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> The sub doesn't let me post That's weird. There are auto-rules that limit TOP-LEVEL comments for posts tagged as "Seeking Personal Stoic Guidance". You have to be tagged as a "Contributor". I do…
Introducing VPS Pilot – My open-source project to manage and monitor VPS servers! — Built with: Agents (Golang) installed on each VPS Central server (Golang) receiving metrics via TCP Dashboard (React.js) for real-time charts TimescaleDB for storing historical da…
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…
Plugin for editor, designer bylines? — Hello. Does anyone know of a WordPress plugin that would let me add bylines for the designer and editor of a blog post (not just the author)? UPDATE #2: Ended up paying for PublishPress (suggesed by …
For those hurting, advice for your 2026 and my story — Hello everyone, **Preface** I am an anxious attacher, so my experience by-and-large is with dismissive avoidants and fearful avoidants. It is not my intent to villainize these attachment styles; thi…
A Splash of Cold-Water for you — **Background** Hey everyone, I'm a contributor to this subreddit, and spend time lurking from time to time. I'm quite familiar with every attachment style. I, myself, had to earn security from my ow…
How knowledgeable are contributors? — The question is basically in the title. I want to know if the contributors are teachers or historians or you local taxi driver
I’m a 3 x National Champion in my sport and struggling — Hi, Not quite sure where to post so I thought here would be best. Happy to post in any other places if I have the wrong place and open to recommendations :) I’m my country’s current National champ…
Welcome! Read Me First. — # Welcome to r/Stoicism. This community exists for serious discussion of Stoic philosophy. It is not a forum for general self-help, motivation, validation, or professional therapy. It is also not a p…
People destined to do exceptional work in their fields — i was just curious to know if there is any conjunction or something very specific (not one but any such placement) that people had in their kundli which pointed towards them breaking grounds, not mone…
I let my marriage shatter my entire sense of self worth. — TW: Physical domestic abuse I’m not sure why I’m writing this here. I’ve never posted anything like this, I’ve always just been a lurker. Maybe I want to know if I’m not alone maybe I just need a pla…
I’m no expert on the matter, I’m learning about avoidants after being married to one for 19 years! I was always made to believe I was the issue in our marriage (I have ADHD) but husband is a huge cont…
Dating apps are a major contributor to people being unable to converse. The illusion of choice and someone else being a swipe away, just makes people put in the absolute bare minimum of effort. Or…
Don't really have any good advice of my own, but I relate and it's probably a big contributor to the burnout I'm going through... 😭 I'm happy to hear there are some people here saying they're doing b…
Not every relationship ends in some sudden and cold discard. In that instance I’d agree with OP. One of the main contributors with my ex and I parting ways was that once we grew up and matured, we r…
A big contributor is simply habits. We can be hard on ourselves and treat our problem behaviors as a reflection of us as a person. As in "I keep scrolling until 2am rather than going to bed and theref…
There is a reason the nuclear family worked for thousands of years, and I daresay we were better off as a society when we prioritized being faithful to one another, rather than promiscuous or 'casual'…
i agree with the other commenters. as a female myself i couldn’t fathom lying and telling my bf let alone my husband that we have the same ideas about something like that and then completely switching…
Yes it’s her body her choice. But it’s not her money her choice. You need to separate the reason for the spending vs the money itself. The reason is not relevant except that it’s not mutually agre…
Sounds like my marriage. My type of party was an impromptu crawfish boil, no frills. Everyone had a good time bc nobody felt pressured to perform. Her standards were so high that if it couldn’t be in …
It’s so sad that some people cannot even keep a basic awareness around hygiene. If you sweat, shower. It’s for one’s own health, but it’s also a social consideration, a basic cornerstone of etiquett…
(I’m probably not a good contributor here because I love no contact) but there’s a fantasy book I like, and the characters each have a specific skill, as alomancers: weaponry, strength, stealth — ther…
>ED does occur in this demographic, but a man that is secure, able to care for himself, and takes ownership of his health overall, will take the appropriate steps to get evaluated/start meds. Several…
Brother you are not getting it. Telling her what to do is not you telling her what you need. Have you ever been to therapy? I think you could really use the help in learning how to communicate better.…
Holy shit, THIS!!! My DNA contributors and my (now ex) older brother could scream in my face when they wanted, but me? I was always expected to just be calm and serene regardless of what they did to …
Explain to him that lack of sleep is a strong contributor to poor immune system. If he wants you to get sick less often, you need better rest! Looks like he has to do more parenting on a regular basis…
