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Therapist here. He is upsetting you and making you feel stupid for his enjoyment. This is emotional abuse. The time and "tonight" and all of that is completely irrelevant. He understands what you me…

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Business told me they would ship my package today, should I contact them tonight? — Ok so basically I’m in a bit of a time crunch but I ordered a package based on the stated TAT of the company. The business owner told me she would have the package shipped out by today yesterday and i…

I had a breakthrough tonight! — Hello! Brief backstory here. I recently got divorced, and dating has been an interesting experience since. I went into one relationship very quickly with another anxiously attached person. It didn't w…

I think I'm in the process of healing, but it hurts so much. Feeling very forgotten and abandoned tonight — I truly recognize and see how much I've grown and how far I've come. I have so much self awareness, gotten good at soothing myself, talking to myself, even managing anxiety attacks. It's not always pe…

Emotional numbness. What happend? — I've been together for 5 years now with my DA (2 earlier break-ups 4 years ago). Every time we have an argument or a fight I go in complete AA-mode; cry, scream, chase, beg to resolve it right then …

Attachment in someone with no relationships? — Wondered this for a long time so it's oversharing hours tonight. I basically don't have relationships. I've overly attached with my mom, possibly even enmeshed, but that's it, and there's a lot of du…

"Love bombing" and anxious attachment — At tonight's Anxious Attachment Healing Group meeting, we read the following reading: **1. “Love bombing” and anxious attachment**  “Love bombing” is a pattern of excessive, intense affection and at…

a song about longing for something that never was - disorganized attachment style edition — lyrics: Who am I without wanting you? A shadow tracing something true There's a part of me that still holds onto you tight To every place you touched in my life I can't tell where you end, and I b…

Dressing To Impress For Dates (And Everyday Life) — My post is getting a lot of attention and since the daily discussion thread is going to be locked soon, I want to continue the discussion here. What I originally wrote: >This might sound bad, but is …

my(F28) bf(M30) thinks themed bridal shower of my friend is stupid and my costume is stupid. — I (F28) am a teacher and my boyfriend(M30) works for a company. we have been together for 4 years and are highly compatible. He has always been reserved and quiet and introvert by nature. i'm more of …

Aliens during 1 month patterning — So I've been doing the tapes for about 3-4 weeks now and practicing f12 a lot and I have practiced the 1 month patterning a few times and it usually always goes perfectly fine but tonight for the firs…

I just did something weird before bed and I'm curious if it works — 've tried every habit people recommend for adulting better. Journaling. Meditation. Gratitude lists. Morning pages. I quit all of them within two weeks because they felt like homework. Tonight I trie…

Another jackpot win!!! — Posted here last Sunday for my previous win. Won another $1000 jackpot tonight!

Has this happened to anyone in a lucid dream before — So to make this short, I don't ever lucid dream becausei don't know how to trigger it. In my dream I just became aware I was in a dream randomly I was in an unknown city in an unknown shopping mall wi…

My Fiancé kicked me out with only a few hours notice — This is the situation I am in. About a week ago my fiancé (25 M) brought up how he has some problems with me (25 F). We have been together for almost three years. He said he cant bring up sensitive to…

Dating over forty and living separately — I feel like I do better in relationships where we don't cohabitate. I'm autistic and really like control over my space, living with someone messy can feel very overwhelming. Also, I find that having …

17 months post being discarded by my husband for the other woman. — On 03/20/2026, I will be 17 months out from the night that my husband left me forever and went to his affair partner of a few weeks. I was shattered. On the verge of losing my excellent job because …

I'm sick of the state of this subreddit — I'm tired of it: I love lucid dreaming, I achieved it on a weekly level for years now and I love to read about people's experiences, sharing my own piece of advice, learning about the different techni…

I want to go home. — There’s bad nights like tonight where I just keep thinking “I want to go home.” I think it so much that I say it aloud on accident sometimes. I’m at my house now, that’s not what I mean by home. I ke…

So what do I do about this date...? — Scheduled for 9:00 pm EST tonight, so this is a real-time survey! M/54. Finalized details for the date yesterday via the app. Later that evening, I jumped on the app to send a follow-up message with …

Permashifting tonight — Hello.. I WILL be permashifting today, no "trying to" i intend to do it and I will I'm gonna leave a mark on thid world, but I must go now I've been trying and trying till I had an epiphany..y…

I hate my best friends boyfriend and I feel miserable — This is a small rant, but I just need to write it out to a bunch of strangers. Basically, my friend (21F) met her boyfriend (26M) a few months ago. They seemed to click almost instantly, which isn’t a…

