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Absolutely not. Break up immediately. There are some things you dont come back from and this is one of them. Was there a time stamp on the video before you deleted it? What you described shes doing t…
the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…
My (28M) girlfriend (28F) is pregnant with twins. We had an arguement today and she was mad and showed me a video on her phone sucking off her ex. Now what? — [Updated] My partner and I are on holiday for the long weekend. It'll be our last chance to go away before the babies come so we headed off. Two days in, we're having a fight. I'm upset, she's upset. …
Sunday night drops — As a recently divorced, slightly crestfallen dad, I often stay awake at night wondering: Will I ever feel whole again? When does this hole in my chest go away? These are the questions that keep …
[28M] I pay for absolutely everything for my [26F] girlfriend of 3 months. She gets mad when I need to work weekends on my startup. Am I being used? — I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months. I recently left my corporate job to build a startup. I still make good money/have savings, so I don't mind paying for dates. She is a 26-year-ol…
How to help younger brother? — So I (16f) have a younger brother (13m). A part of my neglect was due to him having high support needs when he was younger, still now but not nearly as bad as when we were little and the right medicat…
I (20F) feel uncomfortable and disrespected after bf (25M) is hi told me he is going on a solo trip with his ex — So yesterday my boyfriend (M25) asked me (F20) if he could tell me something and that it was related to his ex. He was making sure because it's a sensitive topic for me. We have been dating for 5 mont…
Anyone else "junkorexic"? — TW for disordered eating. I've been scouring the Internet to find threads on this kind of disordered eating or eating problem, ig, and the closest term I've found to what I'm experiencing is probably…
(Disclaimer: brains are very complex and very weird and this is very reductive) As a human, your brain has problem solving functions and "how to stay alive" functions. The "how to stay alive" functio…
If you want to be petty - next time you get buzzed let slip a brutally honest but not so appealing truth about him and if he gets upset just say, “oh hun, don’t be so hard on yourself! You’re just so …
"Why didn't you do your work before" as I'm trying to make up for it
I think one thing is for sure: you shouldn't make any major commitments until you've resolved these issues. If you're already worrying about feeling resentful and overburdened, a bigger commitment wil…
I told him he was an enabler! That his accepting behaviours made him as guilty as my mother. That he should have protected me and failed as a parent. That all the abuse, even thought he was scared, wa…
You need to tell her how that video keeps replaying in your head. She needs to know the severity of it. Dont try to hide it like you are doing. Let her know how much it has messed with you bc she nee…
I feel for you, this can be such a tough decision with pressure coming from so many different places. Distance can do wonders for mental health — the college I went to was 6 hrs away by car and it s…
Former workaholic here - I’ll share my experience in overcoming this and maybe some of these sentiments will help your wife. I am fucking GOOD at m job, and always have been. I stayed in a position…
Then how do you view things like appearance, charisma, confidence, physical ability, and so on? I've got a good career, solid finances, a house, good friends, and have been told it's easy to get to kn…
You both need real marital counseling. You can do it over zoom or in a phone call these days. She's not talking to you while you are in an EXTREMELY vulnerable part of life. She needs to make up for i…
Take note of everyone in your family that thinks this is no biggie and remember to ignore any future relationship advice from them. I’m sure they’re wonderful, caring people who have your best intere…
i think women often get burnt out from asking for the same basic thing over and over again, and feeling like we almost need to parent men through tasks that they *could* do themselves if they just app…
Biggest daily struggle is whatever I am trying to do, I don’t believe I can. I doubt myself all the time. Also this never ending loneliness even if I have good people around me. When I was small I was…
"When I was small I was never safe or held so now I constantly crave that feeling but nothing can make up for it if it makes sense. " took the words out of my brain stranger it makes perfect sense jus…
I’ll take this over the debacle that was Feldman being cast. Unfortunately, doesn’t make up for it especially because of their weak response to the AAPI community.
So he's gullible and a bit naive. Is that a deal breaker for you? I think there are far worse things he can be. My wife is gullible and a bit naive as well so I know how it is. But she has other tra…
Not going to lie! I think the fact that you’re even entertaining this is a joke. You are both adults, you both have histories. Doesn’t matter that he just got diagnosed. If he wants to explore his s…
You keep saying "loss", loss of what?! He didn't lose anything UNLESS HE FEELS HE WAS ENTITLED TO IT. He thinks he was entitled to more sex at 19 and now wants to make up for it. Gross af.
Best decision ever unfortunately at the cost of my relationship with my now ex-girlfriend who broke up with me because to her I was a traitor for cutting off my family. And the kicker: She accepted …
Neither was I, my brother was the GC perfect son they wanted. My mother tricked my father into a second child so she could have the perfect family and the daughter she always wanted... damn me for bei…
Break it down logically, ask him to try it out for two weeks to rewire his neurochemistry. Show him the evidence, get him excited about it, and be ready to be a lot more active to make up for it. …
Hey, thanks for your comment. And I feel slightly better by now :) Of course, I know I should be working on managing my triggers and emotions. I have done worse things in the past and it did drive peo…