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Geez, I don't have any idea how to use ChatGPT but I ask google complicated, detailed questions and get fantastic information. This IS a valuable service. I am not sure that libraries CAN do all that.…
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🕊️ Community Reminder: Respectful Dialogue & Open Exchange — Hey everyone, We just want to take a moment to thank all of you for helping make r/AstralProjection one of the most interesting and supportive spaces on Reddit. Every day, people from around the worl…
Feeling alone because my partner lives in his own Fantasy World — Recently I discovered I am a Codependent. I've been with my boyfriend for about six years, and he has this habit of always engaging and interacting by talking a lot about marvel or superpower fantas…
A Lucid Dreaming Technique I Accidentally Discovered (Using Multi-Sensory Daydreaming) — Last night I accidentally triggered sleep paralysis while drifting off, and it made me realize a pattern that has happened during several of my past lucid dream or sleep paralysis experiences. I thin…
Potentially unpopular opinion re: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents — Just finished “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents” by Lindsay Gibson after seeing several recommendations for it on subreddits like these. I thought the book had some good info, and I’ll a…
Insane Similarities between Gateway Experiences and Vedic Hinduism — So I asked Claude to cross reference all the gateway documents and manuals I uploaded to it with Hindu Vedas, Upnishads, Puranas and Patanjali’s book on Yog and only limit itself to these sources. He…
Something mentioned but not talked about, Serotonin. — What do we know about Serotonin? \-Its produced in the gut, \-Low levels often correlated to anxiety and depression \-Happy hormone, not to be mistaken with dopamine , the pleasure hormone where …
How do you approach talking about sex in a new relationship? — I (23F) have recently started dating someone (25M) for around two months now, and we recently had a conversation explicitly about us being exclusive. Our sexual chemistry is definitely there, but we h…
The western treatment of Korea's feminism in hindsight. — A Korean feminist's post that I encountered on twitter made a good analogy. If a group labels itself a disability rights or working class organization, it doesn't tell you about their full political l…
She Came Back — She came back. Not in the traditional, melodramatic sense. Not after begging and pleading, or compromising, or settling. And not because she was bored, or guilty, or having a weak moment. She …
How to visualize effortlessly and vividl — I want to keep it simple. Visualization should not be difficult. You should enjoy it. I often tried to force visualization to generate a feeling. But forcing visualization means you are trying to se…
Wave 1, Headed to Wave 2 Update: No “Clicking Out,” but dealing with the “Leaky Box” and intense spinning. — Hello, I just wrapped up Wave 1. I’ve been consistent once or twice a day, and I just finished Track 6 (Free Flow 10) tonight. I seem to have a pretty high lucidity threshold—I don’t really have the …
My ex (30F) and I (30nb) broke up 6 months ago and I want to vent about it — After dating for almost 2 years and living together for 6 months my ex broke it off and I had to move out. I am a trans nonbinary person (AFAB) and the day we met my ex knew I would be pursuing gender…
Breakup with fearful avoidant — So I just want to tell my story of how the breakup is and how I assume that the person who broke up with me is fearful avoidant after analysing what happened and what was going on. I want to get some …
Looking into the Abyss — ​ For 15 years I lived with a man I considered responsible, honest, hardworking, and who loved me in a profound way, so profound that even facing unemployment, financial setbacks, what I thoug…
Welcome! Read Me First. — # Welcome to r/Stoicism. This community exists for serious discussion of Stoic philosophy. It is not a forum for general self-help, motivation, validation, or professional therapy. It is also not a p…
I’m trying to be healthy through a deactivation.. — I have somehow managed to be in a relationship for about 9 months. My partner is an anxious attacher so it has been tough, and I have currently hit a huge deactivation state. Obviously my social media…
Continuous thinking and dialogue in brain — How can I reduce it ? I’m new to meditation as in 2-3 yrs. I do breathe meditation and body - main source is thich naht Han videos on YT. I’ve been able to do 25-30 mins sitting meditation a year …
Picking a therapist feels like a shot in the dark. Would non-professional video help? — Finding a therapist is weirdly one of the hardest things ever. I scroll through a directory, read a few generic bios that all say "I use a holistic approach" and "I meet you where you are," then meet …
Intense trauma externalisation integration experiences? Gestalt chairs — I have started with gestalt so it is still my preferred trauma coping tool subset, it's pretty aligned with how I feel and with ig how I work in general. I have been going to psychodrama workshops und…
When your partner breaks your trust! — I know I am very emotional and sometimes I just say certain things when I am very very emotional and eventually regret it and this led to a breakup This reminds me of a very famous dialogue from the …
