rudeness

Not dating perse but I'm (33M) still dealing with the fallout a friendship breakup with an ex-friend (28F) that honestly makes me feel like it's a bad breakup. About 8 months ago this ex-friend joined…

Walking meditation. Am I just ego tripping? — So I went for a 2h walk today with headphones. And as I progressed I naturally became more mindfull. Thats when I decided to slow down so I could keep more awareness. This is something I do often, but…

Family of boyfriend dislikes me and disapproves of our relationship — My boyfriend (M23) and I (F25) have been together for almost 4 years. He just told me last night that his father's side of the family and stepmother don't like me or our relationship. This came as a s…

Female relational aggression — Are there any of you raised by a narcissistic mother facing often bullying from other women? It had happened to me to many times to consider it a coincidence, both in friend groups or work environmen…

Thanks! Crazy how we are conditioned to think this anxiety and nervousness as genuine attraction and love. I've calmed down since then and getting to know this person with clear mind. Yes, the wrong…

Living together is a great chance for lazy, entitled men to make women do all the work. I'm careful and prefer to have my own home. LAT for at least 3 years and if we still love each other very much a…

You keep acting as if your parents and your sister are your kids whom you should have managed better. They're not. You made a suggestion and they went along with it. If you hadn't made that suggestion…

Quick note - English is my second language, so if sentence comes strange, that's why. What jumped out at me reading this is - the shift you're describing, it's not gradual. It's sudden. You went fr…

Lol it does not make you a terrible person! I think the problem is more of them not being on the same page than the actual sitting down to eat part. Honestly a bigger red flag is that she’ll cook and …

Being ADHD and sensitive to noise and stimulation doesn’t excuse this kind of cold, rudeness. Poor OP!

Your rudeness really demonstrates your age as well. Especially for someone who claims to be pro-women 🫶

Ok, I accept that hyper vigilant isn't the right term for you. Mainly I was tying in the other reply but I didn't need to do that. My mistake. Ignore that bit. I don't intend to dismiss your percept…

I would personally love to hear more about both your stories! You found the right sub-reddit! If you post in r/aliens, or r/ufo, or r/paranormal people are jerks. Idk why the moderators don’t limit ru…

My mom would never listen if I told her, but so many of my embarrassing & sad memories growing up were from being undiagnosed AuDHD. I remember being screamed at about family portraits when I was abou…

Victory. "Oh, my! The gall! My adult child won't give me all the private information I'm demanding! I simply can't fathom the rudeness!"

Recovered yet? From what, your rudeness? No, goodbye

Recovered from his rudeness? What he did was absolutely disrespectful. Even if you guys agreed to just be a hookup, you just don't do that. And your friends... lord they should not give him excu…

Its not rudeness or stupidity it's I've been there too and groveled and cried and that is beneath me. I won't give anyone power over me like that, I have power over myself and that's why you can't bre…

I've had the opposite experience. I used to be very underweight (due to a pretty bad ED) and people were so nice to me, especially men. After being in recovery and putting on quite a bit of weight, pe…

While I'm not fully childless, when I was dating I had an empty nest, and my kids were adopted; so I never had a bio bond. But I also **really** enjoyed that empty nest. I was expecting to "tolerate…

You dont keep awareness alive. Quite silly but understandable as it's a common hang up. Awareness is all there is. How do you know you are aware? What is aware, if not for awareness itself? Has anyth…

Being aware of their rudeness and not letting it stick on you, is the key. Yes you’re meditating. And in fact meditation is being totally in the present, feeling every inch of the universe’s fabric. I…

i hate when people are utter assholes to my face and i’m nice in return to save them from the embarrassment of their rudeness - then i realize later all the things i should’ve said to defend myself bu…

Now I see why you’re single. Your rudeness is entirely unnecessary. I’m *literally* an English teacher and published author. My reading comprehension isn’t the problem. Why do you assume everyone know…

Next time she’s venting, you could gently say something like: ‘I get why that bugs you, but their rudeness doesn’t have to steal our peace. Let’s not let it’ And for you keep being the steady one. Li…

I got heavily cyberbullied for around 2 years (with ppl still mocking me 5 years later like get a fucking life) because of this. I was kind and understandable. But as soon as I said something bothered…

Rudeness appears and disappears. Do not linger. Just move on. It is the minds distraction.

The rudeness you perceive is projection from past conditioned experience. It is play in duality and separateness. At the base is undifferentiated awareness in which all is in flux and flow. Be the …

I don't post often but this post and the comments made me chase this and I thought I would venture a post: For me, I’ve observed that the hardest moments are often the small, everyday encounters with…

That’s not tough love, it’s controlling and a massive red flag. He’s not your Dr, he’s not your nutritionist nor is he your personal trainer. You should have 1 more conversation about this where you e…

The threats and being hyper vigilant, absolutely. Happens in every environment. Seemingly. Yes, lets take an example, usually at family parties. I know 3-4 people will be insanely self centred and ma…

And then you end up even less likely to want to do chores as an adult because you forever associate them with being spoken to with such disrespect and rudeness.

Guys, please stop trying to reply to this comment with how AI detectors are unreliable, we know. This comment was more about pointing out the blatant rudeness of the assumption that a well written pos…

At the biological level, we’re overly complicated, highly social gamete vehicles who accidentally became self-aware about 250,000 years ago. Low hanging cached thoughts about the gamete thing tend to …

1. I was matching your level of rudeness. You said you feel bad for the baby. Tell me what were you implying if not that you believe that OP would be a bad mother. What are you implying if you're not …

I 1000% believe you. I know that sometimes I have bad days so I’m not the most polite person. But I’m never mean to people, yet (almost) everyone I encounter in my life is selfish and mean, sometime…

ig so, i mean, i do need to be more patient with stuff, but i feel like im kinda valid on being fearful and walking on eggshells. ig what my brothers tryna say, even tho he didnt say this outloud, is …

Where there’s a strong surprising feeling, there’s always a hidden belief. What is it that you have come to believe about men that makes masculinity so reprehensible to you? I am a man, and for me it …