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So you "did psychedelics right" and he's "doing psychedelics wrong"? And you are certain enough of this to write an entire essay about it because you deem yourself more "enlightened" than he is? Isn't…

Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…

FA breakup & prolonged limbo - does avoidance calcify over time or can it still reverse? — I’m hoping to hear from people who’ve been through something similar, FAs, or anyone who has opinions on this. I was in a 2 year relationship with someone I later realized is fearful avoidant (I didn…

Mission success (progressive goal structure for social media growth) — Hi everyone, I just reached my first success story which was reaching 10k followers on TikTok. I used the progressive goal structure process and initially started with 5k and then moved to 10k. Li…

I've been shown how our inner narrative creates and shapes our worlds — So I've been asking for more knowledge and guidance from my guides about how can i feel like myself again after period of suffering. (i was also asking my human guide-my therapist and got answers from…

Is it true when a woman ‘mentally checks out’ before they break up, they never come back? — I have been watching a range of YouTube videos, and a there seems to be some agreement amongst some of the videos that once a woman checks out she never comes back. Is this dramatising or is there t…

Shifting — Okay so during my life I’ve had multiple instances where I shifted without ever trying. The first time it ever happened I remember waking up at 11:42AM a couple years back. I was annoyed I woke up so …

Overarching Energy of the Libra Full Moon on April 1st, 2026 — This Full Moon is all about our responsibility when it comes to our relationships. We are reminded to balance what is external, creating harmony without sacrificing self. The solution isn’t  about “we…

​Sense of "dissolving" into the world and reality solidifying when I focus. What is this? — I am using a translation tool to write this post, so I apologize for any unnatural phrasing. ​I have two specific experiences I'd like to ask about: ​Merging with the world: During meditation, I oft…

Creation is finished — Hello, I’m back with another post. Id like to point out an additional aspect of Neville Goddard teachings that I feel is often misunderstood….especially in regard to my last post…where i state tha…

Is reconnecting and getting back together a possibility? — 5 years ago, my ex and I broke up. We were fresh out of college. I was 25(F) he was 24(M). We had been together 2 years. 2019-2021 so all through Covid. We had our last quarters of school together and…

Is reconnecting and getting back together possible? — 5 years ago, my ex and I broke up. We were fresh out of college. I was 25(F) he was 24(M). We had been together 2 years. 2019-2021 so all through Covid. We had our last quarters of school together and…

Do you give them a reason? — I (52F) have been seeing someone (44M) for a couple of months now. We've been out 5-6x. I'm finding that our communication styles just aren’t meshing. When we’re together, things are great. I enjoy sp…

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

I think I’m a DA (one test says DA the other says SA but I don’t feel that). I get like you do too, it takes emotional effort to try to connect with people, and it’s like a minor trauma when it’s not …

With more of those specifics I would say that part of what you are suffering from is the fear around how things have changed and will look different naturally. However you are personalizing it, as in…

Absolutely. It was enough today just to talk about solidifying our plans for Saturday it's all good

Agree. I went to a bar-cade with someone as a first date one time and it was dreadful. She was a lot of fun and we had a good time and it went well but it wouldn't have been as stressful if we would h…

Seconding a full 10-day Vipassana meditation retreat. Changed my perspective on what meditation is and is not, or perhaps can be. And an actual glimpse, albeit brief and could be what amounts to a f…

Oh wow, so sorry you are feeling this way. I am just starting the process but I imagine it is so hard. It was me deciding for years to leave, but now he is so mean to me and wants to win at all cost…

Great question. None of them were overnight. That's actually the most useful part of the pattern. 1917 conjunction → Russian Revolution unfolded over about 3 years (1917-1920). The conjunction was th…

This man is over the relationship but trying to make you the bad guy for it. “She dumped me over the birds” would help solidify him as the victim and you as the bad guy real fast. Fortunately for you,…

OP u/yolkyFanClubPrez, This above comment suggests he is not showing up due to no interest to learn/expand himself sexually. Another a take is he doesn't know how to improve. Clarifying this w/him wil…

Thank you so much, it feels good to read. I think this is deactivation, because this is not thoughts I would have about somebody else. If someone else is living in a relationship with a partner with c…

Totally get what you mean about staying in that imagined moment. It's so easy for doubt to creep in and try to pull you out. I used to struggle with that constantly, feeling like I was fighting my own…

Having a prenup in place before already solidifying that she probably wasn’t of good character to begin with is just the cherry. Her gaslighting you and essentially being in another relationship while…

Something I notice when I enter a neutral energy state or "close off" people will not leave me alone. Even when I have politely explained they refuse to listen. When this happens I recoil and it will …

I totally agree. OP isn't finding the right person because she's putting the wrong energy out there. After her divorce she needed to take as much time as needed to sit with herself, solidify her self-…

This hits me right in the heart. I feel like I’m grieving the loss of the child who was “going places,” and I’m just frozen. I’m about to turn 30, and the closer I get to my birthday the more depres…

!Thankyou. Yes I am really thinking this as well. But a part of me wants to her the weave of lies and bullshit she will come up with. See how much truths she will share. It won't change my plan b…

Edibles can get too intense quickly. I once blacked out while staring in a mirror, suddenly my consciousness became outer space with a galaxy in it. I was luckily still standing when I returned to my …