Advice, Tips, Anything? — My first time ever posting - I am at a loss and going through it. I was with someone for going on year 4, the past year and a half was VERY on and off again. This person is avoidant in nature. Has…
Therapists keep pushing SSRIs, but I want to focus exclusively on talk therapy. How can I set this boundary effectively? — Hi everyone, I’m currently struggling with a recurring issue in my therapy journey. I have a strong personal preference for a non-pharmacological approach to my mental health. I value the process of …
Unsure how to approach first contact after a traumatic breakup and structured no-contact — I’m looking for an outside perspective because I’m feeling really emotionally overwhelmed and I’m struggling to reality-check myself. I recently went through a breakup with someone who was both one o…
🥹 heard someone from my DR while I was idly contemplating — I was sort of doing a half-serious walking-meditation to music and thinking of the scripted circumstances in which I arrive in my DR and when my mind went quiet for a moment I heard someone speak to m…
thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. in my experiences i was chased and pursued. i think of my past romantic relationships as miscommunications based on skewed beliefs and perceptions …
Sure! Some happen in conversation Let's take the example of a simple question to which you can answer with a yes or a no Example 1: Question : - " Do you want to go to the movies tonight? " ( You…
Oh man, I am anxiously attached and I act a bit avoidant now in dating. It always shocks me! My therapist is my securely attached figure. When I have some internal issues going on, I actually imagin…
I understand. Glad you are working through those feelings. I hope I did not come off judgemental. I definitely don't think that your feelings are irrational (I might agree with the inappropriate part …
Sophia NLU (natural language understanding) Enging released, with full specs and online demo at: https://cicero.sh/sophia/ For anyone deploying conversational chat bots at all, and is alternativ…
Yes, I edited, and yes, my comment contains some judgement (besides mostly description and perception, ie. judgement-free language). Non-violent, 100% judgemental-free Rosenberg communication, to me…
Highly suggest this for meditation. This is the description of the video and audio file. https://youtu.be/r6a_EnUG180?si=-x7_b4mf2JSIjBG2 Taygeta, one of the seven sisters bright star visible to the …
Actually rn im thinking that im the mix of AA and SA. I reread many dialogues with my exes and came to the conclusion that my reaction to them pushing me away was actually very healthy. I expressed my…
My partner is FA and I am a DA leaning earned secure. He definitely brought out some things in me that I had yet to address. We lived together for 1.5 years. Much of it was tumultuous. I moved out aft…
I liked that message too, if in doubt I would have tried a dialogue
Thank you, this is amazing advice! I just have to be brave enough to ask for what I need even when my issues are telling me there's danger, because I know logically that there is no danger whatsoever …
I don't personally think this belief is accurate because as a gay person, pretty much every single couple that I know met by hooking up first. And I'm talking about people in long-term relationships, …
If it’s happening on social media please consider avoiding this content to protect your mental health. I don’t think being carpet bombed in negativity is good for anyone, but if positive internal di…
To start as an anxious preoccupied attacher it helps to get into our heads. Avoidant types can have a disposition that leaves a more anxious person feeling unsure of their stance with them, leaving th…
Well. Like everyone in this sub I seem to have anxious attachment tendencies. While I do not externalize them I do struggle with periodically reoccurring „attacks“. These attacks aren‘t substantiate…
Thanks for the reply. Drew is fun and I think willing to compromise with me (as I am with his needs and preferences as well). But sitting on the couch and realizing you havent been able to say anythin…
I don't have *any* issue with adults choosing to date other adults with a large age gap, but your conversation with your daughter... good grief😆 >*"You don't look like them, you don't act like them,…
I've been practicing Radical Honesty (the branded modality you can learn from books & workshops) for a couple years now and it's been the #1 thing that's helped me. It's not "brutal honesty" or whatev…
Can make famous suddenly Rahu is illusion, so rahu is hype, rahu is how u can show urself as high Like the game of thrones dialogue "Power is like shadow, and a small man can cast a very large shad…
lol so if u looked at my post/comment history then u will know what u said is not true😂and browsing through your comments you seem to make sweeping generalizations. I try to make my posts informativ…
I think you should maybe try a different approach. It sounds like you internalized whatever the issue was and decided you were the problem. Saying “hey it sounds like I did something wrong and I’m sor…
active insight through dialogue via nenspace
Hello. I don't think it's wild at all tbh. I am being told what I deserve, of course I am going to feel one way or another about it. And yes, I was not given a heads-up about many of my partner's feel…
