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My mistake. I read "have" when you said "haven't" as in you "haven't" been to each others' houses.
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2 monts into breakup. Here's what I'd tell my younger self. — 1. **Zero Contact.** Unfollow her, and if necessary, unfollow people in her inner circle. I unfollowed her **close group of friends** and her sister. I have absolutely nothing against them; I just don…
Out of a delusional episode and have quit drugs, but evidence of something "wrong" with saying it was delusional has emerged today... — First off do me a favor plz, google for "what is the electrical phenomenon some stipulate is needed for a timeline shift?" yourself and tell me if it throws in the answers anything about a change in S…
For those who've dealt with hierarchy being a factor of there emotional what was it in plain view as in a parent or caretaker forcing obedience or more a subconscious thing. As in your not outright being order or forced to confirm but still end up having your own desires considered lesser.
Praised as "gifted" — TL;DR: Did you recieve praise as a "gifted" child? Did your family never encourage effort and only praised results? As an adult, because of this, do you now find doing the things you were praised for …
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! - PART 3 - IT'S YOU! (NOT ME) — THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS!- **IT WAS/IS ALWAYS YOU** Never me , nor anyone else. No post in here could make you get all your desires, no coach could teach ya all that you wanna know about…
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! - PART 3 - IT'S YOU! (NOT ME) — THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS!- **IT WAS/IS ALWAYS YOU** Never me , nor anyone else. No post in here could make you get all your desires, no coach could teach ya all that you wanna know about…
one day you’ll wake up and have a flashback of what I was in your life. That’s when you’ll understand why people say you can’t find the same person twice in life, not even in the same person
Worked out as in you got him back?
1. Daydreaming that makes you feel emotional isn’t what Murphy or Goddard are talking about. It is about feeling the reality of what you want to have happen now, that is the feeling. Emotions might co…
Love the question!! You don’t need a relationship to grow, that’s the beauty of it (you can but it will be slower, depending on what kind of partner you end up with) You could try to explore being mo…
You're absolutely right to question. This is such the norm in the dating scene, it's crazy! From my experience, what I can say is that you're definitely dealing with a DA type here. Idk if you got int…
>But if you were me and you had just discovered attachment theory, wouldn't you at least try use that new information to work on a solution? I think EVERY anxiously attached person in an anxious/avoi…
Its really heartbreaking when you view it this way, but suddenly all the puzzle pieces fall into place. Theres even scientific studies that back this up. When parents don't touch their kids enough a…
I’ve dated someone who was in your mental state before, I haven’t had a chance to say anything to her as I’m keeping her in the no contact zone. Now that I understand more and put a lot of effort into…
So idk what kind of “problems” came about that changed things. I also am not sure if what you experienced previously was something that could have been sustained over long periods. As in you both had …
I have been poly and have had good experiences with it (returned to monogamy though bc my partner is mono) but I would highly advise you against it as well at this time. Your primary relationship is …
It’s cool. I’m not too broken up about it. She was cool and all, had a good time, but I think there was something off. Probably was in your case too, but that’s a good thing, it leaves you open for th…
If I was in your place I would also be saying this, yet I can't apply it to myself.
Personally, id have told my friend that I already had made plans and unfortunately couldn't make it, especially if partner was traveling. Maybe overthinkinking thing but if I was in your partners posi…
Not saying either of those about you.. I was just saying that when I was in your shoes with a very similar situation earlier, it was the first of those two options - I didn’t think there was compatibi…
For me, if i was in your situation, I would not have sex without protection, ever. But that is just me ,and I think you should do what is best for you not him.....
None of that was in your OP so I didn’t miss any point. And you can be an asshole and still be shocked you got broken up with.
