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You're not "not a very good person." You're not "a horrible person." You're not overly emotional. You are in a toxic fucking cycle (so am I, but I'm on day 9 of no contact). I'm also ND - and I'v…
i dont know what to do (relationship) — Im 22 and my dating history is very sparse because i always suffered with rather low self esteem and mental issues. Over the past years ive been opening up and evolving personally, also trying out the…
How do you end an engagement when you both live together, share a lot of expenses, and the wedding is less than a year out. — i’ll start this off my saying i truly feel like a horrible person. I (22M), have been engaged to my girlfriend (23F) for about a year now. I rushed into the engagement in our first year of dating and …
society pushing the "your parents did their best" nerrative — I grew up in a dysfunctional home to say the least. I do not remember my parents caring for me and they taught me nothing - not academic nor necessary stuff (like laundry, period, showering etc.) and …
Told my husband (37M) my life (34F) would be easier without him following a disagreement about household chores. — My husband 37M and I 34F have been married 5 years, together 8 and we have 3 kids (I have a 13 year old and 10 year old from a prior relationship ship and my husband and I have a 3 year old). I have p…
It’s probably not appropriate to say I was traumatised by my housemate who was possibly toxic (probably too far to say emotionally abusive) — TL;DR: I was a lazy roommate who drank a lot. She would get very angry at me and I know I’m not great in this, but it would also be over accidents that physically hurt me. I feel terrible a lot of the…
What’s wrong with me? — First time posting so not sure if I’m doing this right but here we go.. I’m pretty much losing it and idk what to do to fix myself. I feel like a nervous wreck pretty much all the time even though I’…
My ex is lying to me — So I’ve been single for about a month almost and she decided we should be friends after she broke up with me. After a few days she went back on dating apps which didn’t bug me but then within the same…
I lost my best friend due my anxious attachment style. How do I cope? We were really close, could be compared more to a relationship but we were (long-distance) best friends (for about 1,5 years). I’…
Oh wow, you dodged a bullet there! What a horrible person.
i feel this but with general stress tolerance. i’m autistic. it literally physically pains me sometimes to “push it down”. i was taught from childhood (by a mother that claims to have known i’ve been…
No, intellectual gaps are real. And it doesn't make you a horrible person. Similar ability and education are almost a necessity for compatibility. I've stopped seeing people I had to explain EVERYT…
Sorry for the trauma dump that is coming. The two things that bother me the most is that she would never get my autism, ADHD, and Tourette's checked out, and instead she punished me for them, and als…
My mom has gone to therapy and *lied* for 20+ years. I went with her sometimes, and she was so enraged that the therapist "took my side" every time. She would say, "You charmed him!", like I tricked …
I'm going to be very blunt here and it may come off as rude, but coming from a man whose (now ex) wife cheated on me with several men online and in person, and tried to make it work for several years,…
Classic narcissist reaction right there. It’s so text book. My ex followed the same pattern, if i pointed out something that made me upset or feel bad he would flip it around where it was my fault or …
Exactly how I feel. It’s not like we ended on bad terms cuz one of us was a horrible person. We both had communication issues that none of us denied. We were both mature and honest and realized that w…
this is over. he is a horrible person. you cant give into that. he would never talk to you back then and would make fun of you.
Yeah your husband is a horrible person. He literally just wanted to ruin your good mood. Letting him treat you like that is bad enough, but you are not protecting your children.
You need to divorce this woman ASAP. She's a horrible person.
For sure he chose wrong, she must be completely crazy about other things you had to have seen. someone like this isn’t just normal than does something so downright mean. This has to be the most unatt…
My brother was the scapegoat. When I was in college and exposed to many psychology classes I recognized my family for both of my parents are narcissistic. I realized the pattern of how my parents ende…
People of every age are out there looking and dating. My dad got remarried when he was 70. And he’s a horrible person. If he can do it, anyone can.
I didn’t say I was unhappy. I’ve been in a 13 yr marriage which was incredibly unhappy and being single is FAR beneficial to being tied to a horrible person. So yeah… There are many men who could also…
@ThrowRAVulture216 : DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT bc it's time to consult legal advice bc there are so many red flags here. On a side note, as a person that had horrible 28w straight of all-day "morni…
Your bf is a horrible person. Leave him. NOW!
The good old rug sweeping. She is a horrible person. But it makes sense. You lived in a dysfunctional family and she is dysfunctional. I recommend divorce and then you need to really get therapy. Find…
So sorry OP, but she is a horrible person. Do not believe alcohol caused her to cheat. She was planning that activity for a long time, without being drunk. My guess her family she traveled with knew…