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psychedelics keep telling Bryan Johnson to grow up and he doesn't — Hey everyone. I'm sure a lot of you have seen Bryan Johnson's psychedelic experiments by now. The Don't Die guy: 100 supplements a day, thousands of biomarkers, got blood plasma from his own son. Over…
Different Businesses Need Different Content Formats – Here's Why (i will not promote) — Hey everyone! One thing I see often overlooked is the fact that **not all businesses need the same type of content formats**. Depending on your target audience and the type of business you run, the …
How do you keep track of costs across your (AI+SaaS) stack (I will not promote) — We’ve been working on an AI product that touches a ton of different tools: OpenAI, Midjourney, Claude, ElevenLabs, Google Cloud, etc. Recently, we started noticing these random billing spikes, $300 h…
Struggling after “healing” is challenged — I’m a late 20s AA, I have put a ton of work into myself over the years to become secure (as secure as I can be at least). Recently I was seeing a guy, likely DA, who needed some space and we agreed …
The most painful relationship and breakup I've ever had, but it cracked me open so that I could heal. I created a text message llm analysis tool that revealed insecure attachment. — EDIT - TLDR; 8-month, high-intensity relationship. I was DA-leaning; she showed a lot of push–pull/negative lensing. We loved each other and still couldn’t repair, so we went NC. Post-breakup I focuse…
The most painful relationship/breakup I've ever had, cracked me open for healing. Plot Twist: The text message llm tool said I was an FA, I ignored it for 5 months before I figured it out. — For five months I was absolutely certain I was dismissive avoidant. Monthly attachment coaching—as a DA. Studied obsessively, could recite every AP/DA/FA trait. I even built this text analysis tool, a…
Shattered Tourmaline — For anyone who feels guided to offer advice: I bought a tourmaline necklace to protect me. It broke two days ago. The chain it was attached to just undid itself, and the piece shattered. Would you s…
"What does it mean to heal?" channeled message from my guides — I thought to share with you all this excerpt from a channeled conversation between myself and my guides. I love this text a lot and return to it often. Perhaps those of you on a healing journey and t…
We Interviewed Our Friends Annika & Tristan, And They Gave A Great Oak Impression For His Gracious Welcome To The Experiencer Community! — **\[UPDATE: March 21\]** Thank you all for the support for Annika & Tristan in your responses! Several asked for more from them—**Part 2 is now live!**: [https://youtu.be/OMVygk\_FrtI](https://youtu…
Trauma Bonding — Hi Guys! I am a Codependent in recovery. I am trying to break free from a Trauma Bonding. You may choose to answer only questions which you're comfortable with. You don't need to answer all the quest…
After almost 3 months practicing Gatewaytapes, this is the first time i feel my consciousness started lifting off, it's not OBE yet but it's definitely something lifted off there, i have to share this with you — I started the very first tape Orientation since Jan 26 until now i reached wave 3 tape 1 , everyday i practice one or two time but at least one a day, going through each tape i practiced at least tw…
After almost 3 months practicing Gatewaytapes, this is the first time i feel my consciousness started lifting off, it's not OBE yet but it's definitely something lifted off there, i have to share this with you — I started the very first tape Orientation since Jan 26 until now i reached wave 3 tape 1 , everyday i practice one or two time but at least one a day, going through each tape i practiced at least two …
Timeless Knowledge YouTube gone?!? — Suddenly it’s gone? So many great lectures I can’t even begin to explain. This is absolutely devastating. I even tried searching and found nothing. There were lectures from Joseph Murphy, Neville God…
Have we reached a tipping point with generational trauma? — So many people are just… so traumatized man. I’ve met way too many people over the years that are obviously stuck in a 4F response. I can’t imagine it was this bad when my parents grew up. Maybe it wa…
A couple great tips for easier Revision. — Revision is an extremely important yet underrated technique. After going through an event that "future" manifesting just wouldn't solve, I knew the only thing that would fix this situation is to chang…
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…
Mom! There's a Flying Car Outside the Window + And Other DR Memories — https://preview.redd.it/qg8vkwaixvpg1.png?width=1024&format=png&auto=webp&s=ddddae1cd2fa8a918133c6c3655c21cd7e63afd6 https://preview.redd.it/am1xwmqjxvpg1.png?width=680&format=png&auto=webp&s=2814916…
