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i felt that physical sickness in my chest reading this, especially the part about him asking for "other things" just three weeks out. i remember realizing i didn't even know what tea i liked anymore b…

Strange WordPress Login Activity – Need Help Understanding — I've set up a new website, and **I'm the only one who has the login credentials**. However, I'm seeing **many login attempts recorded**, and I'm not sure who is trying to log in or why. I had installe…

Theme Suggestions- simple, visual oriented, for events/non-profit — Hello! I run a small nonprofit that produces low or no cost music shows for the community. Part of our mission is to be as supportive as possible to the creatives "on both sides of the stage"... So w…

Any experience running and managing many locations on POS? Switching from Square and I’ve got questions — Shopify POS as a refreshing breath of fresh air over Square on many points. However, they seem to fall short on some really obvious things. That make me think maybe I’m the crazy one and just don’…

Afraid of the "how" — Hi to all. I have been studying the law and this sub since many years, then left, then (1-2 months ago) came back. I had my fair share of watching coaches, reading the content proposed here (and more)…

Having trouble differentiating between anxious attachment / normal needs, feeling lost and alone — First Reddit post here! (It's a long one, I just really need a place to put it all down and get some support, so thank you). I (19F) got out of my first long term relationship about 3 months ago. It l…

I posted a while ago about being Fearful Avoidant and, since so many people reached out about how to overcome that style, I've decided to compile a sort of list of things that are helping me become more secure — (based on what is working in my life, what I've observed, what i've read, etc. They may not apply to everyone but even if it helps a couple of people I'll be happy) **These are things to practice in …

Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…

Trying to navigate a "casual" relationship — Hi everyone, I (30F, trans) have been talking to/seeing a woman (24F, cis) for about 5 months. The chemistry is legitimately the strongest I’ve ever experienced - emotional, intellectual, creative, s…

I have done absolutely horrible things. I might be the worst human being to ever live. — 20M. This might be the longest post you'll ever read. I believe I have OCD and do nothing but ruminate 24/7 about my past. I have been in isolation for the last 3 years. It started as a fear of adult…

How to Meditate (or at least one way to get started) — Intro: There are endless amount of intentions or, in other words, ways to focus your meditation practice. At the end of the day, your meditation practice is \*yours\*, so make it your own. This post …

Why Being Ok With Not Having Your Desire Manifests It Faster — It’s a very contradictory thing in manifesting where you desire something, but you’re told to let it go and not care about whether or not you have it (because in 4D you already have it). But let’s fo…

Broke up with DA after a year. — Met her a year ago, almost to the day. Things started well, relatively slowly which was nice for a change compared to other situations I have been in around that time. After two months, we became offi…

My first week with the Gateway Tapes — I am so grateful that I have been able to experience what I have already and I wanted to share. I’ve been doing guided meditations for astral projection for some time now with limited results. Last w…

Imposter syndrome? — I went to the therapist last Tuesday, and I have another session tomorrow. When I went, she asked me to tell her about myself and my family from ages 0 to 5 up until I turned 24. When I first started …

I did it, I broke no contact. — So I had made a previous post about reaching out to my ex after a month of no contact. I was super hesitant about it and almost didn’t do it because I was worried about the result. But after some hesi…

Spiritual Awakening & Instant Manifestation (wtf???) — So as the title says, wtf? I've been using multiple different ways of manifesting, manifesting with feeling, robotic affirming, and I've realized one thing. Manifesting is an act of creation that …

My wishes come true — I've no idea how this works but lately I've found that when I wish really really hard for something, it will come true. It works for really important things in my life, that I wish for with my whole…

How do you guys give yourselves comfort you used to get from someone that is no longer there? — While this is coming from a position of a break up from me, this is also something I want to learn when it comes to other things. Right now, my nervous system is screaming for comfort by going back to…

Opened up to my wife about how I feel about our relationship and she just said "That's your problem" - am I crazy? — We're both in our mid 40s, been together for 20+ years and we have two kids who are both teenagers and I've been thinking about divorce for quite a while now as I feel like I just don't get anything b…

Update: I received 3 opportunities in one day after months of nothing! (self-concept shift around money) — A few days ago I made this post about feeling stuck with money even though I had success manifesting other things: [https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/comments/1rm8jfl/success\_with\_loa\_in\_man…

Ugh, I contacted the AP — It’s been a long year. I found out about my wife’s affair last year (they ended Jan 2025) and honestly everything kind of tanked for me after that, both personally and professionally. The last few mo…

Hairy Crabgrass (Digitaria Sanguinalis) -- Is it a potential 5-MeO-DMT source? [In a wider Ayahuasca narrative] — I can't say for sure if it was the grass because I also have a lot of existential stuff going on. I read a report on an old message board that someone's cats like eating crabgrass. They tried ferment…

