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Any Coda people read the new Lindy West book?

I'm maybe a 1/3 of the way through, she just got the van and is talking about her dad. There's much of the book that is like "oh yes early recovery, recognizing the problem, great, can't wait for you …

r/Codependencycomment4/1/2026
​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it?

F me! I never would think anyone would do this to anyone of purpose because of the dangers… you are messing with a persons mental well being and reality… but I’ve had an experience with a woman recent…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
I have never hated anyone so much in my life

Just because you had to do it that way doesn't mean it's the only option for everyone. In a healthy marriage, if one parent is sick enough to need relief from parenting, the other parent would be expe…

r/Divorcecomment3/25/2026
What’s a behavior or reaction you’ve had that you later realized was actually a trauma response, even though you didn’t recognize it at the time?

I have this with work, especially. I once worked a retail job at a register with glass in my foot for 6hrs because I felt I just had to push through. Was never "sick enough" growing up, so spectacular…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/27/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 29, 2026

I will say that I’m a pretty out-of-distribution case, but there were a couple small warnings that came to a head when something serious came up medically. If she didn’t feel I was “sick enough” she j…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/29/2026
My mother can't apologise.

It's a reflex for her too. She feels like apologizing is a big scary thing that means she's a Bad Person, and in order to feel okay she needs to twist things around to reassure HERSELF that she didn't…

r/relationshipscomment4/6/2026
How do I (33F) get my boyfriend (33M) out of his apocalypse mindset?

Honey my ex husband started to do the same damn shit shortly after we moved in together and it only got worse. It took me 8 years to finally get sick enough of it to leave. When our best friends asked…

r/relationshipscomment4/13/2026