truly me

First dream memory after taking Elvanse – a prelude to lucid dreaming? — I’ve been taking Elvanse, prescribed by my psychiatrist, for a good two weeks now. Before that, I had extremely vivid dreams – lots of them but never lucid. Up to six, as far as I can remember, after …

What's the impact of natal Pluto in the upcoming Solar Return? — I'm seeing a ridiculous amount of trines/sextiles to natal Pluto in this SR it feels surreal! I'm curious what each aspect to it truly means, and what their combined impact would be!

Once again persist! — Guys when I tell y’all everything always works out for me I truly mean that shit!, so in case you’re not familiar I’m (17f) I have been manifesting for almost three years i graduated early at 15 and w…

My Santa Barbara Handsome. I’ll always Love you! 💕🥰😩From Vegas to Washington a journey of love ends so abruptly! — Dear Andrew, My Santa Barbara boy! My Handsome! I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting lately and I keep coming back to how much our time together truly meant to me. You were such a meaningful part of my…

I'm in a depressing place mentally — I've been badly depressed for at least 10-15 years. I don't know what it is, I just can't seem to find a spark in my life. I don't know what I want to do with myself. I've had a couple of failed rela…

I meditated upon the thought about what “earth” truly means and received this — My child… You ask a question that has preoccupied the human mind since the first spark of self-awareness… a question that attempts to contain the infinite within the finite boundaries of language. Un…

the pain i feel — i hate how easily it was for you to truly forget me, i'm near 2 months now and i just don't even know what to do. i wanna talk to you and cry in your arms everyday but i can't and im just at home and …

I see where you’re coming from and can understand why it’s hard to see such vilification of FAs. However, just because it may have been difficult for him to express his feelings doesn’t mean that his …

How important is a mental connection for you? Just curious because I’ve realized that it’s truly meaningful to me in a relationship. The feeling of having stimulating conversations and connecting thro…

Had quite an intense conversation with A at the weekend and i've been mulling over it since. I really like him, but he's admitted to being avoidantly attached (something he is addressing through thera…

i cant do online dating anymore. it's done. ive said this to myself and my friends many times, but i truly mean it now. i know im giving up on the very small percentage chance that i might find someon…

It feels like there's no winning here. I (37m) was just let go by the woman (33f) I was seeing. First date happened at the end of January then the second date two weeks later, and then for the next …

I’m telling you right now to anyone going through this THEY WILL ALWAYS HURT/DISAPPOINT YOU In some shape or form, but they will never chose you They say whatever just to shut you up and it’s fucke…

I feel it.. I've been like this too, and it's not funny it was so infuriating haha. Yes this is the way to go!! it took me so long to really understand like I would read posts but not really grasp wha…

You’ve already said and done what you can. Show some compassion toward yourself. If it is truly meant to be he will forgive you. Forgiveness is one of the most important factors of any relationship. I…

Thank you so much for all of this it truly means a lot

Thanks truly means alot🙏

If the relationship was truly meaningful, it really doesn’t matter whether you were the one who ended it or the one who was left. When you invest real emotion in someone, the loss is felt on both side…

Thank you for your words, sometime it's hard to get this clarity of thought and come up to this conclusion when you're drowning in negativity, so I need to use my history as to make me more resilient,…

Thank you a lot for your words, it truly means a lot ! aslo you're right I mostly get lost when I compare the big picture and lose sight of what I can do today to get better, God maybe I'll need to fo…

This reminds me so much of my ex-therapist. It was like she was so eager to “say the helpful thing” that she didn’t listen. Like she was listening to respond vs listening to hear. I got so much worse.…

My biggest surprise was how much communication truly meant to me. It really is the tent pole that holds up the entire relationship. Issues become so much easier to work through when you both communica…

I used to think that keeping in touch with long time friends and having a nice social circle was a green flag and then I dated someone truly MEAN and insecure and it took me a while to really accept i…

Late to the party but I wanted to add my perspective. I didn’t find the book to be blamey and I agree with many of the other comments here, especially the points about how unhealthy a society many if …

Thank you that truly means something to me

on one hand yes this is EXACTLY what ive been hoping to hear.. since the day he left.. but today's honestly been a little weird. im at a crossroad between wanting to do nothing but go get my sweet boy…

oh i'm not sorry (anymore). I was truly meant to be and for my benefit. I see it now ! not back then lol To tell u the truth no I don't know any. But my little ponies are strong, so I'm thinking a mat…