UPDATE: My (32f) fiancé (28m) repeatedly does not clean the house — Hello lovely reddit. First relevant links. My first post I deleted (so you can peruse the comments if you are interested): [https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/18yjl0g/my\_32f\_fianc%C3%…

Heart chakra help — Hello all, I hope everyone is well. I am suffering from a closed heart chakra, I consciously think I am good there but I am not. I hold pain there. It began in 2023, I got a snippet of some trauma i…

Manifested a $32K scholarship with accidental SATS!!! — Hi all :) I have a pretty amazing success story that I’d love to share, and I hope it may motivate some of you in your manifestation journeys 😊 Basically, I accidentally manifested a $32,000 scholar…

Anunnaki Contact — At about 5am this morning, I woke up and stayed up, realizing and releasing deep seated fears from past lives recently stirred up. Lying there, I fell into a deep state of meditation. I found myself i…

have you ever received your manifestation only after the desire vanished? — i‘ve thought about several things i felt strong desire for in the past and realised that i experienced/got all of those things at some point but only after the desire disappeared or I forgot about/got…

I was in Barbados… Well actually it was Turks and Caicos but close enough! — I was in Barbados… Well actually it was Turks and Caicos but close enough I just came back from a 4 week long vacation in Turks and Caicos in the Caribbean. This was the 10th year in a row I have don…

Don’t you fear being too isolated? — I recently got rejected by a girl that I really liked. We started off as very good friends and unfortunately I caught feelings for her. So right now, I’m grieving the fact that I lost a really close f…

How can I build a personal life that doesn’t depend on other people? — Hi Reddit!! I really need an outside perspective on my situation, because I feel like I’m completely lost in where I’m going and what I actually want from my life… Maybe people who have learned to man…

Nonordinary Perception — I'm so glad I found this community, I've posted in the paranormal and the witchcraft communities and been called fake, liar, crazy, and all kinds of names for sharing my paranormal experiences, so I'm…

Calling AM on her bluff, even if it means she becomes homeless — \*\*\*\*Warning this contains Abuse, this is not for everyone if you’re under 18 please do not continue reading this. I’ll try to make it brief. My AM was a single parent of 5 kids. That’s where he…

Unintentional reality shifting? — Unintentional reality shifting? I came across this posted on tiktok. I’d heard about this before but never seen the full thing until it came up on my fyp today. I wondered if anyone else here has see…

Revision can alter physical incidents — It hasn't been long since I truly started grasping how magical revision is, and I just remembered an incident that happened a few months back last year that actually made the concept of revision sink …

28M, 30F, wife and I are distancing and I don't know what to do. — 28M, 30F, wife and I are distancing and I don't know what to do. Throwaway account for obvious reasons. My (28M) wife (30F) and I have been distancing lately. We have been together for almost 5 year…

A lot of parents give their children mental disorders then pretend as if it's the child's fault. — I side eye every parent who has children with mental health issues. The likelihood that it was given to them by the parent is extremely fucking high. Case in point, I got harmed and abused a lot by m…

A lot of parents give their children mental disorders then pretend as if it's the child's fault. — I side eye every parent who has children with mental health issues. The likelihood that it was given to them by the parent is extremely fucking high. Case in point, I got harmed and abused a lot by m…

A lot of parents give their children mental disorders then pretend as if it's the child's fault. — I side eye every parent who has children with mental health issues. The likelihood that it was given to them by the parent is extremely fucking high. Case in point, I got harmed and abused a lot by m…

Dealing with an energy vampire parent? — I'm pretty sure my dad's an energy vampire, anytime i'm around him i get sick, ALL the time. Which never happens on the months he's gone for work. I feel down, lazy, i don't want to get out of bed, ev…

Neurodivergence(?) and meditation problems — Hi there, I hope you are doing well. Ive had a bit of an existential crisis about a month ago, a sudden spout of dread that has been trickling away bit my bit through each day, like how a wave di…

How I broke free from panic attacks — For 3 years ago I was at the gym. I was doing my normal push routine while all of the sudden I felt immense pain in my chest. I laid the weights beside me and sat down, my heart was pumping, it was pu…

40(m) w/ADHD needing to be reliable/dependable at home — I am 40(m) and separated from my (39f) wife. We live together still but I am just trying to be dependable and reliable from a co-parenting and human standpoint. We have 3 boys and I have ADHD and a…

Tips For Starting? — I have been in and out of OBE and other things with my interests in life and really want to be able to fully dive into these tapes and the whole process and see what I can discover about myself. Any t…

I haven’t had a dental appointment in 9 years. Today, I had one. — Around 9 years ago, I missed a dental cleaning. Months went by. Then more months. Months became years. I’d become *so* ashamed that I hadn’t been to the dentist that I couldn’t bring myself to make …