When I first came to this thread, I was a mess. It was about 6-7 years ago.. I finally sat down and did the real work. It’s gotten easier to develop new belief systems. I am definitely not the same pe…
This is the best answer and yes, he’s not going about it in the best way. He should be trying to have more of a dialogue instead of just “testing”. However, he’s 100% feeling unwanted. And is 100% i…
Same here. Plus the way they edit movies and shows now with so many cuts. It's too visually choppy for me to watch. I miss old movies and TV shows where the actors could have uncut dialogue with both …
“Hey, I feel like I’m always the one who initiates and it makes me feel like you aren’t attracted to me and that you acquiesce out of obligation, pity, or some other reason. Could you initiate more?”…
Oh wow…. A universal example of every relationship ever…. Sarcasm aside: For every one failed relationship with people who tried to talk things out instead of secretly test each other, there are hun…
"Grasping at straws" is hilarious coming from you right after you choose to home in on the meaningless semantics of "issue" versus "feeling" while ignoring the fact that he literally begins the very n…
So far in the research that I’ve done on this and Neville Goddard stuff, Law of One etc. It’s fundamentally about changing your internal dialogue and perception of self and the events around you. When…
Damn OP I wish my ex told me this fuck makes me spiral again into missing her... We shouldn't have ended like this 😔 this was fixable situation, just needed time and solid dialogue.
Is it robotic affs, inner dialogue, SATS, meditation or what? Do you push the 3D or wait for life's green light?
>Should I just straight up say "I'm enjoying chatting with you, do you want to meet up sometime?" That's what I do after a variable amount of time that is different per person. I've asked some girls …
I had a really harsh inner-critic & focusing on others for years was an energy-consuming distraction from it. When I started to really listen to the Self-attacking voice, I was taken a back how much t…
Agreed. Those cuts are so jolting in a way; like having someone hold up one picture in front of your face and suddenly switch to another and have a ribbon of choppy (sometimes even seeming more like p…
My ex did the same thing. She was diagnosed with a lot of stuff but not schizophrenia, it could just be a trauma response from not feeling safe or just having a very negative internal dialogue with hi…
my partner actually used to have aphantasia, though I believe it was dissociative in a sense because they also used to be able to visualize vividly before some trauma. With practice, they were able re…
Oh wow, I'm so sorry you crossed paths with a sad lowlife like that. It takes genuine courage to reach out, and don't you dare let a disturbed asshat make you retreat. We NEED more people engaging in…
Sit comfortably and allow the internal dialogue to stop, it's like a weight being lifted off of one's shoulders. Buddhists say that the mind is like a lake, when the lake has no ripples (thoughts) on…
Ppl who love to take what you just shared and makes a point to one up you for sympathy. The whole “Oh you have the flu, well I’m suffering from pneumonia” line of dialogue. It’s always about them.
All right, I’m going to rant now: \-There are very few ways you can glean a good lesson from the film beyond the obvious and trite “don’t be afraid of who you are.” If Rumi is half demon, but we’re s…
The entity (Interdimensional Non-Human Intelligence, INHI) must be the same for me and other colleagues who meet in the "MindIntrusion" subreddit. It manifests itself in different ways to each person,…
Right there with you. For me it’s my intelligence and wealth, I just don’t feel as intelligent and financially well off I drained my life savings, equity in the house to entertain the relationship, a…
>No doubt, passing knowledge down generations is immensely important. But I'm not convinced we're doing that any more. You have shoe-horned "and technology" into this sentence - quite literally, the g…
What you’re feeling is actually very human, and Stoicism doesn’t ask you to shut that off. Stoicism will bring you into more enriched relationships as you learn to manage what relationships are, what…
My thought is why waste time engaging in dialogue with a Redditor who believes that you’re not obliged to give a shit about what’s happening to your partner unless it’s serious enough to require hospi…
Just because he’s your partner or you live together doesn’t mean he’d need to be responsible for your dog while you are away. You could have a friend or dog sitter look after them. The question is, wh…
Since no one else has mentioned it, let me point out that you have a 12th house sun very loosely opposite a 6th house moon in fall (conjunct the ruler of the 7th). Neither of these are placements that…
Easier books help a lot. I can read a YA book in an afternoon. Graphic novels and other illustrated works can also help with engagement. I just finished one called "We Came Here to Starve", mostly tol…
If your state says you are an adult after 18. You really need to contact police for assistance in helping you pack up you and kitty without being harrassed or assaulted. What your parents did by locki…