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So you "did psychedelics right" and he's "doing psychedelics wrong"? And you are certain enough of this to write an entire essay about it because you deem yourself more "enlightened" than he is? Isn't…
First “bad” trip taught me a lot - sharing my experience to help others — I’m 28m, good job, good relationships, physically fit, happy overall. Experienced tripper with several high-dose mushroom trips under my belt. Always had positive experiences. Took 4g mushrooms today…
Advice needed in relationship — I need to share something, i sometimes doubt if i see things clearly or not. Im feeling very hurt and confused. And i dont know what to do. Thankyou for reading it. I met my boyfriend 3 years ago. W…
So my sister assaulted me and I’m the bad guy — Physical assault by my sister My sister is in a field that’s kind of small but very respected and she just graduated and is teaching her peers now her craft. When my family came down for her graduati…
Can someone wiser than me tell me why love isn't enough? I mean, I've read why. I've read all the posts on here. I still cannot get it to click in my brain. — We were together for 8 years, 6.5 of those years were long distance (For context: 4 hour drive apart. We both had some family situations in the last couple years that made ending the long distance dif…
psychedelics keep telling Bryan Johnson to grow up and he doesn't — Hey everyone. I'm sure a lot of you have seen Bryan Johnson's psychedelic experiments by now. The Don't Die guy: 100 supplements a day, thousands of biomarkers, got blood plasma from his own son. Over…
Anytime they bring it up say, “I’m not happy right now because I lost my job. It’s a very difficult time and while I’m happy for other people it doesn’t change my day to day struggles right now.” Do…
As they say, once you've gotten the message, hang up the phone. When you feel the need to go back you can go back, but right now if you feel you're in a good spot, you're in a good spot. Savor it and …
“When you get the message, hang up the phone” I took a looooong break from substances, it was great at first. Slowly it faded, as does everything with the human mind. Years later I came back, and I’…
Distance. Like *in-another-country* distance. For *years*. No showing up on my doorstep without warning. I can hang up the phone on verbal abuse. I instantly don't have to deal with unilateral expecta…
In a way, it was worse. The narcissist's wife, whom I knew, had been very successful professionally. So she had a hold over others in terms of power. She could use her position, and the narcissist use…
Jfc, that was a trainwreck. I feel for you since you sound young but respectfully you need to stop letting your mom butt into your relationships like that. She's just going to keep doing it and honest…
All the time. Hanging up, and also turning their phone off. Its a form of silent treatment. So they have the power as to when they want to communicate, etc. etc. Over time, this made me crazy. Especi…
That is precisely the problem. If you place a boundary with them, it has to come with consequences. It cannot be something like, “I don’t appreciate being talked to like that. Never again.” They will …
That’s a you issue, find your spine (as nicely as I can say that, without any animosity), if he keeps pushing back, you tell him this ‘conversation isn’t productive’ and hang up. Literally, hang up th…
You need to set firm boundaries when you talk with her. If she violated the boundary, give her a warning. If she violates it again tell her goodbye and hang up the phone. This does two things, first …
Honestly, there were many warning signs and I guess I’ve always been the type to try and see the best in others. In the beginning of our relationship, I’ve noticed inconsistencies in her stories and w…
You are allowed to break up with this man. Alternately, you can tell him "I will no longer listen to you complain about things that you are refusing to fix." If he starts to complain about his clothe…
The bigger the ego the longer it takes to really get the message. It's not time yet for Johnson to hang up the phone. His ego is strong.