I (M46) seem to be a bit lost with what I want from my relationship with my partner (F44) — I (M46) was with the same woman for roughly 20 years until we divorced few years back. The relationship was good on a many level, but pretty practical. The emotional intimacy was there occasionally an…

Talking to a friend while they’re lucid dreaming? — I had the strangest experience of my life. My friend called me, and we had what seemed like a normal conversation until we realized something was off. I don't know exactly what it was. We got so freak…

Should I (29F) stop waiting and move on from my boyfriend (30M) of 5 years? — I (29F) have been dating my boyfriend (30M) for almost 6 years now and I think I have been very patient with him. I know not everyone likes this concept but a year and a half ago I told my boyfriend t…

Day 5 of quitting weed. Help! — I’ve been a daily weed smoker for 8 years, but I’ve used it on and off for about 20 years. I’m absolutely sick tired of being a prisoner to the addiction so I’ve decided to kick it. Day 5 - I haven’…

April 2026 Astrology: Key Dates, Weekly Forecast and Mundane Astrology World Events — April is one of the most active months we’ve seen. Not one planet is in retrograde. Aries fire and cardinal energy sets the stage for initiation, assertion and spontaneous energy. There is a bit of na…

26[M] and my 23[F] me and her just recently cut things off. — Things were going really good in the beginning, she was sweet and nice but I realized she was a very different and strange. Like maturity wise, she had so many issues she was very controlling when I’d…

That's a good question. I'd like to know the answers, too. Does she acknowledge the emotional neglect she experienced? Does she recognize some of the ways it plays out in her outlook and person today…

Yeah, most people break up not having tried couples therapy, or truly starting to fix finances, or many other things. They just get fed up from repressing resentment that could've been mediated by a p…

In my opinion focusing on two goals at once before you have a lot of success is just your unbelief talking. You don't believe you'll heal your issues through manifestation (at least for a while) so yo…

1. That doesnt disprove anything. It just means it may be more difficult. That's like saying mindfulness doesn't work because some people have ADHD.  2. Decent point but keep in mind some scientist …

The thing I’m noticing is that you guys take one thing someone said and run with it but there are layers to the teachings. It’s not simply that Neville says to imagine and it comes to pass, he mention…

I’ll take a crack at it Point 1: The answer is sm vs cm thought. Daydreaming is not focused with intent, the mind often wonders and you still feel it’s not true in the end or with emotions that are …

This is 100% a pattern for avoidant attachers. It’s referenced as the “vulnerability hangover” in our own spaces. It’s almost like taking an ice bath. You can do it for a while, like 10-20 minutes, an…

I would suggest you reread my comment again. I said I didn’t want romantic relationships to take up 80% of my life, which is a major and unsustainable deviation from the normal relationship pattern of…

I'm pretty sure my ex bf was FA. He claimed he was anxious but the trauma he experienced and his behaviors leading up to our breakup kind of point to FA. He broke up with me for just shutting down. Li…

i had similar requirements and decided on nomad : https://developer.hashicorp.com/nomad/docs/job-specification/scaling nomad seems to be perfect alternative if you don’t need cnis, pv, pki and hundre…

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Thank you I just love everything you wrote. I felt like despite liking me a lot, my ex DA would sometimes talk as if he had contempt towards me. As for one friend she definitely had some kind of "Im b…

I totally felt the same, like he loved me but had contempt anytime I had a need or comment that somehow threatened him. Like “yeah, so” turns completely cold::: and just sooo many easy ways out, shots…

My ex showed up as secure and available. He did all the right things up until literally hours before the abrupt ending. Then he unleashed the barrage of issues and fault finding on me. I was completel…

Thank you for sharing this. I'm happy you're learning and improving.  I messed up and have too much space. Because he was used to me being the one to reach out and instigate and start the conversation…

I am feeling lonely. Like I am not a priority to my partner. Yet? Or any more? Who knows? I know this is mostly her communication style over text/online. But in the beginning, we would call every da…

My two cents! 1. You say you’re in the state of “I could get up, but I do not want to.” This means you’re not fully relaxed or in the alpha state. If you’re really in alpha, you will struggle to even…

Hey, thanks for the reply. I'll do my best to answer as precisely as possible > 1. You say you’re in the state of “I could get up, but I do not want to.” This means you’re not fully relaxed or in th…

“And I'm just supposed to be cool with that?” At the end of the day, yes you are. I’m in the same boat except a bit older and I haven’t even had what you had. I know what you feel very well. There ar…

As someone who feels similar to OP, I honestly don't know how easily you can get that same type of feeling through these other things. I'm open to the idea but I guess it doesn't click for me. I hav…

Maybe I think of it differently, but it's really hard for me to believe what you're saying about putting someone else first never works/lasts. I want to though! A few of my friends are securely atta…

