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My partner (NB-20) and I (NB-23) need help picking out an alternative to "master" in the bedroom — Okay, this one is a bit of a weird one. Hopefully it's allowed in this sub. Background: So I (23-NB) love being dominant in the bedroom. It's fun and very empowering. Before I went on my self-discove…

Bundle pricing and host suggestions — Sup y'all, I'll start by mentioning that I did read through the FAQs regarding pricing as a web developer. This post is regarding bundling and host selection. I recently worked with my brothe…

Has any ordered from Daddy butter? — First of all, I want to be extremely fair to any business in questioned, they are fairly new business, daddy’s butter. I’ve seen this particular business on Facebook. I’m very impressed with what they…

First website, godaddy or wix? — I've just started my own woodworking business, filed with the state and now onto website ideas. I bought the domain name and need to create a simple web page. I'm not looking thinking of e-commerce o…

The monster jar theory of FA or avoidant attachment. — So I was talking to a friend of mine and supporting her and my own feelings of shame and I was reiterating somethjng that isn’t anything new at all but hit on an analogy that really worked for both of…

How many of you had suitors before meeting your NPD partner that were actually really nice, attractive, and ready to go all in with you, but you turned them away? — Asking for a friend 😏 jk…that was me. Those suitors’ love felt strange and off-putting. It felt too easy and therefore not genuine. You mean I don’t have to perform for you, hide my feelings, or s…

Whats going on with TanTan? — 30 year old dude just came out of a pretty long LTR. Never used dating apps before. Downloaded it to see try and see whats out there today. Put up a profile with 3 pics on Tantan/coffee meets bagel. …

Anybody Else’s Parents Unreasonably Obsessed with Academics? — Ever since I can remember doing well in school was pretty effortless for me. From the first through about the fourth grade, I was a model student who consistently brought home shining report cards an…

Robert Monroe — I was listening to a video of Robert Monroe yesterday and these are his exact words: Knowledge to me doesn't even have to be a belief but a consideration of yours, and that is that - that more than …

Feeling lost, depressed, and lonely. — It’s been almost 5 weeks since my husband of almost 16 years blindsighted me and told me he’s done and leaving me. We have 3 kids and a perfect life, or so I thought. We just built our dream/forever h…

how to get through the last year until i am 18 — i am 16, i work full time and have straight As and Bs in school. i have 10k about saved up andhave another year to put as much money in it as i can. i need to get out of here, i dont know how much lon…

Fiance doesn't feel wanted/I am too friendly — TL;DR MY fiance thinks I'm too friendly and wants to feel more respected/desired sexually before showing me vulnerability. He is uncomfortable with me giving men so much attention ie talking too long,…

I need a hand finding direction, purpose and myself. — I am a 29M and I am currently in the middle of a divorce, but if it is anything like before with this type of situation it will blow over and we and my partner will pretend it didn’t happen. I don’t w…

My father disabled me — TLDR: my father broke my bone, ring finger, for the sake of his ego. I refuse to accept his apology. ADVICE WANTED I (22m) have had a long history with my father abusing and violating me and then h…

Has anyone else as a young kid assumed possible sexual intent from parental affection? — For no reason, they never did anything slightly possibly related to that, but I remember as a young kid having in my mind that my parents might be pedophiles. I remember using that exact word in my th…

Dealing with the repercussions of making mistakes — Posting this here because the BPD subreddit kinda sucks and will not allow you to post anything :)) Hey guys :// I was doing pretty good but I’m definitely still feeling repercussions of when I was …

My 25f partner 24m doesn’t put any effort into any holidays or events or anything special. Is that normal? — Post is as it reads. We have a 2 year old daughter together. Her birthday recently passed and I spent hours baking her cake, finding decorations and gifts from eBay (she’s into some older tv shows so …

Bf cheated F25 M21 — I’m 36 weeks pregnant and I just found out that my baby daddy cheated on me… with a man. I’m heartbroken, confused, and honestly feel so lost. I don’t know what the future holds, but I’m trying to foc…

Bf cheated on me with a man… — I’m 36 weeks pregnant and I just found out that my baby daddy cheated on me… with a man. I’m heartbroken, confused, and honestly feel so lost. I don’t know what the future holds, but I’m trying to foc…

The only bedtime phrase that stopped the daily “I miss Daddy” crying every single night — My daughter wouldn’t stop crying for her dad almost every night at bedtime since divorce. Not an innocent cry. Am talking about the kind of cry that broke both of us apart. I used to be so helpless no…

What techniques would help me approach/re-engage with my anger/drive/motivation for my own sake not just others sakes? — **TL:DR** cPTSD from alcoholic/neglectful single father. Parentified from childhood. Around 13, consciously switched off my anger/frustration to cope, like flipping a switch, and it never came back on…

