Leave a cheater, gain a life.

You should read "Leave a cheater, gain a life."

’m so sorry. This is brutal. You’re trying to weigh betrayal, your baby’s wellbeing, your husband’s mental health, and your own survival all at once, and that is an impossible load for one person to c…

He cheated because he wants to. His actions say I want out of the marriage, want to be with her and I am a selfish narcissist and don’t care about you or our child. He is not remorseful, but narcissis…

I would highly advices a few things Read Tracy Schorn - go to her website. Read Leave a Cheater, Gain a life. Cheaters have a pattern, and they all say the same things. It’s rather pathetic, once …

Your wife is not taking accountability for what she did. You need to read Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life. It doesn’t mean you need to leave her but it will give you a deeper understanding of your reacti…

Edit to add at the beginning: YOU DESERVE BETTER. You deserve someone who won't cheat on you. Nothing is wrong with you. Him cheating is his own character flaw. HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. 21 years toget…

Sorry, but I'm not reading all of that, the title gives me enough info to respond. Either cheating is a dealbreaker or it's not. You have to decide that. I have given this advice so much over the pa…

Your trust in her is broken. It’s near impossible to rebuild, although it can be done, but she needs to stop talking with him, find another job, and fully commit to you, or you need to start divorce …

First off, I'm sorry you're going through this and I empathize with you. I don't know how long my STBXW had been having an online affair with her AP before I kicked her out for seemingly unrelated rea…

Dude, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. It is not your fault. You deserve better. I know how you feel, I've been there recently. She does not give a fuck about you. She stopped loving you the se…

Every word of the above, u/sfwsatan. I was in a similar situation. Discovered the first affair (EA with her ex). Asked her to cut it off. Asked her to go to CT which she agreed to. A month later, ca…

Read, leave a cheater, gain a life. Updateme! 

I'm sorry you're going through this. I know it doesn't feel like it to you, but this is a very short relationship compared to most of us on here (21 years for me!). He has given you a tremendous gift …

Consult a lawyer. Many do free consultations. If you have to pay, it'll be worth it. See more than one if you need to. Write down any questions you have beforehand. They'll give you a more accurate pi…