it finally clicked — i just. omg. i just NEED to share this SOMEWHERE. i spent 6 years trying to think myself into “making” shifting happen. 6 years focused on only my mental health, believing if i finally found the one …
Finally got the ick — Honestly, I know I post here a lot, and I’m sorry if it’s ever bothering anyone; but I think I finally got the ick for my ex!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m seriously SO happy right now. I never thought I could ever…
I Changed Myself and Got it All — Hello, I’ve been wanting to write this post for a very long time. Grab a snack and come along for the ride! **The Beginning: April - October 2022** I discovered Neville 4 years ago; after a year of …
I messaged my EX and I feel better :) — Its been a LONG journey, but last night I was playing Farcry 5 on my PC for the first time in a while and I noticed my EX was on (we played together a lot and I helped buy the game and her laptop). An…
Apartment — This is something of a long story. I'll do the TL;DR up front. I've finally gotten housing, the apartment is beautiful. It's in the heart of a small city, in an ideal location for myself and my son. I…
A success story I’d like to share with you — Three jobs that are exactly what I wanted, money and something about love Last December, I was laid off from my full-time job, had €4,000 in debt, and was living alone, even though my partner and I …
Astral projection and sleep paralysis — Hi everyone, I recently started my spiritual journey, and over the past couple of weeks I’ve been exploring meditation and astral projection. Last night, I woke up around 4 a.m. and decided to liste…
It’s Been A Year… So Here’s My Last Post — Well, tonight makes it official. It has been a full year since I was dumped. Whoever said you lose track of time when you’re having fun is a liar. You REALLY lose track of time when you’re miserable a…
My progress to a position of strength — I haven't posted my story in this sub mainly because it's far too complex and I felt compared to other people in this thread my betrayal may not have been as catastrophic. A summary for context - I w…
Success Story: Brought my savings account over $20K — This will be more of a public journal entry, as I'm still on my journey learning and mastering manifestation. There's a lot of backstory here so if you're not interested, you can skip below to the TLD…
Partner started therapy — Therapy for our relationship but more so for how he thinks/feels. We both know this is a wonderful relationship, and we love each other very very much! I truly can say there’s nothing bad or has be…
1 yr 8 mo update - I finally let go — I finally found peace. I've never thought this day would come because even just a month ago I was still devastated and thought I might never be able to move on. The pain was so real and I felt like a …
A case for "It will come" instead of "It is done." — In my manifestation journey, majority of my successful ones were done with the approach "It will come" instead of the "it is done" mindset that is stressed so much here. Neville writes that saying "i…
How did you know your marriage was over? — How did you know your marriage was over? For context, this is all very new to me and I am a child of divorce myself. I never believed I would be in this situation, especially given my age (28). I am a…
The global awakening, the planetary shift in consciousness, I seek to find you — \*\*\*\*Note: the following is my own interpretation and opinion of my own existence and nothing else. I am not an oracle. I have many questions and few answers. \------------- In the beginning ther…
Success Story: "I make $55/hr" 2 week streak F20 — To preface, I've had the knack for manifesting money here and there for around 5 years now, and I'm still in the process of fully realising my power and being in total control (ie having it come more …
The New Acid Test Playlist That Will Melt Face, Enjoy <3 +5000 Trippy Tunes — I've Been Building This Trippy Music Archive For The Past 3-4 Years, It has 4 Sections Starting At Track One Will Be A Guided Trip That Will Take You On An Inner Journey, Playlist Structured For LSD …
Thank you to this community. — After posting yesterday, I received a lot of support and feedback from kind redditors. I just wanted to say thank you. Every comment helped me reflect deeper and I have been able to let go of wanting …
Just started my meditation journey, just wanted to say hello 👋🏼 — Hello everyone, just wanted to say greetings and hello. Just started my journey on Monday and so far so good. I’m glad to be a new part of the community.
