in one answ…
I (30m) hit the dating pretty hard over the last six months or so. I live in a major American metro. I have gone on 15 or so first dates in this period (and some seconds or thirds). It’s always bee…
Why didn't you educate him then? If he doesn't know then he doesn't know, that's not necessarily his fault. Not having a go, I just feel like not correcting him is counter productive to building the w…
Because it won't happen otherwise? You might not like it and it might not be fair, but I prefer to educate rather than be outraged that they don't know something. My french teacher from school who I …
Guess not, but I already spend the majority of my time educating people, I don't need to burden myself with educating ignorant men as well. If they can't educate themselves out of their own desire to …
Was talking to a guy from out of town. It was fun for a while and if he tried a little harder he would have been very interesting and could have gone somewhere. He was highly educated but wasn't passi…
I 28m have my life together, with my own home, highly educated with a masters degree in IT and I am making a 6 figure income however now I want to settle down, so I was thinking about settling down wi…
I know lots of single folks who are not on apps. Myself included. Broad strokes is that we didn’t get the engagement we wanted on apps. And often we were what I would call the wrong type for where w…
I’m in my late 30s and I’m just struggling with dating. Granted I do have the ‘tsim, but, it’s level one and people wouldn’t even know if I didn’t tell them, yay masking lol. About 6 months ago I deci…
Relocating for a better social scene I'm a 34 year old man living in middle of nowhere Pennsylvania. I've had several long term relationships but ultimately they did not work out due to cultural and …
Heey :). Earned secure, formerly FA here. \- sorry, this got very long :P <3 I relate to this behaviour so much. I can really understand how difficult saying no, setting boundaries and advocate fo…
Just a vent because I'm starting to feel like I should just stick with my fwb's. I'd like a relationship, but am having a hard time finding one that competes with being alone. I want to blend lives…
I have not said that I agree that 3/5 people have it I have simply provided why the numbers are low. I find it interesting that this post in general has become about fear mongering instead of actual …
Meditation does something, it expands you, awareness. You begin to see clearly, and see what is going on. Like the conditioning and reactions and thought patterns you were not aware of, and how they…
What I noticed that I get a few matches with Ivy League Educated XFs. You know why they are into AMs more?
For Christians who weaponize spirituality, I tell them forgiveness is equivalent to cancelling a debt… bc sinning against someone incurs a debt (hence, the whole sacrifice of Jesus and all)… as eviden…
In my state, it’s no longer a requirement in schools and that’s not my job position. Hence why the increase in syphilis and teen pregnancy in my state. I literally work in the lab. However as someone …
> I don’t even want him to stay single; I just want him to be happy ☹️ So I was your husband and I was told similar things by my now ex. The divorce crushed me and the idea of being with anyone el…
It he chose to have unprotected sex with you and neither of you brought up getting tested before having unprotected sex then him being mad would be rude AF. Both of you were careless and him not bring…
For myself: there was no sexual abuse and no physical abuse, which were the only types of abuse my child / teen mind would have recognized. There was emotional abuse, but I was never educated on what …
Interesting. I will start by where I do agree with u. Being Manchurian will not be an advantage when it comes to racism in the US as most people won’t know (or care) the difference between different…
It would deserve a safety net and time and space for us to heal and rest. But society doesn't provide that. I think ppl who love us see that we would need more but don't know what they can do. So the…
Why are you having unprotected sex with random people and not even bothering to test in between partners? You and your boyfriend are almost 30, you are entirely too old to be acting like uneducated, h…
The issue isn’t his insecurity (feelings/thoughts), it’s his actions. We all have lots of unpleasant internal experiences happening all of the time. The key to being a decent human being is not making…
I can certainly understand the appeal towards living separately for the reasons that you point out. But ultimately when you look at it, things like "are we concentrating on each other right now" is a…
It's not inferior to any other hobby but i have found gamers to be several undesirable things: bad at convo, avoidant, bad at hygiene, not great at holding down a job, not tidy, not educated, not heal…
You will be forever going crazy if you try to wrap your head around them from your logic and moral perspective when they are in fact alien to us - their core programming is another - they run purely o…
It was like having another child and I was exhausted. 20 yrs together. I had to teach him to clean, cook. We’d get to a bday party and a kid would be shoeless. He buckled the kid in the car but I …
No. Most are highly educated and informed on culture, arts, and world events
When I went back in the stone age there was the Chinatown crowd that was poorer, mostly Cantonese speaker (That right there is a clue, there was one Chinatown). There were richer Taiwanese kids who li…
Alright. I’m trolling cause I’m saying it’s good to be an educated voter. You be fr.
Probably that it showed she wasn't very educated but put on airs as if she were very worldly and sophisticated.
i feel this but with general stress tolerance. i’m autistic. it literally physically pains me sometimes to “push it down”. i was taught from childhood (by a mother that claims to have known i’ve been…
No, well the chances are never zero but it's so unlikely. Lucid dreaming might be the most variable thing to ever exist. Some take months (me), some take days. same with techniques, supplements, drea…
Educated XFs are more likely to be well traveled, exposed to different cultures, open minded. More likely to be nerds = weeaboo / koreaboo
What cluster B traits? In the autism subs I've seen a number of women mention they were misdiagnosed with BPD. And then when you have that diagnosis no one believes anything you say. > he asked if I…