Husband racking up credit card debt while we are divorcing — My soon to be ex husband and I separated in December. The kids and I left our house to stay with my family. My husband is a raging alcoholic and it was no longer safe. I was a stay at home mom for the…

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Just got some news. — We're three months out from finalizing the Big D. I still have a hard the saying the word. She wanted to get together tonight to "catch up on some things" and to go over possible tax paperwork since w…

I have to leave tonight, I'm not safe. Am I missing anything? — I'm 19(f), living with my parents in Alabama. Shit hit the fan last night, and my parents had me locked in a room all night without any of my devices. They physically hurt me and yelled at me and…

Girlfriend(26F) of 3 months slapped me(32M) in the balls for a third time — I (32M) previously explained to my girlfriend (26F) the immense pain that being slapped in the testes caused a man. We've been dating for about 3 months. The first time she said it was an accident a…

How do y’all feel when they try to reach out again later? — It took me a long time to get here, but I’ve been basically no contact for almost four years. It’s the most amazing peace I’ve had in forever. I say ‘basically’ because six months after I went no co…

How do I tell my AM that I don’t want to buy a property with my younger brother — So with everything being expensive af and home ownership in Australia being cooked, the only real way in is being is if you’re rich or with a double income. My AM wants me (26M) to buy a property wit…

My N mom started therapy and her first update made me sick — **TL;DR:** My covert N mom started therapy after I confronted her about her abuse. I told her to go work through it with a therapist before coming back to me. She found a junior therapist. After her s…

"You'll find someone eventually" — I'm just having a rotten night, and I just need to put my frustration into words. I hate when people say "you'll find someone eventually." Or "you deserve someone." Or "It will happen when you least …

Man who abused me died. — He was 66. Just found out. He keeled over in December. I’m going to drink Prosecco tonight and see if I can find his cause of death. I bet it was his rotten heart! He was a habitual dater of women wit…

Update on the method I’ve been using… — If you wish to refresh your memory on what I’m talking about, here my last post about this specific one https://www.reddit.com/r/realityshifting/s/kukQ3o3sc3 TLDR ; Found a shifting sub method that’s…

How do I F21 fix my relationship with my F21 twin sister after her M22 fiancée SA’d me? — I don’t really know how to do this I apologize in advance. A bit of back ground. I am a F21. My twin sister obviously the same age. We both live with our parents. She has been seeing this guy M22 for …

I wrote the perfect text to my ex. Read it back 6 months later and couldn't believe I almost sent it. — It was 2am. I was been staring at my phone for an hour. I had everything figured out. the exact words. the right tone. the right thing to but not too desperate, not too cold. just to be honest enough …

Out of body experience, just met, Jesus? Question mark — **Perface:** I have never identified as religious. I've been listening to binaural beats (4hz) lately, almost every night before bed. The intent is to meet higher vibrational beings. Tonight, I took…

People trying to manifest an SP back into their life. Read this — They are already yours Not tomorrow. Right now. In your mind, before anything in the outside world has changed. This is the whole secret. The outside world is not the real world. It is just the las…

Are there ppl who get lucid dream every single night consistently? That would be so cool. — I'd be thinking things like "what am I gonna do tonight in my dream 🤔🤔"

really struggling mentally when gf goes out. — me m19 and my gf f19 have been together for 3 months and it’s good except from the nights where she goes out drinking with her friends. every time she does it’s always last minute and i find out a cou…

How early is too early to bring up sex and libido? — So, per the title, I've just started seeing someone and we're getting along super well but before I invest much more time into things and catch feelings for her I want to understand where they are in …

Bi-location experience: Dark areas of the sun aka gravitational anomalies of the sub-logos — This was more a targeted bi-location/ongoing visions than astral projection, but for me there tends to come a point where bi-location can cross over into full astral projection. I'm one of those peop…

Shifters who argue with anti-shifters do more damage to the community than shifters who let the negative comments pass — While I understand the need to protect your beliefs, shifters’ job isn’t recruiting people into believing in shifting. Fighting anti-shifters in the comments not only wastes your time, but it also bri…

My full story 2 weeks since DDay 4 days NC — (Cheater fiancée 26f) (me 26m) (AP 46m) So it all started about 4 to 6 months ago I noticed that her drinking had become a concern she was showing up drunk after work very frequently and it was both…

I ran into someone who wronged me and almost lost my cool. How to handle this? — I am going to try to keep this brief. I had a hard time making friends as an adult. My best friend passed away in high school, and I know I romanticize a lot (as you will learn) but I swear I have ne…