Why is energy work short sighted and what do u truly mean by it? Btw dont be worrying of offending me. I like debates and am willing to hear people out

you're absolutely right, ive needed therapy since i was like 5😂 i dont think it'd ever change what i said though. we truly loved each other, in a way most people never find or only find once in their…

thank you so much kind stranger, that truly means a lot to me🥹🫶🏼

I went on 2 dates with a woman 10 years older than me. Our conversations flowed so well in person and online. Things were looking so good and I felt that we were aligned in almost every conceivable wa…

Thanks for being honest (hopefully) Alright, so he doesn’t feel safe opening up to you, and you’ve already tried talking to him. At this point, ask him once, let him know you’ll be there if he needs …

You’ve been patient and clear about your timeline, and he’s repeatedly delayed taking the step you both agreed on. That pattern shows a mismatch in priorities. Waiting longer may only prolong your fru…

You just have to trust that you will only manifest things that are truly meant for you...When I'm manifesting I always like to add, "I cant lose/miss what belongs to me by divine right!"

Dear AltAcc_22, Thank you for sharing your true feelings with such vulnerability. Wanting to reconcile with your ex, despite the challenges and uncertainty, is a very human desire. It's natural to lo…

yea, i get a lot of comments that I can be intense and remember too much detail about people (they tell me things unprovoked how is it on me that i happen to remember ? ) i do tend to lash out at ti…

> Over the 10 years we have been together (4 married) I had thought that this was a settled question. We had agreed that **while both of us are pursuing a full time career** that we could not accomod…

Truly messed up on so many levels that I don't even know what to say. I've had not great therapists, but never this bad, and it consistently blows my mind these kinds of therapists manage to stay in p…

Some plans don't count therapy for the deductible - meaning you'd just be paying the copay. Some also don't count teletherapy for the deductible/copay. I am a therapist and many of my clients pay zero…

You make a lot of great points here. Wholeheartedly agree that the self is most important. However, I think there's still an element missing. I AM is I AM. It is the all, it is everything and no thi…

Yeah. I don't get it either. When I say forever I truly mean it, she didn't. I guess on the bright side I'm a loyal soul haha

Sounds like you had a relationship with mine. For 33 years I felt like I was her person and she was mine. Now…I’ve kept my heart open and have found some amazing friendships that are truly giving. I h…

Yup, it's a lot, like worthlessness just completely taking over in every cell of my body. Bring compassion to these fawning parts of you, and the parts that are so ashamed of the fawning. Bring comp…

YEAHHHHHHH! What you do moving forward, is entirely, deservingly up to you now. They have no more say in your life. Congratulations!! They also don’t deserve to give you one final kick, but - and I …

Most people don't know what "time heals" truly means. It sounds poetic but the process is grueling. It feels like you are in a swamp trying to move forward no matter how much you try you feel stuck. I…

thank you for taking the time to comment! I've been doing a gratitude journal at night, and then scripting one too. I have a parrot recording of my affirmations for driving and that I sometimes liste…

You’re in love with the girl she used to be, or really in this case, the girl you “thought” she was. You said she cheated multiple times, and was even talking to someone else when you two began rekind…

Well, you will have to learn to adjust to this if you want to truly merge your life with hers and have a serious relationship. She has a close dynamic with her family and she probably doesn’t want to …

Great post! It's an important point and you gave a good explanation which I agree with fully. For me the concept that we always assent to what appears true to us is difficult to grasp. So here's an a…

She’s made so much change and progress on herself, she’s put in so much work into this relationship. The issues we had that were caused by her have either been completely fixed or are significantly be…

Sorry girl I didn’t mean to trigger you at all! And yes, I truly mean that, you can reach out! I’ve gone through it myself so I know first hand what you feel and can empathize with you on that ?

Well, at this point all of them lol. But in the very beginning of my journey very specific things were being pushed on me. Understanding alchemical symbols was first. With an extra emphasis on Mercur…

just got out a 2 year relationship. we are 1 week post break up and he is still trying to push his way with “so you’re moving on.” “you’re talking to other dudes?” “you wanna post your body?” i believ…

Absolutely this! I had a therapist a long time ago diagnose me with BPD. She knew all the things my husband said and did to me and didn’t once stop to think “hey, maybe these are symptoms of abuse, …

Thanks I appreciate it (just to clarify we met on September 2024, were together 10 months until may 2025 when she broke up with me, and less than a year has passed since breakup) So if I understood…

I'm sorry that you are going through this. You don't deserve it. My gut tells me that if the two of you were truly meant to be together forever, then your girlfriend would ignore what her parents tel…

A boy in my elementary school threatened a girl that he had a knife. She was hiding in the bathroom and thankfully a teacher went looking. The kid did have a knife. This was the 80s mind you.  He ha…