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I'm not reading all that. This is not how relationships work. I spent 17 hours cheating on you but you want to spend 72 hours cheating on me and you felt bad after 15 hours so I will feel bad after 15…

My husband (39M) is annoyed that I (31F) always get sick after him. How can we find a solution? — Hello Reddit! Need some advice as I don't know what to do about this. It seems that my immune system isn't quite as good as my husband's. We have a 1.5 yrs old and we go to playgroups regularly, whic…

Self-esteem — Does anyone else feel like their self-esteem is a jenga block tower, and if someone just taps the wrong block, the whole things comes crumbling down? If I get even a simple reprimand at work, I'm cryi…

How do I handle being overly attached to male mentors in a healthy way? — Every time I get even slightly close with a male teacher or professor I turn them into a father figure in my head. (My dad drowned to death when I was 14). I don't ever do or say anything weird but I …

I (M29) want to break up with her (F35), but I’m afraid that neither of us will find can do any better. — I’m going to sound blunt and sober in the following paragraphs, but that’s only because I need direct advice, not Redditors’ moralizing. I’ve been with this girl for almost 2 years. I do love her an…

Did you manifested a Job with less payment but still trying to manifest your dream job? — For the last 10 months, I’ve been looking for a job (I quit my previous one), but I wasn’t able to get even interviews. I have a high-value skill set and work in IT, but for some reason I felt blocked…

No contact REALLY means no contact — I wanted to share my experience about going no contact. I feel like we all do it, but I find that even the smallest bit of information might seem inconspicuous at the time, but can actually throw peop…

Success Story: "I make $55/hr" 2 week streak F20 — To preface, I've had the knack for manifesting money here and there for around 5 years now, and I'm still in the process of fully realising my power and being in total control (ie having it come more …

My ex broke up with me over text 4 months ago [VENT] — hello, so idk who to tell this too, so im just gonna say it on here. My ex (16M) broke up with me (16F) around 4 months ago via text. This relationship almost lasted 2 years, and it was both our firs…

My ex broke up with me over text 4 months ago [VENT] — ​ hello, so idk who to tell this too, so im just gonna say it on here. My ex (16M) broke up with me (16F) around 4 months ago via text. This relationship almost lasted 2 years, and it was bot…

My ex fiancé ruined my life and it’s kind of my fault. — This is a long, absolutely insane story. So buckle up. I’m only here as a way to get it out of my head and because of smosh story time on fb. Idk I guess I like other people reading stories. So here’s…

Lied to for 9 months by My (28F) Fiancé (29M) — My soon to be husband (28M) misled me for 9 months on the timeframe to have children. I’ll start with I know I’m very headstrong about the plans in my life. He just wants to do anything to make me hap…

Brute forced a lucid dream — After several months of no success in lucid dreaming, I’ve decided to try brute forcing it. By staying up for two days straight using 600mg modafinil times perfectly and right before going to sleep 5…

So, I'm really confused about well....everything — I recently had an exam, and well....It did not go well. It's not like I didn't study for it, I DID! That's what making me feel really bad, because I listened to study subliminals while I studied and…

Love bombed again and I hate it — I’m so grossed out with myself for falling for it again. I didn’t want anything serious. Yet he went all in: flowers, sweets, introducing me to his parents and friends, walking me home… the perfect w…

My(25m) girlfriend(26f) wants to wait for sex, but I’m a little confused. — So, I started dating this girl a little less than 2 months ago. Before that, we knew each other for 6 months because we are co-workers. She started as a temp, but right after she got signed on full ti…

Getting past people's tone and into their message — I find that I shut down in a conversation when I feel like people have an aggressive tone. Like they may ask what I think, and when it's not aligned with theirs (and I say it neutrally and don't have …

Am I Overreacting for Divorce? — So me and my husband been together for some time and he is a liar, he tell big lies, he tells small lies for no reason, he said he can grow and I shouldn’t keep labeling him as a liar but then he lies…