Give you mother (and anyone else in your life) the heads up because she WILL move to someone else and its best if they are not in your family/friends circle otherwise you'll get "hey your ex wont stop…
I was in your position and I left. Biggest regret of my life. Work on it if you can. I found out post separation that I’m a dismissive avoidant, and it all made sense after that. If I’d realised this …
I’m gonna be honest here brother - you are young, no kids. Leave this woman, keep going to therapy, and become the man that attracts women who value you. The only reason she even told you is because…
I was in your shoes for too many years. The 'people talk' BS was just that, the only people that talked was her. The only people who don't think your best is good enough is her. It didn't matter wha…
"I don’t know if I’m making the biggest mistake of my life by leaving the best person I’ve ever known." Even if he is the best partner in the world in every area, but doesn't have sex, none if it mat…
Dude please help me out man. I was in your exact same position and I’m thinking about breaking no contact too. We ended in really good terms but she left me because she was overwhelmed in her life and…
When you persisted in the knowing ? Did you just tell yourself it’s done as In your scene is done ? Or was it more like it’s done meaning you’re together ? A bit confused on what you did for this. And…
I was in your exact situation with the same woman twice. The first time she had an affair we were young. I forgave her too quickly and I didn't do what was truly best for me. While I don't regret our …
yeah I really get that. This is a thing with this space, but that isn't on you in any way. There is no clear cut way of processing trauma and symptoms and identifying with a label before being diagnos…
That decision to stay was wired into you from your entire life to that point. It was in your childhood and in everything that's ever shaped you. None of it is your fault. You said ex husband, your lif…
If i was in your place I would just randomly get up and open and close the door. I'd even go far to just open the door and stand there waiting for him to check on you and just deadahh stare at him whe…
Please, please get your child into counseling before too much damage is done. I didn't when I was in your position and the negativity my kids got from him was stronger than the positive they got from…
Pick the birds. I was in your same situation a long time ago and I gave up my beautiful cat. The relationship didn’t work out anyways as she ended up cheating on me. I regret everything. I miss you, D…
This is a really positive sign. Not everyone can get there in the same way, as it depends on the kind of “content” that was in your family system that you absorbed when you were trying to bond. Som…
Honestly, you have a really good chart. Jupiter, Mars, Venus and Moon in their own sign, Sun is also exalted and i can also see many Raj yogas in your chart. Although, Saturn + Ketu is in 7th house …
As a woman who is from the same cultural background, was in your exact situation (did well in school, etc) , and had kids very young...get an abortion. It is a very simple medical procedure, and you …
I’m nauseous. Pls stop. 😂😂 Trust me, I was in your same spot. I barely got through dinner, and that was by only looking at my plate. Barely ate and was starving prior. That whole date was pure tras…
First of all AA's have to relinquish their need for control, their attachment to a single outcome. Then if anything doesn't go exactly as it is envisioned it doesn't mean a date/partner doesn't view …
Similar kinks along with some others here. Wife isn’t into them, but she will read the fuck out of them in her books too lol. Nothing to be ashamed of first of all.. he needs to understand that at t…
Please listen: if you maintain your commitment to getting better, you *CAN* do this. The pieces are in place, you just have to keep going. I was in your husband's position with my very emotionally/ve…
Came too late as in you don't want to try to work things out? Or your ex is moving on?
I can tell you from first hand experience that it will not improve. It will little by little become a bigger issue for you and it will bleed into other areas in your relationship. It's a sucky situati…
Yeah, I heard that too, 120k later. Thats because she feels guilty right now. Once the contempt sets in you’re just someone to stab. I recommend you take my advice, advice I wish I had, from someone w…
I can’t believe the similarities in our stories, but my husband had an affair for over two years with a coworker. I found out a year ago, and at that time, it had ended 9 years before. As in your case…
I was in your position too and I know how hard it can be… especially when you know they want out and are purposely hurting you. What you did was very brave… you put yourself first and that’s so import…
I'm so sorry you lost your Dad. I know someone who was in your position45 years ago. Life did not turn out well for him. You need a job. Any job. It can be a volunteer job, but do not start doi…
Its kind of normal to ask for context. Dont get me wrong women can be predatory and its obviously something you dont want to relive but as a guy id want context if a girl I was with was in your shoes.…
Mate you need to leave. I was in your position. I believed that the only outcome where I as a father/husband haven’t failed, is one where I keep my family together, regardless of the personal cost. …
I was in your spot literally 4 years ago today. She has retroactive jealousy. Protectiveness can be isolating, which is subject to mental abuse. I didn’t know I was isolated until I brought this up to…
Because a man can have sex with another man and still be bisexual? Are we even talking about the same thing? As in your either gay, straight, bisexual, pan etc. But to me you're not simultaneously ga…
> Ever since he’s been making snide remarks about me needing more friends, even going as far as saying “just because no one likes you doesn’t mean no one likes me” when I advised we just elope. It mad…
They don't have to be "our" (as in yours and his) places anymore, they can be "your" (as in you alone) places. Don't let him spoil or suck the happiness out of the things you love.
I was in your position - Bottom line to be successful you must date. You cannot just find someone to replace what you lost. Doing that will open you up for manipulation and or further disappointment…
I can never quite understand why Asian men are so angry. My dad is the same. So many tantrums and bruises. I became a giant scaredy cat up to my early 20s. I don't have great advice or anything like …
Hey man look, I don't know if you feel this way, but If I was in your shoes, being 31 years old and assuming you want to settle down, I would get the fuck out of there. To kiss a stranger is one thin…