How do you stop other people’s comments from affecting your confidence during weight loss? — **TW: weight / body image** I’m 20F and I’ve struggled with my weight most of my life. I was obese in high school, and over the past few years I’ve lost about 50 pounds. I’m not obese anymore and sti…
Hypnotized state finally pop — I’ve been in therapy for about ten years now, and it’s been a journey, to say the least. A lot has happened. I’m curious if anyone else has experienced something I can only describe as a kind of “hypn…
the big dream of moving out — Moving out seems like such a no brainer, especially when you're already an adult and financially independent. But for me, it always seemed unachievable. For the longest time I was so deep in it, I gas…
No self-esteem or worth to get better — I'm still on this journey, but question if I've made and real progress. I'm not doing my best work in my 4 year relationship, and I continue to fail. I struggle to take accountability and communicat…
"Does this count as a shift?" - STOP. INVALIDATING. YOUR. EXPERIENCES. 𓏲 ๋࣭ ࣪ ˖ — Hello beautiful souls! I’m sure many of you have noticed that when you are scrolling on the reality shifting subreddit, you come across posts of somebody asking “Did I shift? Does this count as a sh…
How to Change Your Mind sparked my psychonaut journey. What are good next steps? — I finished *How to Change Your Mind* by Michael Pollan a couple of weeks ago, and it was mind-blowing (pun intended). The history, the research being done to help people with mental illness using mush…
I want to start my healing journey, to start self-love, but how do I do it when I constantly yearn for a relationship? — It was after going through heartbreaks that I noticed that I had an anxious attachment. It is through those moments that I reflected that I am not ready to be in a healthy relationship and that my con…
Some notes from a healing codependent — Hey! With all the negative-leaning (has its place!) stories and thoughts on here, I thought I'd give a bit of my own learnings, and positive moments, to show healing IS possible. Since I don't wanna…
Do Travelers Often Meet False Gods? — While Bob Monroe eventually believed by the end of his third book Ultimate Journey that there is a creator of the physical universe located beyond the Aperture, he also described a few experiences whe…
Toxic Family Conflict : Parents disapprove of my relationship — Hi everyone. I’m 27F (south Asian doctor) and I’m in a relationship with my boyfriend (36M, white, works in tech remotely). He is genuinely kind, supportive, emotionally stable, and has been my bigges…
woke up LC escalation with a timestamp fake-out — i’m coming out of dorsal vagal collapse from CPSTD and massive recent trauma. it left me unable to work for awhile (still trying to get there without my brain shutting down) and went to stay with my m…
I’m slipping back into depression and there’s nothing I can do — Trigger warning: weight loss I’ve posted a lot about my bad home situation in these last 2 weeks, some bits were my mum being so against me eating over-processed food but wants me to get weight loss …
I feel so alone and i don't know what to do how to handle the situation and what to do ? — ​ I will take good care of my father, I have tried many times to serve him properly. At least 8–10 times I have taken him to Bhopal myself. Imagine an elderly man with a heavy bag, constantly …
Collecting Health / Chronic Illness Success Stories | Please Share Yours — Disclaimer: I’m trying to gather as much info as possible, so don’t be surprised if you see this post in other subreddits. — My Story (29F): I know what I’m about to write can be viewed as a limit…
sharing recent experience and soliciting feedback from the experienced people here... I live in Phoenix, AZ but have close friends in Richmond, VA. On this particular journey, I had a vivid experien…
I have many, many personal anecdotes that prove our beliefs create reality. Some goals/desires achieved are beyond the realm of mere coincidence and far exceed a free cup of coffee. My response to th…
At this point in your journey, I believe, you need two ingredients: grieving and not avoiding your emotions (somatic work, journaling, revisiting painful memories, allowing yourself to cry, etc) and s…
I think building discernement and self-trust will reduce the risk of "inevitably being discarded". Meaning, at some point in your healing journey, you'll learn to identify people who are good relation…
Thanks…. It’s been a hard journey, and is not over, for sure….