Just a simple note about improving myself (Why I have decided to stay single) — Why have I decided to stay single? (if anyone even cares) See what I know is that, there is something fundamentally wrong with the way I love. As in, I love too much. And no, I am not tryna act l…

To clarify. Both FAs and AAs fear abandonment. The difference is that when those fears are triggered in the FA they will try to push the relationship away and act avoidant for self-preservation. AAs o…

Definitely... I enjoy getting to know her. I'm sure she's probably not there yet and yeah, I'm keeping my options open and looking elsewhere... It sucks because I don't get much attention or options t…

Yet another bizarre and disheartening OLD experience. Met this girl, we just went for a walk, but hopped in a cafe when it started snowing a lot. The vibe was really good, despite some small language …

I would look at that t-square, with Saturn opposite Mars, both of them squaring Jupiter. Mars in Virgo can be shy and never feel quite ready, Saturn opposing can feel restrictive to that Mars express…

Did dating get even worse in one year or did I just get ugly in the last year. Last year it was relatively easy to get dates and I had several guys who were interested in a serious relationship. I dat…

Been trying for many years. I tell myself I don’t have to believe this or try to change the perspective or try to think of actions to take to change the situations but literally nothing changes n some…

It really hurts and I wish I could tell you how to take the pain away but genuinely the best thing to do is go through it. He is using this new person as a crutch to avoid his feelings, it’s a distrac…

I cope by working out obsessively until I'm tired and want to sleep or gaming obsessively until I'm tired and want to go to sleep. Beats alcohol/drugs/anything else but it still sucks. I'm sure my lif…

You are well within the healthy range. This guy just wants you to get even skinnier to fit what he finds "hot". Your BMI is within the healthy range, and therefore your risk of weight-induced diabetes…

Never heard of DARVO but that's bang on what she's doing. Makes me feel like I'm going mad. Good shout on contacting the doctor directly. Reckon I'll ring her GP on Monday, explain what's been happen…

I was, thankfully, never harmed sexually as a kid. I did grow up in a chaotic and at times unstable family, where many of the adults weren't willing or capable of stepping up when needed. My mother w…

I don’t know why it’s so difficult for me to see when things are going so wrong in a relationship with men. I start seeing it clearer with distance and time. Now I am so annoyed how this guy didn’t va…

Goodness gracious, how in the world do you get 9.5, my avg is 5-6 and im lucky to get even seven, please teach me your secrets😂. Half a day is absolutely nuts to me, howd you manage that? Abusing wi…

Unpopular opinion but Asians are gonna go through natural selection, but I think we already have. The world's been global for about 60 years now so all the Asian women who wanted to got with white me…

The problem is is that I am at this point terrified of everyone especially of men. Anytime anyone especially a man starts to get even a little bit too close to me my nervous system goes completely hay…

You have no idea how refreshing it is to have such a pleasant debate around a topic thats always so heated, but, understandably so! So, thank you! I tend to look at a lot of things from the way thing…

It'll get even stronger as you get older and heal. You'll realize how much was taken away from you

Get a pack of butt wipes with aloe Vera and wipe your ass. Go to whole foods first of all. They have them right next to the toilet paper and they cost $4 for a pack of 50. Or if you want target even h…

People are typically on their best behavior during the first few months of dating. If he’s acting like that now, then it’s likely he would get even more jealous as time passed. You did the right thing…

Correct - for now, I choose to be in touch with her again, mainly because of my dad's cancer treatment, but I also know that if things get too much, I can choose NC again. Also, let's see how long m…

I’ve actually been shown exactly this, the upside is once we get over that hump thing’s get better, people need to stay true to themselves, keep their phones and devices out of their rooms at night wh…

One Piece and the smells on a ship full of SWEATY men is rough 🤡 I'm ranting about this because I cant do it enough... I'm not part of the main cast, I'm from the WB pirates and there are some par…

This is a god send. I can get even more now straight from the horses mouth or books I should say

I don't really have time for new skills, especially since I am already heavily invested in art. Maybe trying more art classes? But, I am working on (finally) getting my GED, so that indeed I will be a…

