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How Can I Protect Myself?

Something that caught my eye in your message - and could be the clue. "gentle" words "personable" boundaries. In my experience, boundaries need to be hard. There are certain people who are alway…

r/energy_workcomment4/11/2026
My (30M) spouse (32F) is pursuing a creative career and does not make money?

My (30M) spouse (32F) is pursuing a creative career and does not make money? — We have been together since college. When things are good, they are very good. We generally get along quite well and enjoy each other. After we completed our higher education, we moved across the coun…

r/relationship_advicepost4/9/2026
6 months+ of OLD and IRL, 2 dates total …. So what motivates you to “get back on the horse”?

6 months+ of OLD and IRL, 2 dates total …. So what motivates you to “get back on the horse”? — Note: cross-posted from [r/datingover](r/datingover50)[fifty](r/datingover50) Late 50’s M here who’s emotionally / physically / financially fit, active, and personable, yet unable to find a date eve…

r/datingoverfortypost4/11/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Just some pattern observation: I (36F) am cute and interesting and personable and almost always get asked on a second date. But from there it seems to go two ways: 1) I see an incompatibility and end…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 26, 2026

i'm just getting back into dating again and have a date lined up for this weekend. but what i've learned about myself in the time i took off from dating is that i'm a very nervous/anxious person even …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/26/2026
did anyone else become excessively jealous/paranoid while with narc ?

100%. It's extremely common. They can be extremely charismatic, personable, flirty ect. And frankly they are not to be trusted anyway because they also cheat like crazy.

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/8/2026
For guys who have no trouble getting dates on OLD, how do you filter for good personality?

So what's physically attractive to you? What's a fun woman to talk to like? Part of it is you have to be comfortable swiping left on incompatibilities, no matter how physically attractive they are. …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/17/2026
I (29F) slept with new guy (34M) for the first time and felt he was rude to me. Was he?

Yes I agree, I also thought self-focused too. He seemed to put a lot of thought into what he was wearing to the gym that morning. We use to work for the same company for 6 months prior to this and he …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
Are there still FWB’s out there?

^ Op, try being attractive, personable, and establishing a connection through conversation first.

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
My fiancé (38M) and my (33F) different mental states when we wake up is causing friction?

When I am forced to get up early, I literally cannot acknowledge another human being for at least an hour. It’s not how I “feel,” it’s simply how it is. I can’t control it. It’s just how my body and b…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
My (21F) boyfriend (26M) met my parents and it didn’t go well. I want a strangers opinion on the situation?

But you don't know if that happened... You're making assumptions and using your own trauma to prove a point. And there is something to be said about holding your own in social settings. You're quie…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
Google engineer rejected by colleges uses AI to sue UCs and others for racial discrimination

The 16 of 18 really stuck out to me. To get to that ratio with good scores I feel like he had to either had to have been so unpersonable that every interviewer that they had very negative comments or …

r/AsianAmericancomment4/10/2026
6 months+ of OLD and IRL, 2 dates total …. So what motivates you to “get back on the horse”?

Original copy of post by u/Tuckerpooch: Note: cross-posted from [r/datingover](r/datingover50)[fifty](r/datingover50) Late 50’s M here who’s emotionally / physically / financially fit, active, and …

r/datingoverfortycomment4/11/2026
No one seems to be asking questions

I hate texting and messaging but I am a lot more outgoing and personable IRL. On my profile, when I had one, I'd specify that I was better in person. With the apps, it's best get off them quickly and …

r/datingoverfortycomment4/11/2026
No one seems to be asking questions

With the apps, it's best get off them quickly and MEET. I hate texting and messaging but I am a lot more outgoing and personable IRL. On my profile, when I had one, I'd specify that I was better in pe…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/11/2026
How Can I Protect Myself?

Thank you for great answers! How does one fix a "tear in one's aura?" This might be what is happening with me? I feel unclear about what is happening with me. I feel unclear why, the described situa…

r/energy_workcomment4/11/2026
How Can I Protect Myself?

Yes, this does make sense! Thank you. 'Gentle' , 'personable' I can understand wby those words make my situation sound unclear. Previously, my tone of voice tended to be "get the hell outta here and…

r/energy_workcomment4/11/2026