Your feelings are valid, AND they are not facts. The above commenter is trying to offer you some wisdom; you can choose not to be reactive and take it personally and look again and ask “what can I lea…
I was diagnosed three years ago with ADHD. My wife, who is a psychotherapist, speculated for a long time and then gave me an assessment, which was then confirmed with a psychiatrist. But I've been run…
From my experience, failure is part of the journey, not the end. Every failed venture teaches you something valuable whether it’s about your approach, market fit, or persistence. Don’t be disappointed…
What you have said mirrors almost exactly what I felt and went through, including me explaining to her briefly at the end about attachement issues and asking if she wanted to know more, and whether sh…
I figured anyone mentioning it would get downvoted, but I second the use of ChatGPT and other AI tools. I did a couple years of weekly therapy but it was getting too expensive. Now I use a combination…
The thing is the more I have aged and worked on myself getting higher self esteem and confidence, the more I have self reflected and become more aware of myself, the more I have slowly recognised the …
Its classic..you are not alone in this. I dont know if its allowed to say but i watched a lot from Dr Caroline Leaf free youtube videos, which is not about the attachment per se, but its one of those …
thank you so much for sharing your story ❤️ im glad to hear you are learning to regulate yourself. This is a long journey, but it’s worth it. I have been working on my AP attachment style, my goal is …
Honestly? It's mostly up to her to resolve that issue, not on you. But somethings you can do to help is tell her you like when people are being real, it doesn't matter if that's a bit imperfect. I al…
For me, being healed doesn’t mean that I’ll never be triggered by someone’s actions again. Rather, it means that when I recognize that someone is triggering me, I am able to remove myself from the sit…
I'm really proud of your journey to healing. On an unrelated note, it always surprises me how FAs can just bring up such intense feelings in other people. Anyways, focusing on your healing journey, …
So I (38M)'ve just been dumped again by someone who picked up on my attachment anxiety, and I'm extremely frustrated because I'm pretty far along my healing journey, but not finished yet obviously, an…
I would like to share my story too. An FA myself, I got into a relationship 4 years ago, and that too with an anxious type. I got highly triggered by her needy behaviour and fear of abanoment. She wou…
Hi! Sure, this is my own healing journey, nothing more, nothing less. Everything here comes from sources that I have listed, I relied on their status in the scientific community and didn't go as far a…
Very, very, very interesting, I've just started my journey this week and finding your success story and the resources you shared is great, as I'm only 10h deep out of the +10.000 ahead, binge watching…
What action did you expect? To help you to move around - sure, to help you to get you into emergency room if it's already kinda 10 out of 10 pain - sure, but you have to take care of yourself... yours…
I think you have found an amazing partner, and that you are finding your healing. I don’t know your journey, and I don’t know what you’ve been through, but I’m proud of you. I’m proud of you for maki…
She is her, there is no "not real" because everything you have felt for her has been real and all the times you've had together have been real. Her feelings are her feelings and they're never for you …
>*In order to move on, you need to not only stop feeling sorry for yourself,* *but also stop feeling sorry for the world.* *That is forgiveness in its essence.* *To give up a certain lens to see…
Be more discerning of their profiles. I feel like you can tell a lot by photos they share and how much or how little they share about themselves. Are they posting a lot of sad looking selfies? Or just…
I am earned secure. When I found attachment-styles, I was already on the healing journey, so I cannot say with accuracy what my untreated and unconscious attachment style was; probably FA leaning DA. …
Thank you! Everyone has their own journey, with the ups and the downs, of course. I am proud of you for making an effort!