OP this guy sounds extremely weird. you said earlier he “didn’t know” you were younger. yet, he claims he’s afraid he can’t connect when you get older. both things can’t be true. he’s a creep that spe…

My nMother is similar in that when I was living with her, she was very abusive towards me. She constantly harassed me about non-issues and picked fights with me over nothing. Then after I moved out, a…

Astrology can determine looks, especially if you mean their “base look” (as in how they originally look). For glow up, not that sure as I’m no professional but my astrologer did tell me I’m someone …

It’s a mix of both. I feel like (at least part of) this sub might strongly disagree, but hear me out: If I sit on my couch and visualize groceries, the groceries will not just magically appear at my…

Im so sorry. It’s really important to try to get even a few tiny bites in. Protein shake…anything. This will help decrease the anxiety. It takes a while to get through this phase. And sometimes it mi…

Option 1: break off. If she hav cheated u once wats stopping her frm doing that again. Option 2: Get even. You also have uor share of sleep over and fun. She had told after a year, so dont break ma…

It isn’t that different than manifesting for oneself. See yourself working in a collective. See yourself and the collective helping the community See the collective grow These are some of the cru…

I had gynecological problems, by that i mean, penetrative sex sometimes hurted, i even went to a physiotherapist of the perineum to do exercices to relax it, because well i was previously raped numero…

The AI caricatures is by far the weirdest to me. It was going to get even weirder when he showed up on the 3rd date wearing a t-shirt he had made of your caricatures together, though.

He’s not going to divorce her because he knows you’ll see through him eventually and he’ll need a soft spot to land when you dump him. He’s using you both for his own comfort. Want to make him REAL un…

cia is going crazy trying to catch my team but they never get even close insane stealth abilities immune to all sorts of std's (including loved ones)

daoist practitioner since late 90s here. Cultivation is not generally about 'magick', although there are some lineages that touch on/work in that area a bit. Its mostly about 2 sides - one is purifica…

You need to leave him ASAP. Your self esteem will get even worse if you stay

Does anybody else struggle with memory gaps from traumatic events? Personally, I tell the truth to my therapist where I feel safe, but when in the real world I almost convince myself that things didn’…

He knows you have had an ED, he knows your doctor said you are healthy, and he CHOOSES to scream at you about eating meat and your health in general. He screams at you about your health. He is abu…

This is absolutely terrible, and I know exactly where you’re coming from. This kind of thing can break your spirit. People have to go through it to really understand what it’s about. You are made to…

Based solely on your writing I am going to guess your family is Asian or Eastern of some type. So is mine - so here is what I would suggest: - First, if not already, plase look into therapy and/or …

yes!! i think us humans sometimes forget that everything around us including us are magical. we are so used to being humans that we forget even existing in this floating rock is magic itself. we are n…

Oh hello! Welcome 💗 Manifestation is a ton of fun. Typically, people make their way into this space in order to get a specific thing. Something that if you were to get even 5% of it, your quality of …

This is it, I think. My needs were treated as burdensome and almost immoral (eg needing food every day, so selfish!) and I internalised that looking after me is difficult, and whatsmore, it shouldn't …

Its been over 40 years since D-day, and I moved on to a new life and a faithful wife. Even now I kinda wished I'd pursued the AP's wife (OBS), and made it fair. She contacted me about the affair. Man…

Don't feel embarrassed we all did the same but I would say get even and get answers even if it hurts they don't deserve to get away with it

So reading your post and the follow up comments til now….. Having a threesome isn’t going to do it for her because a) she wants chick on chick for herself not performative bullshit for you b) she alr…

Three days?!? If I forget even one dose the next day I’m in bed with brain zaps and vertigo and flu like symptoms. Effexor is no joke man.

I’m going through something similar and can’t seem to stop the anger at all. Him and his family ruined my reputation. I live in a very small country where everyone knows each other. So everybody think…

I hope you realise how reprehensibly selfish this guy is being with you, at the expense of your heart. He tells you he "can't be in a relationship", yet functionally adopts you as his girlfriend. Eve…