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Are my parents neglectful?(This is the 3rd arguement we've had and I still feel like they aren't listening to me)

I'm so sorry to hear that your parents are treating you this way. You deserve to have caregivers who can connect to your emotional needs and help guide you. All of what you said definitely points to …

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/4/2026
I’m a 3 x National Champion in my sport and struggling

I’m a 3 x National Champion in my sport and struggling — Hi, Not quite sure where to post so I thought here would be best. Happy to post in any other places if I have the wrong place and open to recommendations :) I’m my country’s current National champ…

r/selfhelppost3/26/2026
Been struggling with the question of her being a narc or me coming on too strong and chasing her away?

Been struggling with the question of her being a narc or me coming on too strong and chasing her away? — \*\*I am sorry if this the wrong place to post this but I could use some perspective.\*\* First time dealing with a girl who may have been a narc. We met about 2 years ago during a visit to her home …

r/NarcissisticAbusepost4/2/2026
How do I stop being an alien?

How do I stop being an alien? — All my life, I have felt alien around other people. I am fairly certain of the reason why, as I have been diagnosed with autism for the majority of my lifespan. I have always watched movies where the…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/5/2026
I (29 M) never have fun hanging out with my friend (29 M). I never really have fun hanging out with any friends. Does that just mean I don’t actually want any?

I (29 M) never have fun hanging out with my friend (29 M). I never really have fun hanging out with any friends. Does that just mean I don’t actually want any? — I’ve always dreamed of having a core friend group who cares about one another the way a family does. I imagined living a full life just with friends and feeling cared for by one another in a deep and …

r/relationshipspost4/5/2026
How do I break the loop?

How do I break the loop? — Hi all, I know this isn't the place for actual medical help but I've been on the waiting list for support for 15 months and I'm at the end of my tether. background: U.K. based Male in my late 20's. I…

r/selfhelppost4/7/2026
Controlling parents

Controlling parents — TW maybe abuse warning, SA mention, Self harm, what i consider as animal abuse, more of a vent.. Unfortunately, I'm a 24yr old stuck at her family's home because I can't afford to move out. I've be…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/9/2026
I struggle to shift from lucid or astral projection

I struggle to shift from lucid or astral projection — I snap back really easily from any sort of the three types. (Shifting, astral, lucid). It only takes minor excitement for me to get pulled back, and I really want to permashift at some point once I’v…

r/realityshiftingpost4/10/2026
After you move out of your narcissistic parents’ house, you realize how much work you have to do on yourself after all the years of them fucking you up growing up.

After you move out of your narcissistic parents’ house, you realize how much work you have to do on yourself after all the years of them fucking you up growing up. — At first, you think, “Wow, I finally moved out. I did it.” And it is, of course, a big achievement, because having narcissistic parents makes it much harder to be independent. But then you start to r…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/10/2026
Recently diagnosed..

Recently diagnosed.. — recently diagnosed with this, and, well, I don't know how to process anything. it's already hard enough dealing with everything else that's going wrong mentally, physically, lifewise and I KNEW I had …

r/CPTSDpost4/12/2026
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I am new to Reddit as of today, so forgive my lack of knowledge if this is the wrong place to ask this! Also I’m new in the AP world, but I have an open mind! I’m going to start going through some of…

r/AstralProjectioncomment12/10/2022
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Reddit is the wrong place to ask this. People here are much more puritanical about age gaps than anyone in real life.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/16/2026
Took the stock advice and joined social activities to meet people. Here are my results.

My two best friends live in Washington State and Oregon. I live in Ohio. I have met more people traveling than I have ever met living in Ohio. Sometimes, we're legitimately just in the wrong place. Wr…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/22/2026
Are there any “they can do no wrong” placements?

North node conjunct sun.  Would also love other people's comments on this aspect. You're growing into your self but you are yourself at your core. Seems like a do no wrong placement to me. 

r/astrologycomment3/6/2026
The Cheat Code to the Universe

Energetically I agree with you completely. I just think "Be Nice" works best because it includes feelings (love), thoughts, words, and actions. Its a prescription on what to do. If I told you to Relax…

r/Meditationcomment3/7/2026
Ex going on dates and hooking up

I think this behaviour is def more common with men, but still not normal. It speaks to his character… People with low self worth will seek out validation in the wrong places. Try not to compare yourse…

r/BreakUpscomment3/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 12, 2026

No I am around her no matter what each Thursday. We're not dating, so I guess this may be the wrong place to even bring this up, but I thought crush advice would be acceptable.