I hear you. I’ve also been there. Acceptance is tough because it feels like giving up, but it’s actually about shifting perspective. Friendships evolve, sometimes they deepen, sometimes they fade, an…

I hope he does respond. I tried being calm, Rogerian, active, passive, using card games like "We're not really strangers" (not an ad), and other things like Gottman 8 Dates. Ultimately it didn't work.…

Yeah it’s so great that you’re recognizing this now! It took me to my 40’s. Some incredible books that helped me were Attached, Boundaries in Dating although the authors are Christian and I’m not (I j…

Relationships are about compromising and giving each other space to do other things.  I used to tell my boyfriend we're not a science experiment gone wrong attached at the hip I am my own person,you a…

1) I am working on finding things I love to do for me that take a little brain work. I've been dieting and I am a big gym person now. The dieting takes planning and food prep and I try to share my new…

I need to vent and word-vomit my story, in this community, as I just found it and it might really help me. Can someone tell me what they think? My avoidant attachment gf broke up with me (anxious att…

Here’s some perspective. You barely know this person - it’s only been a month. He is still a stranger. People have lives and communication while overseas is tricky at best. Your expectations seem a …

I’ve started to accept I just need to meet people where they are. Some people aren’t the planners in life. They’re used to the people figuring things out for them and coast by. It doesn’t mean they do…

I can relate to this and give you some hope. You will get better. It’s not a quick journey. I am still struggling with it, but I get better every day. It is going to be hard, especially at first. Yo…

I agree! When someone describes themselves as empath I feel like usually there’s other things going on.

You already have expectations - you admit that you don’t want to just be friends. This is why you are experiencing all the anxiety. Plus you are trying to pretend to text with no expectations when rea…

Can you talk more about the “ptsd” like reaction and projection? My ex’s ex had BPD and he would often use words and phrases straight out of a BPD textbook to criticize me (like telling me I had a “co…

I addressed this in my disclaimers :) I get where you're coming from though, it’s a fair concern and one that I clearly have as well. Though it might be helpful to reflect on what makes you feel that …

So wait.....you talk to him daily on the phone and text...and you are still feeling disconnected? Are you saying that his only way to connect with you right now while he has his kids is not good enoug…

> The sub doesn't let me post That's weird. There are auto-rules that limit TOP-LEVEL comments for posts tagged as "Seeking Personal Stoic Guidance". You have to be tagged as a "Contributor". I do…

I've been through something very similar. Ultimately, you and this person have broken up multiple times. The two of you have talked about boundaries, problematic patterns, etc. Suddenly dropping o…

You should check out the book Nonviolent Communication!! There are free PDFs online if you want to try before you buy. I'm moving from AA -> Secure and it has been super helpful. The basic idea is: …

I know the feeling...I used to turn up my nose at the idea of seeking a relation cuz it seemed so needy. When I was a teen/young 20s I felt superior to the girls who were boy-crazy or "pick-me"s. I th…

I would suggest doing more self soothing first. Also ask yourself if there are any ways in which you could be self abandoning. Long distance relationships are not easy and tend to carry much more comp…

Absolutely a DA thing. My best friend use to do this sometimes, but over time and as he felt more safe to open up and such, he slowed down on that and I haven't heard him do that in like half a year. …

My brain always knows its not helpful, but my feelings or nerves need time to catchup. The healing takes time. Its important to feel, not suppress or run away, let it happen. It's like venom coursi…

Mine is triggered in phases. Overall avoidance is just deactivation. It feels like a complete disinterest, boredom, I am greatly distracted by other things. Avoidance with my SO will feel like guilt…

i mean, i think i am seeing progress. i have like a billion more miles to go for sure, but i feel like i have seen a lot of improvement within the last few years especially. like last year i ended a r…

Bf (M36) of two months and I went on a weekend trip to Barcelona and I'm now considering breaking things up. I still see what made me fall in love with him but I've seen other things too. Four m…

My unpopular opinion is that you’re not wrong. It can get complicated, especially the older we get. I ended things with someone because we didn’t have a romantic spark after a year. Other than that he…

Well it’s important to realise that rejection will always sting. No matter how many times it happens, it’s going to hurt. So it’s good to accept that. But obviously you don’t wanna be ruminating on …

I think you might be jumping to too many conclusions about being "personality pick" and not being attracted etc. >He has complimented my outfit and nail color, so it's not like he's immune to complim…

I (27M) met my fiance (22F) about 5 months ago through family. After speaking to her virtually for 2 months and then meeting her in person about 2 months ago, we got engaged. Now in the beginning of t…

For something low-effort, not really. We can bond over other things, like we go dancing together, and have some shared musical taste. We take walks together and chit-chat. But usually we end up with h…