By the time many women end a relationship, they have often been unhappy for a while and may have already processed a lot internally. So when they leave, it can seem sudden, but for them it usually was…

Don't do it. Going ghost will hurt her more long term. She will forever wonder about you, especially when her rebound dies out. If you message him it will just solidify the breakup as a good decision …

Yes, that's important for people to understand. Good call out. One of the first principles I always remind myself of it that ignorance limits choice. (The thief does as they know), knowledge expands…

I was very happy and thrilled from the moment I moved out. I didn’t feel any depression at all. I was just super excited about freedom. (No children). Of course, marriage itself was hard and the proce…

It kind of sounds like maybe you need to be honest with yourself and your boyfriend. If you both test and only one of you has it (provided you use protection and it works) the answer is self explanato…

1. Scorpio rising 19 degrees 2. 0 degrees Aries retrograde 4H (Placidus, what I use -- otherwise it's 6H in WSH) 3. 3H Capricorn at 23 degrees, 4H Aquarius at 29 degrees 4. Saturn **trine**: Sun in Sc…

I feel like they always were but I didnt start picking up on it until years in because I wrote a lot of stuff off. But once I saw it, anytime I took and psychs that became the goal. And its a lot easi…

First off, I’m crushed that this happened to you. You seem like someone who is able to pause and self reflect in difficult moments. Considering that you feel confident in her behavior I would recommen…

reading stuff like this really helps me solidify my beliefs. thanks and congratulations 🎉

I’ve talked to multiple of my nex’s exes and they all share very eerily similar stories to mine. It helped me solidify that I wasnt crazy and what I was going through definitely was real & it happened…

My cousin did try to… people do notice. I know for my cousin, she knew my mom would charge her for kidnapping. I realize now it was really complicated but my cousin is also the one, along with a thera…

What really works for me is the classic WBTB - Wake back to bed. Of course, nothing happens when I return to bed (well, sometimes it does and I get into a sleep paralysis so I can project, but not fre…

u/No-Spot-4577 I was used to do the same because I remember reading many times "just stay away from your body in the bed or you'll be attracted back", but well, I prefer to go the the mirror in a diff…

Thank you I’ll try this next time! I think usually the situation is kinda dicey so I immediately want to change it or leave but I’ll try to just take a moment to solidify myself in that moment

look into astral projection. there's so much more research on OBEs in general, especially astral projection. i believe the act of shifting is an OBE, but being in my drs doesn't have that feeling that…

Very good, you're a healer! You can use that same state of mind to heal others, but before you do, you would do yourself good to keep healing your own chakras so you can build up a kind of 'financial …

First thing is to check in on your son. Has his behavior changed? Is he more withdrawn? Is he able to talk about how he is feeling? If you suspect that he is being emotionally abused you need to take …

The only reason it's hard is because we were all taught bad habits (hard to blame them when, as i say everywhere we are the FIRST generations to know the ACTUAL TRUTH - so it's our job to pass it on) …

I hope that by then she will have better settled into her position, as by our due date she will have been in that position for exactly 9 months. Thank you for acknowledging that I am not only at fault…

No, you're not a horrible wife and please don't let that falsehood solidify in your head. Your feelings of being alone and neglected during the pregnancy because of how absent she's been are completel…

Was it hard to get the Cease and Desist at all? Also yeah, luckily my mother only really has once source to act as a flying monkey- my brother- and he's done with her behavior, too. Like, literally j…

I would honestly suggest trying to convince your partner to voluntarily commit to a private hospital if at all possible - they’ll likely be able to provide better care (& keep him there longer to real…

I can’t tell you how to get into sleep paralysis because it was spontaneous and involuntary for me, but I can give plenty of advice for once you get into SP. My sleep paralysis disorder phase lasted f…

Well, it's interesting, it may be because it's not the right technique for you. I don't know how you do it, if you do with closed eyes just by trying to wait for something to happen, in this case some…

If you can do that then by all means, great. I wouldn’t say to then stop doing that. But I’d ask yourself …or anyone reading this …if they’ve actually accomplished that in a way where they are no long…

Not regret per say, just sad that I had to leave. I was hurt by what he'd done to me and his complacency during our relationship. I have no ill will against him, though, despite what I may have felt w…

I could have written more of this post than I'd like to admit. Once the threat of divorce wasn't enough to sway me I said, "okay, yeah, let's get a divorce then." Finances were difficult (read: he did…

So when people make flakey plans with me, I clarify. Once they agree and solidify the plans I block off the time. If they give me noncommittal answers, I will say well if this isn’t solidified by XX I…

Yes, anyone who has “spontaneous” in their profile is a left swipe for me. Usually means low effort but even if it doesn’t mean that, I’m not available spontaneously. 😁 As far as following up as yo…

To me it's just floating around. What you need to do first is concentrate on something simple in the environment like a wall. Start seeing its texture, possible paint etc. This will solidify the surro…

My guess, as a woman, is the ones dancing around meeting are not truly interested. They may be looking for validation or a penpal. If you can't solidify plans by the weekend I would unmatch and move o…

Original copy of post by u/LaterThnUThink: I (52F) have been seeing someone (44M) for a couple of months now. We've been out 5-6x. I'm finding that our communication styles just aren’t meshing. When …