I'm still early in my healing journey, but I'm finding that taking specific actions to recognize when I'm feeling anxious and utilizing grounding techniques to self soothe is helpful. I am recently s…
I can only tell you from my own perspective and my own personal experiences. I've often felt like I was too much, that I need to be patient with my partner, that when I want to ask for more, be it in…
Stuck around birth family for three days, came away with loads of goodies of course but at the expense of my sanity. Holidays are superficial commericalized bull, people are stupid, unhealed careg…
It's very individual. My ex boyfriend who was avoidant ended things multiple times. He kept coming back and I, much earlier in my healing journey, kept taking him back. I was on the roller coaster for…
It’s a very frustrating journey, no doubt. It helps to know sometimes that you’re not the only one! Not that it makes your situation less frustrating of course, but more knowing you can share your iss…
Thank you for continuing to share your journey. It's nice to hear the experiences of another person on this journey, and heartening to hear the positive changes it has already had in your life. That …
My ex reached out to me today. After our \[couples therapist suggested\] no contact period ended and she didn't reach out, I truly thought I would never hear from her again. She mentioned something s…
It never ends well. Either creates problems in future relationships, keeps exes dangling in their feelings like a yo yo, it just causes more hurt down the line for someone. Unless there a factors suc…
I recently moved to a new country for work. I met someone through a dating app who is 8 years older than me. In terms of career, I had just graduated and was at the very beginning of my professional j…
I will say that I have recognized that this whole experience did result in growth, so that's not nothing. Throughout this journey, I've put myself out there over and over, which is very uncharacterist…
No one is EVER complete. Humans evolve and change their whole lives. The important part when it comes to dating is that you are working towards personal goals related to your own "issues" like caring …
No matter how hard I try, no matter how far I have gone on my healing journey, sometimes, flashbacks, setbacks, and the fear are so real. I am definitely in a happy relationship now, however, there ar…
Consciousness created the whole set up in the first place so I would say yes. Personally biggest thing I got from astrology is to differentiate which part of me is my Higher Self, totally unaffected b…
It is the right thing to do. I went through the stages of having them blocked only in a messaging app or two. Then more, then I kind of realized that letting them unblocked somewhere was the part of…
I know it is hard to be objective when it is in first person POV but everyone else can see it, She has removed your existence from her socials and her room/house , she is “exploring herself”. What doe…
The greener pastures are such a thing, no one found them. The grass is green where it gets watered. That saying goes for so many things but right now most of all for yourself. Don't wait for things to…
- Jamal Burkmar (general creator) - on various short & long form platforms - Therese Lee (youtuber) @theresehlee - Abigail Thorne (youtuber) @PhilosophyTube - Kat Blaque (youtuber) @KatBlaque - @za…
I spent so many years alone on this healing journey, aloneness also contributes to being unable to emotionally mature, but then you’re too emotionally stunted to form those relationships. Cursed loop
When you are truly free of them, you will not hold anger inside. Some call this forgiveness, finding peace after violence, letting go. There is not pardon for the abuse or reconcilation with the abu…
There were just eclipses, the last one in Virgo- your 10th. It was conjunct the S Node. The tail of the dragon. It eliminates and gets rid of what we don't need anymore.It's a perfect time to work on …
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. No matter where you are in your self-improvement journey, r/selfhelp is here to offer support, encouragement, and shared wisdom from those who have walked …
we don't talk much these days. We have decided on a cooling period of like a year since talking about it just makes it worse. The hurt just resurfaces. Only possible reconciliation is when we both gro…
> but I understand that, at a basic level, my emotional well-being is my responsibility, and not anyone else's No. Your emotional well-being is your responsibility, but it's also everyone else's. I'm…