Having a misogynist father — Title says it all. Classic unavailable, unequipped to become a parent father who was the breadwinner and was allowed to emotionally act out towards me, my mum and sister growing up. Probably gave me s…

BD cheated on me with a man — ’m 36 weeks pregnant and I just found out that my baby daddy cheated on me… with a man. I’m heartbroken, confused, and honestly feel so lost. I don’t know what the future holds, but I’m trying to focu…

My '28m' sister '25f' is verbally abusive to her kids. What can I do to stop it? — As it says in the title, I'm at my wits end here. My sister has explosive anger issues, and whenever her kids so much as make too much noise at times, she will blow up and full on yell at them. This i…

Found out father was a child molester, was I a victim? — this is probably the hardest thing I've written. i was a super daddys girl growing up and was absolutely devestated when he died tragically when i was 13. Growing up in my new home when I was 5, thing…

how to help kids with trauma bond? — I really need your help and advice. We have been living appart for 3 years but it's not 100% over, for a while it seems like and then he is coming back and wants to try. I believe our relationshi…

I have extreme fantasies, please help me — I (15F) have weird fantasies, I will start off by telling you abit of my Childhood, my dad was a HORRIBLE GUY , hes the cause of this, I forgot he was even there while I was a baby, and when I was 5 t…

Why do I have daddy issues — it's a bit of an issue for me because I seem to take kind actions a bit too much to my heart, if someone is kind to me I fall for them easily, any attention or validation makes me feel nice even thoug…

Am I being influenced by my mom? — \[f 19\]so my parents divorced when I was 16 and ive always been a daddy's girl. he was there for me when no else believed i was hurting and while he wanst there much it was becuse he was working. I s…

Has Anyone Else Struggled With Understanding What Child Sexual Abuse Is? — I've seen a couple of posts on here with people questioning whether they had actually been sexually abused or not. This really stands out to me because I also struggled with this growing up. In my opi…

LOOLLL this kinda reminds me of myself. i’m FA and also have bpd. my psychiatrist was the first person i rlyyyy opened up to after being hospitalized at 19. gosh i became so attached to him after and …

Lmao, no, don't worry about it. I have daddy issues as well, and I have friends with BPD that have pointed out that I may have it too (I'm not diagnosed and have no need to know though atm). And I tot…

As soon as I accepted that some people just aren’t that attracted to or interested in me, but are willing to date me for the convenience of easy/on demand sex or attention, it got a lot easier to let …

Wow, this is a beautiful way to look at it. I can imagine that that siren going off for me, is actually a scared little girl tugging on my shirt hem with tears in her eyes. I just need to look down. L…

i think it was as attempt to get the " daddy dont wants me" wound solved . i was physically attracted, never had proper social contact in my life and wasnt able to read between lines. he was always …

If you badly want kids but are unhealed ask yourself These questions What will I do if the woman I chose to date, gets pregnant before its planned What happens the woman I'm with is pregnant an…

Hey gawdaddy, You have to be the main character in your own life. Send that cutie a message and shoot your shot. Either she goes for it and that's cool, or maybe you guys can catch up just as friends…

I'm not telling you to end the friendship, but you need to stop fantasizing about dating her. She may be a great friend and person, but you deserve a great partner.  To recap your post, you're unsur…

It's also worth noting that men are often specifically pressured to *suppress* emotions. That whole toxic "alpha-male" manosphere culture says that men who are in touch with their feelings, who allow…

I got some much needed stress relief with the guy I've been hooking up with for the last month. I've asked him if he likes to be called anything in the bedroom and he said he doesn't. Tonight a tiny p…

Omg lol. Daddy is out. You’ll have to come up with something else

Be assertive and call yourself daddy (100% of men hate this, but it's really funny)

Right? Who doesn't want a sugar mama (or daddy)? Lmao.

I did it once freshly single. It was fun for a couple months, but there were some obvious signs in there I should leave. Late night texts from baby daddy, or voicemails of him crying and begging (a ma…

He is NOT a good father and partner. He’s an alcoholic. If a sandwich has a little shit in it it’s still a shit sandwich. Your son is 3 and he sees this. He sees that daddy is passed out all weekend. …

i wish the 20yo would message me and call me daddy

I'm kind of starting to get there too. Sort of stuck halfway between"stop seeking" and "seek harder, Daddy"

The weird comments is my point. Nobody has a genuine interest, there's something wrong with them or it's nefarious somehow - always daddy issues, some weird power play, etc.

Same as daddy but opposite. Her taking the lead, if not dominant role. Saying "mommy" at... various points. Exactly what the details are, again, depends on the person, but that's the gist.

