eureka

My personal experience is that it took me years in therapy before I finally had this "eureka" moment when, and I have no idea if you relate, I realized I largely came to therapy to talk about my partn…

For those hurting, advice for your 2026 and my story — Hello everyone, **Preface** I am an anxious attacher, so my experience by-and-large is with dismissive avoidants and fearful avoidants. It is not my intent to villainize these attachment styles; thi…

My imposter syndrome to do with driving and feeling like I don't belong on the road was all because of my parents, because of my experience of asking them to take me somewhere and them not wanting to drive me there, and me thinking about that, was the reason I had my worst ever driving lesson today — Long title but I'll explain it. I turned 17 in December 2024. And my parents have always wanted me to pass my driving test. Not because of independence, but because they want something "material" to …

Strange AP occurred MUST share. (double) — This is a quick recap of the insane bizarre AP I experienced. It’s a tad long so be warned but it holds secrets of the universe so be intrigued. It was 4-5 pm as I was laying flat on my back on the …

Congrats on your hard-won self-awareness! It sounds like it was painful and difficult and you're still grieving. I just find one part problematic: >I decided to go on a rescue mission, for myself, a…

Yes to all of this! I’ll add one nuance. I think this is a bit extreme or all-or-nothing, though I understand your Eureka moment and your need to emphasize it: The true eureka moment, for me, was t…

If you think that you can present your observations to him in a way that seems not to be criticism, it is possible he MIGHT (not will, but might) hear you. If I wanted to try this I would start by le…

Hello, friend. I have already posted twice... got side-tracked you might say on the way to writing this one, which is the stuff I initially thought I would post. Two parts... some anatomy/physiology r…