craziness

my mom strangled me when i was 15 & im just processing it — i'm 20F right now and i'm just now processing this i guess. it's affecting me badly, i keep thinking maybe i'm overreacting, but then i also feel this is a bit concerning. when i was fifteen, my pare…

My(30m) life seems to have become empty in the past few years and I'm not sure how to fix it. — This feels like a problem ive been avoiding for a while, coasting on friends I've had since high school. We have a generally good friendship and I'm very much not a social person so I've been slow at …

Just got broken up with via text. Should I respond? — So I(F25) received a breakup text from my now ex(M29) today. We dated for 11 months. He told me he still loves me and deeply cares for me but it’s not working out. TBH I had it coming for me- I forgot…

[Discussion] 42 year old wife and mama. Looking for suggestions, encouragement, insight, resources, or for someone to just come kick me in the as* and tell me to stop feeling sorry for myself. Kidding, kind of... :) — As mentioned above, I am a 42 year old mama of two boys (12 and 13) and a wife of 17 years. I have always been a pretty self motivated, optimistic, positive person. Staying in shape, weight training a…

Nmother keeps threatening me with "calling for an Ambulance" — I can't believe what I am even writing, it's just so awful and off the scale craziness. The only person who needs a fucking Ambulance is that crazy fucking BITCH! This is a new thing, which starte…

Okay, I will look into this person more but Steph Anya is an LMFT. You might want to search again bc dismissiveness pulls right up as an avoidant trait only. Cognitive empathy is very limiting in true…

I'm celebrating my first Valentine's Day in a decade next weekend. It's nice to know that in the craziness of 2026, that things can turn for the better.

There is no good way to break up with someone. It’s gonna be hard no matter what. You are not responsible for his emotions or reactions. It’s best to be to the point and not draw it out. Do not make a…

This is the line that stood out for me ... "All of my aunts and uncles called me, not to check on my sister, but to make sure I wasn't going to call the police on my dad." That is some crazy stuff t…

It could mean you’re not cut out for them. It could also mean you went in with the wrong mindset. Or it could just mean you liked him more than he liked you, and that led to your craziness.  I don’t …

Right, I just, have been homeless before and they do have programs (that often have months and months of waiting lists to get you from "shelter" to "Housed"). I wasn't trying to offer any advice, mere…

I'm so sorry that this happened to both of you. It's craziness, I don't understand people who do something so horrible to their partners

I don't know how we survived such craziness. They project their fears, insecurities and jealousy onto us.

Sorry, it’s over. She is one of the most manipulative people I’ve read about here. Before you do anything rash you need to go see an attorney to understand what D looks like, how to do the custody thi…

bestie, leave. as an Asian, you can't win against Asian's craziness (sorry to say so, sorry to word it meanly, but i would know since I LIVE HERE pretty much my entire life). you may love your husba…

I think there are multiple reasons why it takes years, or even decades, to realize that you've been abused. The first reason that I see is a developemental one. As a baby, your world is incredibly …

Honey. I mean this kindly, but you should run for the hills and have nothing to do with this ex and his deranged gf. Don't get caught up in their chaos and craziness or you could find yourself becomin…

I found out my ex has talked about me to his wife. Idk what he said, but the way she quickly said my name makes me think I’ve been a regular topic to them. His wife has been obsessed with him for yea…

I've been no contact. It'll be 2 yrs on August 3rd 2026. I still think of him DAILY. It's insane. I miss him because I hold onto the person he showed me in the beginning. My knight in shining armor. I…

Oh man, this hits home so much. I never lived with my nex (thank god), but I would keep my apartment meticulous whenever he'd come over. I'd always leave some dishes though, so when I saw him pull up,…

Look, if he wanted to, he would. There are plenty of jobs he can do that don't involve him being on his feet. Matter of fact, I'm sitting on my ass right now working at a computer. There's nothing wro…

If it makes any difference, I went public. I found over 25 people he cheated on me with while I was pregnant. One I messaged in 2024 telling her we had a newborn and toddler....guess whose still with …

Sorry but not sorry. My belief is that perspective only comes from distance. You need distance from her craziness right now so so can think clearly. Separation gives you that distance which ultimately…

I’ve been in your situation growing up with a crazy narcissistic mother (who thought our neighbors were trying to kill us with spraying pesticide at our front door and would frequently call the poli…

Grew up catholic and after a lot of psychedelics, life tragedies and meditation I now vibe with the concept that everything is the “sacred dance”or the “great mystery” and being alive to experience th…

I went out with a woman that was fun and we had a connection, but something felt off. So, I did the deep dive and she HIT HER EX-HUSBAND IN THE HEAD WITH A BASEBALL BAT amongst other craziness. Couldn…

My mom is the same. She says my son is her “most favorite person ever.” Every conversation is basically about my son (or the craziness in the news because I work in the media). It’s all…surface level.…

> I don’t think even the diehard age gap haters would have an issue with an 18 year old dating a 23 year old surely? BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Bro, I was arguing with people at my college who insisted th…

It’s a very complicated thing to make sense of. Don’t be too hard on yourself, it’s a lot to process. Do what’s right for you on a day by day basis, because it’s going to take a long time for you to f…

(Went through the trial details to understand your post) When I discovered my husband's affairs (two affairs, a decade apart), I can tell you that my actions were different both the time. Anger, Disb…

He's never going to change, you know this, your family knows this. They want you to change because you changing is much more likely than him changing. And you acquiescing to his moods makes their live…

UTI is not contagious so you got lucky stay away Fran that craziness

Agreed. I left comments against the craziness people were leaving