Had my first breakthrough tonight — Demo: 42 year old Caucasian male from the U.S. Living situation: alone Medical diagnosis: AuDHD? Avoidant Personalty Disorder, Depression Educational/Career: Two Associate's degrees and currently…

I (32m) found out my partner (32f) cheated on me while she was away on holiday. She doesn’t know that I know. How do I navigate this? — So I’ve been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 7 years now. We’ve had our ups and downs and have started to go to couples therapy (and we’re still going), trying to figure out our relationship.…

where do i go from here? — hi friends, i’m not sure where to go to heal. i posted in a different thread about the situation leading up to my breakup with my now ex: https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/s/UQCEcqeyRU today is the…

My 10 yr relationship just got ended tonight at 9PM — I am writing this but I am still in shock and couldn’t process that on a random night, my 10 yr relationship just got ended. I cannot post in a wlw subreddit so I will be asking mg fellow women. For …

Regretted messaging her tonight, learn from me — Title says it all, I messaged my ex tonight. It’s not like we were in no contact but we were for a month after the break up, it’s only been a week since then and she’s reached out a few times and so h…

Boundaries for when partner is drunk / hungover — My (38F), partner (40M) has been struggling again time to time with his substance use. I left for one day this weekend to see my best friend and he had a friend over, drank too much, then went to the …

I will lucid dream tonight and all nights i will lucid dreams😇

Yes!!!! Once in one night, I kept getting pulled between here and “the other place”. I’ve been calling it that, assuming it’s another dimension or parallel universe. It was somewhere familiar but unkn…

Thank you so much for saying this. I said some things, calmly and collectively to my soon to be ex husband last evening, which were all true, but reflecting back today I wondered if he may have thoug…

Thanks! This was a really great guide! I just got vibrations tonight and am taking baby steps towards my AP goal!!!!

Sure! Some happen in conversation Let's take the example of a simple question to which you can answer with a yes or a no Example 1: Question : - " Do you want to go to the movies tonight? " ( You…

Great observation. Ever since I've had a situationship with an avoidant, I came to notice this a lot in songs. I've heard them written seemingly from the perspective of each side... more commonly anx…

Taking space from a group of friends during a prolonged outing (like in OP’s case): “Hey guys, I’ve had a great time but I’ve been feeling like I need to recharge my introverted batteries for a while…

Hi my name is Tim and I astral project I am a like it that much I am going to do it tonight if I can do it tonight I will let you know what time I’m gonna be there. In the astral realm of the night I …

hi , posting from a throwaway since my gf follows my main. i, 20f, am dating the most wonderful person, 22f. we’ve been dating for around 4 months now and are both healing from previous toxic relatio…

Text of original post by u/DaniT0n: Hello! Brief backstory here. I recently got divorced, and dating has been an interesting experience since. I went into one relationship very quickly with another an…

Text of original post by u/bleepbloooopity: I truly recognize and see how much I've grown and how far I've come. I have so much self awareness, gotten good at soothing myself, talking to myself, even …

First of all, I just want to say, I really feel your pain in this. Healing isn’t linear, and even when you’ve made so much progress, nights like this can hit hard. The fact that you’ve gone almost a y…

Hey I am tonight too if you need to talk

I needed this tonight. Thank you.

I guess that's fair enough. I'll be ruminating about it tonight.

Text of original post by u/Ierpapierlol: I've been together for 5 years now with my DA (2 earlier break-ups 4 years ago). Every time we have an argument or a fight I go in complete AA-mode; cry, scr…

I have been seeing this guy for 3 months and things have been wonderful. We’ve both shared that this is serious for us and we see this becoming a long-term commitment. Last weekend (before Thanksgivin…

Hey I've been facing some issues in my relationship. Need advice on how to fix everything. My partner very recently expressed her concern for my health and that i should really avoid drinking at all.…

A secure person would back off if the counterpart is displaying these signs. You take a step back and match their behavior, observe their actions. You’ve done yours : asked to make plans ect - the bal…

Text of original post by u/TheOceanTheSun: At tonight's Anxious Attachment Healing Group meeting, we read the following reading: **1. “Love bombing” and anxious attachment**  “Love bombing” is a pat…

Gonna try to give that woman at the bowling alley my number tonight... Oh I am so nervous. UPDATE: Uh, i apparently never noticed she has a ring on. I think its probably safe to assume she is not pol…

First date is tonight! Fingers crossed I at least have a pleasant time with him. I texted the guy I've been on two dates with to see if he's available this weekend, and he said he's sick and will let…