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/13/2026
I think my 32F 36M boyfriend lied about me passing out during sex

Breath play is very dangerous, and not something that should be common place. Pressure in the wrong place can disrupt blood flow. Not breathing, but much faster loss of conciousness.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
My mother sent my childhood abuser to my home, after I have been successful at making sure he never knows where I live.

Update, I have read some of the replies and they have been so heartwarming for me to see people actually care. I now know I really need to let her go. I don't really have family, so I have been trying…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/17/2026
Girlfriend(26F) of 3 months slapped me(32M) in the balls for a third time

There are so many people here giving you advice that have no idea what she was doing and I think you came to the wrong place for this. She’s a submissive and she wants you to dominate her. She’s pick…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
How do you guys manage?

I just think you have no place in the sub promoting sex workers. You’re not looking to date why are you here? Sex workers are good for people who wanna have sex without feelings? I think most people h…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/20/2026
Why do people always say “everyone has trauma”

This is the CPTSD sub. Do you know what causes CPTSD? This is not a chapter. My life is defined by a series of trauma. I think you might be in the wrong place.

r/CPTSDcomment3/22/2026
I lost everything to the war and I'm completely broken. 7 months of daily 6-hour work gave me nothing. How do I not give up?

First of all, I’m extremely sorry you’re going through this, nobody should have to suffer like that. I’ll give you some hard truths here, you have based all of your hopes on a single thing. Money can …

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/22/2026
​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it?

“Omg she left me because I put her keys in the wrong place!” You know that’s how he’s going to spin it.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
Fake stoics?

I stood up for myself, provided evidence to prove him wrong, walked away, and blocked the 2 people involved 6 months ago. This was a somewhat traumatic event that has involuntarily stuck with me. I a…

r/Stoicismcomment3/23/2026
Are there any pro-escapism AP communities out there?

Why is it that when I asked if you can exit your form and wind up basically returned to the wrong place, I was told no? Isn't what you're describing in that same family of events or possibilities? I…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/24/2026
Are there any pro-escapism AP communities out there?

> My main drive for getting into astral projection is (hopefully) proving that this material body isn't the only life/material existence I'll experience I think that is a valid reason to AP. It certa…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/24/2026
Are Lower Doses Often Unpleasant?

I'm gonna be honest with you man, I don't mean to discourage you, but if you expect this path to be all pleasurable, you are in the wrong place, psychedelics can be very unpleasant at times, working o…

r/Psychonautcomment3/24/2026
​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it?

It sounds like he has a form of OCD where things that are “out of place” upset him, but that it’s mostly subconscious which is why he keeps doing it without really thinking about it. Try leaving you…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/24/2026
Navigating ego, experience, and opportunity in the music industry (Stoic advice needed)

Congrats on the success so far! I’ve worked in the industry, it was my career fresh out of college. I know first hand the challenges you are describing and I also know how rare success is to find. …

r/Stoicismcomment3/26/2026
Focus 15 help

Well I just started 15. I like to do each tape multiple times so the first few times I do it, I just kinda float around and see what’s there. But with nothing to see it was odd and unnerving. I could …

r/gatewaytapescomment3/26/2026
WARNING do NOT do the whimhoff breathing exercise while DRIVING! (I crashed)

That’s not exactly accurate. OP chose the wrong place and time, but there is a purpose for all types of breathwork. Under the right guidance, breathwork can have a similar effect as a psychedelic expe…

r/energy_workcomment3/27/2026
the “meditate 10–20 minutes a day” advice is why I never stick to it

You're asking the wrong place. Everyone here has bought into the false idea that doing it more = progress. So much so that they track every second of every day, and becoming fixated on it.  Well let…

r/Meditationcomment3/27/2026
r/datingoverfortycomment3/29/2026
My boyfriend (M25) saw an old video of me(F24) and was disgusted. How can I get over this?