She said she felt pushed. …she was the one who came back to me. When she did, I asked her “Why now?” And asked what she wanted. She told me she still wanted all the same things. A husband, babies, a…

That’s why I stayed too, ultimately. My youngest son begged me not to “make daddy leave” and it ripped my heart out. So I stayed and I’m pretty much miserable with him daily. He’s “doing all the right…

I'd cool it for a bit. You are in the middle of a lot of heavy emotions and legal proceedings. You don't want to do anything stupid because of New Relationship Energy. You also don't want to set yo…

My baby daddy used the word silly non stop. I was like mother fucker expand your vocabulary goddamn lol

As a 27 male I've been through CPTSD that left me with abuse driven kinks especially domination like u! And ur suggestion for people with CPTSD to meet is absolutely great idea!  Because Im a switch…

I was Daddy's girl until I was in my thirties. Then I really opened my eyes to just how fucking selfish he was. Literally yesterday I remembered having panic attacks trying to drive down to his place …

And- if you want, if it were me—I’d let auntie know that the statute of limitations has not passed for you and your sister to report daddynarc for beating up his daughter. You could say you have photo…

How can you lady You're all bout sharing and caring You are all bout relationships .you are all bout spiritually, high possiblity of dads girl/love your dad. Long travels is your go to activity You mi…

Welcome to life of 80% of breadwinner, traditionally men. Either you love your husband and work through it together by helping him get a better job or you leave him for not having enough money. Just b…

Mine let his daughter raise rabbits to sell and when he got tired of taking care if them he DUMPED THEM IN A PARK. I own and operate a livestock rescue. 22 acres with over 100 animals, including rab…

My dad is the enabler for my nmom. He knew he should have stepped in, and yet he didn’t. I was always a daddy’s girl, and I realize now that he felt like my safe parent because he didn’t treat me like…

Yep. I went through something similar. First pregnancy was worse than the second. She was being so mean to me that I was convinced the kid couldn’t possibly be mine. I don’t think this is unusual. …

"Painful rite of passage for the daddy club" is grim but probably accurate. Gonna try and stick it out like you said just hard keeping a smile on when you're getting battered from all angles. Hope you…

> I do wonder how much of it is being caused by more traditional negative factors (e.g. bad fathers) Louis Theroux was just talking about this on Triggernometry. Apparently more than a little.  I …

There's only one way to shut him up and you go get a paternity test now. Tell him to cough up the money and you both get a blood test and it'll show him he's the daddy. Then he's going to be groveling…

You can save yourself by accepting the fact that he’s a cheater and will continue to cheat because you will “work through it”. Accept that he’s hooking up on when he travels. Accept your kids will gro…

Today, one year ago, I got put in jail for a handful of hours for being 45 min late to court. I faced a charge for something I didn't do against my best friend's abuser. He was sexually exploiting and…

I've been remarried for about 20 years and my ex-wife was pretty frantic when I met my second wife. I'd really recommend not jumping at shadows about what she says she will do. React to what she act…

Does he have some time between walking in the door and dinner? Make it the same time but give him that time. Also give him some free days a month. Also maybe only 6 other nights a week. Lots of famili…

>I don't know how seriously to take them, but I should have included that in my post. You should take them very seriously. They are interfering and controlling busy bodies and will wrap it up as the…

You need to pick a lane in life right now. Either you should break it off with your fiancé and go live with mommy and daddy. And they can run your life. Or you should stop asking strangers on Reddi…

You’re almost 30 years old, you’re an adult, why are you worried about mommy and daddy? Grow up and live your life.

I know my therapist was just trying to help solve a problem but her suggestion for me to possibly be open minded for a sugar baby/daddy type of relationship fell flat and honestly offended me. Its not…

I fail to see how getting a sugar daddy is going to solve the wanting a more attractive man problem. The pool of available men shrinks even more when you go down that route. And if you find them there…

Do not have children with this person. He literally does not care about your feelings. A normal person would apologize and comfort you. A decent person would have not been so blunt out of your earshot…

Don't have your ex-boyfriend/baby daddy show up midway through the date to sell you cocaine.

What do you mean? You don’t have a coke daddy?

He is weaponizing incompetence. He wants to avoid tasks of daily living, so he breaks down every task to a piece he can screw up. He screws it up so you have to teach him to mop with water, then hot w…

I would have brushed it off with "So you need a second to hide your daddy-porn? I give you a minute, go." But that she freaking hits you is crazy.

When I would talk to my father he would repeat my words back to me in this hateful mocking tone. Imagine “daddy, we had a substitute teacher today!” repeated back to you in a crude mocking tone. By th…

When did you become her daddy tho? She's an adult, stop being her enabler and let her sort her life out. You do you, whatever happens to her is on her. All of us have gone through break-ups and had to…