My fav sushi place has BOGO tonight and my bf is going out of town early Thursday morning , so I’m gonna have him over for dinner and surprise him to give him a good send off 

Yeah. The first woman I talked to who is ace said it out the gate, and I stuck around and tried to understand see if I could adapt to that, but I found out that I cannot, so we ended things there. S…

Had a coffee date with someone from Bumble tonight. The date went well. She has my number and I don't have hers as she said before the date that she'll only share it if the vibe is good. Should I mess…

Got some more disheartening news yesterday about my potential move closer to the city. Long story short, it might not be possible for reasons completely out of my control. I’m still trying, but it def…

Crazy to think that it took until tonight to FINALLY have my first good date of the year. Hoping there's a second, but at the very least I'm back from the depths of "oh my god I'm going to die alone".…

My ex of 3 years ago reached out after the turn of the year. She sent a sweet text and I’ve been exploring getting to know her again. She lives 2 states away, but I’ve even had the opportunity to see …

I’m going on a date with a guy I met through speed dating last week. We’ve been talking everyday, I’m excited to see him tonight. He’s emotionally available and has been open and honest with me, this …

M30 Hooked up with my ex f28 this last weekend after having not seen each other for 1 year. We only dated for 1 year to that prior but it was a fantastic relationship and neither of us has really done…

Third date cooked a meal at my place. She didn’t bring anything, showed up like 40 min late. Stayed for an hour because she just got off work and was tired. Didn’t even give me a goodbye hug. Didn’t…

I think it’s more a combination of both. I don’t recall her asking me a single question tonight and i think curiosity is a big sign of interest

Had a 6th date planned tonight after coming back from a work trip. She texted me first thing this morning, “Good morning! I might have to skip today, I’m starting to feel sick 😭”. I’m a bit bummed bu…

One of my dates this weekend cancelled. A friend of hers passed away earlier this week and she's, very understandably, not in the mood to inject more people into her life at the moment. She said she…

I’d love to trust the positive evidence. The last guy I went on a couple of dates with in October I believed him when he said I was gorgeous, I believed him when he said he enjoyed my company, I belie…

I do sometimes have that delusion but I also find it very hard to not analyse patterns and “evidence”. I prefer the delusions more, of course. I’ve said a few times about Schrödinger’s Boyfriend whe…

Tysm 🥹 I'm sorry you've had to go through health issues too. I have other chronic illness but they're currently managed, thank god. I just didn't expect to deal with yet another one so soon. I'll tr…

32 nb Update! I Am So Anxious!!!!!! Had an anxiety dream about 39m :( will know more after tonight I guess, but my gut on these things/my anxiety kicking in is usually right unfortunately! I would re…

Interesting. If guys are doing the driving, I always ask them to text me when they’re home, and if I’m the one doing the driving, most of them ask the same thing. The text is usually “Home! Thanks for…

Crying so hard tonight when I thought I was moving on. But the reality of it being over feels real and heavy. He's gone, and possibly more than one way. Like not with us anymore. Ever get your heart…

Had a dream last night where a trusted adult (like a therapist type person in my life. It was a dream, so not an actual person IRL) who advised me, “text him* ‘let’s make a baby tonight’ and see what …

Had a date planned for Sat night, sort of. She messaged me in the morning saying "Hey want to meet up tonight, I am going to see my friend play music at 8 but would be fun to meetup beforehand." I re…

1. Have a date tonight with someone new! 2. Got a little ballsy and told the guy I do like talking to that talking to him makes my week a little better - this was in context. See how it’s received I…

>I want to be hopeful, but I also don’t want to settle and don’t want to be pressured into giving up. I just don’t understand why it’s so hard… Idk I really don’t have a clear train of thought but fee…

When I said "let's go out next time" (as opposed to staying in which we did last time) he responded with "sounds like a plan!" and when I suggested hiking he said "I'll definitely take you up on that!…

Thought about going to a book club tonight but honestly I just don't have the energy to try. I really want to go but I don't think I am able to be my best self and don't want to leave a bad impression…

Feeling kinda down tonight :(

For me, the guilt hasn't entirely gone away. I honestly don't know if it ever will but I have found that with practice it's gotten a lot less... weighty. I was bad about this too. I grew up with an …

Date 3 with someone I'm excited about tonight; she wants to cook us dinner at her place. Too early tell what kind of staying power this has, but I do know I'm experiencing a kind of chemistry here tha…

So true!! Honestly, you're getting me kind of hyped. Maybe I'll see it tonight after going to the gym. I will literally listen to anything by Charli xcx, and this soundtrack is so dark and Moody and I…