It’s really just an unfortunate situation. Nearly every human being on the planet has made a negative remark about someone’s appearance at some point in time. It just so happened that he made his co…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
Anyone here unable to work due to Cptsd?

Answer look up.. Written on the wrong place

r/CPTSDcomment3/30/2026
20 years of a "loving" marriage, then a 6-month double life. Seeking to understand this mindset from folks who have 'lived experience'

„Loves two people“… Yet, one is informed about what is going on and the other isn’t. One got a fair (unethical) shot, the other is kept in the dark. That’s not love…it’s just the twisted version of…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/30/2026
Being age 46 has been….difficult

Thank you for your post. It seems you are in good company. I’m 49 and twice divorced. I thought I had it all figured out with both those marriages. I’ve spent the last couple years feeling the regret …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/31/2026
Used to get yelled at for crying

I’m so sorry. I hate that there’s even this pull to mention that you’re aware you need therapy like, as if you’re already bracing for people to harshly tell you that in response :( and I completely un…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/1/2026
How do they do it?

your self-awareness on this issue is commendable :) I too struggle to enforce boundaries with people and have been trying to learn how to do it without feeling guilty, I like to help \*where I can\*. …

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/1/2026
I still love him after he cheated - should I stay or give him a chance?

He most likely didn’t talk to „other people“ on a dating app to escape personal issues. That’s not the reason. It’s the excuse that fits his flawed narrative. Let’s assume the following. You have (a…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/2/2026
In what ways does the energy of the place you were born in influence you?

the birthplace works on multiple levels simultaneously. technically it sets your ascendant and house structure, so same planets but completely different life architecture depending on where you landed…

r/astrologycomment4/3/2026
What gives you the ick as you heal and your emotional maturity increases?

Before, I used to be this "safe space" for everyone to talk about whatever they wanted, and it was also with no-judgement and my constant stretching of my perception to embrace who they were, without …

r/Codependencycomment4/3/2026
Movies That Accurately Portrayed How Parental Neglect Effects Somebody?

Frozen. Anna desperately seeks love anywhere, even in the wrong places: She almost married a malignant narcissist (can relate), whom she couldn't distinguish as such due to her lack of any other fri…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/4/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Hi everyone- this is my first post so please forgive me if it's in the wrong place or already answered somewhere!! I have been through lots of counseling and more recently 5 months of a complex trauma…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment4/6/2026
Is the only way out to die?

My more negative, short-term coping is: YouTube (excessive media consumption) and sex. I've made a lot of progress on my media consumption and finding better balance. I used to zone out for 3+ hours …

r/CPTSDcomment4/7/2026
Do you know where happiness actually resides?

It’s totally a mind set! Glass half full/glass half empty. I agree it comes from within. We can have small moments of happiness from possession, or gratitude for what we have, but even that gratitude …

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/8/2026
Does the shock/cognitive dissonance ever dissipate…?

I’ve come to accept more and more that it had nothing to do with me or who I am at my core. I was just in the wrong place at the wrong time. Yes, I was targeted for my emotional vulnerability and desi…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/9/2026
I (24M) haven’t told my girlfriend (23F) of 7 months how broke I was when we met. Should I?

I think you should tell her and see how she reacts. It’s legitimately a sweet nice and impressive thing you did. If she reacts negatively, it’s time for you to reevaluate the relationship. It’s an ind…

r/relationshipscomment4/10/2026
Did anyone else laugh when terrified as a kid?

I was in a lot of car wrecks as a teen. I only caused one, but I was in the wrong place/wrong time for the rest. Dad would get so angry at me. He said I always sounded like I was having fun when I ca…

r/CPTSDcomment4/11/2026
How do I forgive myself for being loyal to my mother?

Oh so what Ink. Can we only support one kind of person when they show up in the wrong place? So many gate keepers in this forum. Everybody willing to live in a box. It still deals with an issue o…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/11/2026
My (33M) partner (32F) revealed something about herself in a moment of vulnerability that feels like more than I can non-judgmentally accept...

She expressed regret about it. She revealed a moment of personal trauma and growth. Haven't you done anything that you regret and wish you could take back? Because I know I have a list.And I grew from…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026