That's an interesting question! I think to get the contributor tag you gave to demonstrate some basic understanding of the principles of stoicism and demonstrate you can participate in a productive …
What I find incredibly interesting is that contributors have all sort of backgrounds. It honestly shocked me that you’re an artist, to be honest now I’d like to see the art you make. Nevertheless this…
"I'm just a dude playing a dude disguised as another dude" - I work in revenue intelligence/data analytics, so, just a dude. In all seriousness, I believe the flairs were to try and reduce the spam…
I found examples that posters shared, whether from their own personal everyday lives or from modern situations, particularly helpful for applying principles. The more varied experiences, the better. …
When I was growing up, my so-called family looked like a perfect Russian-Jewish family on the outside: always well-dressed, clean-shaven, designer clothes, financially comfortable, good food, well-con…
It is is helpful to acknowledge but just remember context is king. If you were talking to Alex originally it would be one case but what you offered to the contextual audience was good for the scope. T…
I think multiple things are happening for younger folks, but I think it might be more like under 35ish, the ones over 40 are more similar to us in upbringing. The younger folks grew up with a lot of…
I had severe anxiety as a kid. To the point of not being able to speak in certain situations. Poor self esteem. Stress. Just couldn't cope with life somedays... no doubt caused by a combo of emotional…
Here are those gems that stick with me ever since I was growing up: 1. "We're not your slaves!" (when I request something simple from my DNA contributors) 2. "The world doesn't revolve around you!" …
That makes sense! I think I heard that somewhere myself. I am sure that is a contributor. It's just weird because my morning anger is very irrational. I mean I get angry over/about stuff that is likel…
>He saw explicit messages and photos I sent, including things I’m honestly really ashamed of.I feel extremely embarrassed, guilty, and exposed. Sis, being guilty is not enough. Because this seems lik…
She can't be a passive beneficiary but needs to be an active contributor to the relationship. If the relationship is becoming stale or boring, it is her responsibility too to bring back the spark, not…
When he’s living in lala-land where he thinks he’ll be an equal contributor but is showing he is not and seems incapable of it - dude needs a reality check.
My biological dad is a POS but my mom and stepdad were the big contributors to my CPTSD. My biological dad did as well, but moreso later in my life. As a kid, I would fantasize about him actually bein…
Hmm. I haven’t thought about this before. This is likely at least a contributor to my dad’s anger issues. He is profoundly dyslexic and had nothing to explain it until my brother was diagnosed with …
Being overweight can be a contributor to snoring, but it’s far from the most common reason.
Same sentiment here. The Contributors and other posters alike share interesting nuggets. The original posts themselves can also serve a purpose.
Yes somatic illness is an underrated contributor to many many long term issues. Your body will heal with you.
They seem completely unfamiliar with how to buy a house. These are questions the loan officer will ask, guaranteed. $48k annual income is a risky buyer, and a secondary co-signer and contributor will …
Same here! I always thought it was because I had a desk job before but after reading so much about CPTSD I think my work is only a small contributor.
My nephew is still extricating himself from a similar situation. He and his girlfriend lived together for probably 5 years. Bought a house after she got finished with a Court Reporting Diploma - pay …
I grew up in a super Asian part of California went to a super Asian elementary and middle school than went to a much whiter(but still decently asian private high school(cause I was a spoiled brat and …
I recently watched the PBS *Independent Lens* documentary about San Francisco Lowell High School, *[Try Harder](https://www.pbs.org/independentlens/documentaries/try-harder/)*. One scene showed a gues…
I worked the first 15 years of my career in aerospace engineering, which was absolutely a "good old white boys' club," with no advancement beyond going from junior to senior level engineer. I transiti…
A lot of people think management should be the best individual contributor, which isn't the case at all. It requires a completely different skillset in a different environment. That means not doing th…
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I’m really enjoying dating the person I’ve been seeing for six months. I don’t know what the future holds, and I’m really tuning in with my limited capacity for uncertainty today. Usually, by this ti…
Develop your sense of self. Your desires and intentions. Intention is most important. Your intent is to be a good student, a contributor to society, while haing fun and not pulling any others down wit…
You're already contributing to your household as much as you can! A wealth imbalance can feel very uncomfortable, but as long as you are both happy, it's ok to allow him to be the breadwinner as he is…
Your egg donor is wrong and disgusting. Your sperm donor actually didn’t—doesn’t love you because he’s not capable of love. After all, parents who actually love their children would never react the wa…